Online friend rejected after a month of dating

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

My online friend who has a hard life found a girl of his dreams and got attached and they dated for two months but now she just broke up with him, should i try to convert him to mgtow?

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

I wouldn’t try to convert him but I would offer him advice and see if he will accept some of the truth (Red Pills) we know of. If he seems receptive feed him some more Red Pills leading to the introduction of MGTOW.

Ultimately I would ease into it. That’s my advice.

[EdogParticipant 254]

That’s the problem…he found “the girl of his dreams”. He was dreaming. He needs to wake up to reality.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Voidraithe wrote:

I wouldn’t try to convert him but I would offer him advice and see if he will accept some of the truth (Red Pills) we know of.

I agree with this. You can’t convert someone to go their own way, but you can educate him, which enables him to make rational decisions in regard to women. Knowledge is power.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Don’t try to convert anyone.

Tell him about MGTOW. Then let him make his own decision.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 1]

Cap285 wrote:

Don’t try to convert anyone. Tell him about MGTOW. Then let him make his own decision.

Could not have said better

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Toss out the red pills. Allow him to accept them. It’s the same as convincing anyone of anything. They must choose for themselves.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Just write mgtow.com on a bit of paper or email it. Subject should read …. ‘for information purposes only’

Let him choose.

As Mae West said

“you can lead a whore to culture but you can’t make her think”

😆

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

I’d recommend not trying to force mgtow on him.Feed him some red pills, one at a time. Eventually once he’ll have eaten enough of them he’ll probably see things as they are and will choose to go his own way.
Forcing mgtow down someone’s throat is a bit too much for much people to handle, because, well, truth hurts. 😀

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 12]

Tell him the “Girl of his dreams” wouldn’t dump him in such a way after a month. That might wake him up a little, but don’t push MGTOW he would still be in a world of hurt right now. Just help him wake up slowly.

[Anonymous 2]

I’ve been in exactly the same spot as your friend.

F~~~ing harpies leading you on and on… I hate it as much as the next MGTOW.

But it is reality so whatever helps yoru friends to get a firmer grip on the truth, would be best.

ABSOLUTE truth only.

[Silver SurferParticipant 3]

As others have said, you are in a very bad situation.

First off: give up on any idea of revenge or making life hard for her. You want to de-escalate, get out and away as smoothly as possible. I would definitely not put her things on the curb, that is likely to make her even more crazy, and she is crazy.

I would accept her apology and tell her she really scared you. That might make her ashamed and act a little better. I agree having someone else there in the future is good. I would tell he you don’t want to see her at your house again.

The guns are a problem. I would not feel comfortable giving a gun to someone who had recently assaulted me. Could you return them to a family member, explaining that you’d appreciate them holding the guns for her until she cools off. Another idea is to put the guns in a locked case and don’t give her the key or combination till a later date, or mail it.

Or let her figure out how to bust into it. What you want to avoid is handing her a gun, watch her put bullets in it, and shoot you.

I think the storage locker idea is a good one too. That makes it clear that you are “doing the right thing” in keeping her stuff safe, but also put separation between the two of you.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Edog wrote:

“the girl of his dreams”.

He is speaking directly from his penis, the brain is obviously out of order…..

Don’t try to convert him, mention it.

Try to point out that there is actually a difference between thinking with your c~~~ or using your brain.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

He wasted two whole months on this woman?

That was his first mistake…

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Suggest to him that he look at MGTOW and post a question or experience on the “Relationship Forum”.  Tell him a lot of guys would be interested in his story.  Don’t force MGTOW or red pills down his throat as of yet.  He’ll be interested in the replies he gets.

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