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  • #321570
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    Scott7
    Scott7
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    One of the posts said ‘It’s always about them.’
    Never a truer word.

    These dating sites empower women, not men.

    Went on snatch.com, mostly got no replies. I have never got so little back with anything in relation to what I put in.

    Many women are clearly using dating sites for therapy, empowermement, and game playing.

    Also intriguing is what an over inflated sense of importance these women have about themselves. They are not even particularly special but behave as if they are.

    Most of them don’t really even want to meet a man, THEY are WGTOW.

    It seems women today are WGTOW.

    WGTOW + MGTOW = a future with a hell of a lot of lonely single people.

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    Anonymous
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    hell of a lot of lonely single people women

    Married men are lonely.

    Single men can not be.

    #324977
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    Jack123
    Jack123
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    Hi Gents,

    I want to vent about some c~~~ I just met last week on a dating site. She was 8/10 and I knew she would be trouble but because I wanted to dip the wick, I bought a ticket and went off to the races.

    She was very chatty, writing to me with large blocks of text about herself and asking me about myself. I thought this is easy, she’s a sure thing! I asked her out for a drink on Friday, she said she was busy but would be free on Saturday. I write to her to confirm a time and place and she blanks me for 30 hours. The thing about her blanking was that I could see that she was online – probably chatting away with other guys.

    She finally writes back to me and says that she never checks the app and that we’re confirmed for Saturday at 8pm. At 6pm she writes telling me that something’s come up and she’s very sorry but she’s cancelling. She offers to reschedule for next week and gives me her facebook name.

    The following week I message her and ask her which day she is free and she tells me that she isn’t going on any dates with anyone from a dating site because it’s creepy and she has deleted the app.

    F~~~ing c~~~! Why lead me on for a week with lie after lie after lie and then f~~~ up my Saturday night and then lie some more and then tell me that guy’s on dating sites are creepy and to f~~~ off.

    I know I dodged a bullet and she’s a nutjob but I’m p~~~ed she wasted my time like that.

    #325025
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    Swisschees
    swisschees
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    Hi Gents,

    I want to vent about some c~~~ I just met last week on a dating site. She was 8/10 and I knew she would be trouble but because I wanted to dip the wick, I bought a ticket and went off to the races.

    She was very chatty, writing to me with large blocks of text about herself and asking me about myself. I thought this is easy, she’s a sure thing! I asked her out for a drink on Friday, she said she was busy but would be free on Saturday. I write to her to confirm a time and place and she blanks me for 30 hours. The thing about her blanking was that I could see that she was online – probably chatting away with other guys.

    She finally writes back to me and says that she never checks the app and that we’re confirmed for Saturday at 8pm. At 6pm she writes telling me that something’s come up and she’s very sorry but she’s cancelling. She offers to reschedule for next week and gives me her facebook name.

    The following week I message her and ask her which day she is free and she tells me that she isn’t going on any dates with anyone from a dating site because it’s creepy and she has deleted the app.

    F~~~ing c~~~! Why lead me on for a week with lie after lie after lie and then f~~~ up my Saturday night and then lie some more and then tell me that guy’s on dating sites are creepy and to f~~~ off.

    I know I dodged a bullet and she’s a nutjob but I’m p~~~ed she wasted my time like that.

    Cause a 8/10 women has 0 reason to be on a dating site other then a little ego boost and entertaiment from guys. She already won buddy cause u wrote her more then once. If she flakes once, stopp writing. Or better, stopp with Online dating.

    #325060
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    Scott7
    Scott7
    Spectator
    51

    The culture has changed. Five years ago dating sites were good.

    Now the women play games at your expense.

    Stop feeding this system, stop these sites making billions of dollars profit at your expense.

    Cancel your membership NOW, that’s the only thing that will empower you.

    #325236
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    Anonymous
    18

    The culture has changed. Five years ago dating sites were good.

    The times I was told by obese women, ‘Well you aren’t even hot, you don’t have a 6-pack’ to ‘I am not even overweight, what you talking about?’

    They genuinely believe their pudgy face only pics with make-up under good lighting is their real self.

    Women are delusional and online it is 100x that.

    #325376
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    Rysh
    Rysh
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    The issue isn’t even online dating, it is dating per se. How much hours of BS talk do you have to endure before MAYBE wetting your dick? The BS talk they call “flirting” for starters? If I calculate how much money I could make in that amount of time, that would easily be enough for a professional without any further hassle.

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    Nathan R. Jessep
    Nathan R. Jessep
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    Hi Gents,

    I want to vent about some c~~~ I just met last week on a dating site. She was 8/10 and I knew she would be trouble but because I wanted to dip the wick, I bought a ticket and went off to the races.

    She was very chatty, writing to me with large blocks of text about herself and asking me about myself. I thought this is easy, she’s a sure thing! I asked her out for a drink on Friday, she said she was busy but would be free on Saturday. I write to her to confirm a time and place and she blanks me for 30 hours. The thing about her blanking was that I could see that she was online – probably chatting away with other guys.

    She finally writes back to me and says that she never checks the app and that we’re confirmed for Saturday at 8pm. At 6pm she writes telling me that something’s come up and she’s very sorry but she’s cancelling. She offers to reschedule for next week and gives me her facebook name.

    The following week I message her and ask her which day she is free and she tells me that she isn’t going on any dates with anyone from a dating site because it’s creepy and she has deleted the app.

    F~~~ing c~~~! Why lead me on for a week with lie after lie after lie and then f~~~ up my Saturday night and then lie some more and then tell me that guy’s on dating sites are creepy and to f~~~ off.

    I know I dodged a bullet and she’s a nutjob but I’m p~~~ed she wasted my time like that.

    You have to understand that an 8/10 woman online is getting hundreds of offers of dick a day. Those women are there to make a living off of it (food/gifts) not meet their soul mate. I had my wife tell me that she was told by a client of hers (now very wealthy) that at one point she barely had enough money to feed her kids and would use men she dated for free meals for herself.

    #325473
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    Nathan R. Jessep
    Nathan R. Jessep
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    The issue isn’t even online dating, it is dating per se. How much hours of BS talk do you have to endure before MAYBE wetting your dick? The BS talk they call “flirting” for starters? If I calculate how much money I could make in that amount of time, that would easily be enough for a professional without any further hassle.

    This is what I never understood about PUA’s. The amount of time to get laid is enormous, but for what – something you could get on Backpage for $100? There are some good self-improvement benefits to PUA techniques but as far as using it to pick up women it’s a waste of time.

    #325477
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    Russky
    Russky
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    13503

    By the way, I read last week that CEO of Backpage got arrested for promoting illegal activities or something. So backpage will go belly up any time soon

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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    Rysh
    Rysh
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    There are some good self-improvement benefits to PUA techniques but as far as using it to pick up women it’s a waste of time.

    Yeah.. their “outcome independence” idea is limited to not to cling to an individual woman. It doesn’t cross their mind to stop caring about what women want or don’t want in general. Instead, they waste their lifetime with hundreds of “approaches”. Which means hundreds of BS talk hours.

    Plus of course that they are worthless s~~~ by their own measures – real Alphas don’t approach women, they are being approached by women (gold diggers to be sure). It is hard to imagine any worse kind of proof that a PUA isn’t an Alpha than that he has to do hundreds of approaches. Wannabes.

    #328202
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    Beer
    Beer
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    This is what I never understood about PUA’s. The amount of time to get laid is enormous, but for what – something you could get on Backpage for $100?

    Its kinda of sad, but this is what it has boiled down to for me. I hate dating. I hate playing the game. Women are c~~~s. What do you get if you win? Marriage or one that might try to sneakily trap you with a kid? Who the f~~~ wants to win that? The idea of a lifelong partner these days is just a pipe dream.

    Most of the women I enjoy just hanging out with and shooting the s~~~ with are either way too old for me to even consider dating or related to me, in which case these types of women generally have nothing to gain from me other than interesting conversation, which is why I assume they are decent to be around. Most the decent looking women my age I meet are selfie whores who have already taken a mile of c~~~ and are playing a small army of orbiters…even if I can move to the front of the herd, why do I want to? They tend to be train wrecks who are good for sex and spending money and pretty much nothing else. They’ll put a good show on for a while to worm their way into your life but soon as the real them begins to show, you just think dear god, what the hell have I gotten myself into?

    Even if I did marry its still a coin flip that I’ll get f~~~ed over in divorce…in which case the hundreds of thousands of dollars a divorce would cost me could have just instead been early retirement and all the hookers I want. Potentially hundreds of thousands of dollars paid out for a few years of sex maybe a couple times a week on average and then nothing from them ever again vs 100 bucks a pop for services rendered…a couple hundred thousand collecting dividends could perpetually support that habit without ever running the principal down, and as a bonus I’d have enough for a maid on the side as well.

    #328210
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
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    19005

    I enjoy online dating sites cause they make me laugh. I just get bored and read profiles so I can laugh and face-palm. Today I saw one – 44 years old wants children. Yeah right as if your eggs are working and you don’t mind being 64 before they leave home. So f~~~ing delusional it was comical. Ship has sailed buttercup. You waited to long. I could go on all day. If you want to see toxic, POF is the place to find it.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #328216
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
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    About PUAs. The techniques were originally developed by the airlines companies to deal with hostile situations like lost baggage. I was teaching them in early 80’s. They quickly became a sudo-science from sales to police techniques for de-escalating problems, and evolved quickly into emotional intelligence and more. The spectrum is very broad now. PUAs use them for evil-douchebaggery as do lobbyists and scammers etc. However, I highly recommend learning some of the skills and using them for good. They are sound ways to build trust, communication and rapport. I use them all time with woman to gently let them know they won’t be getting into my pants, my wallet or my home and still keep a good working relationship with them. In the business world there are woman who’s support you will need to advance. Learning how to not burn bridges while avoiding intimate relationships is paramount for my success.

    There are some good self-improvement benefits to PUA techniques but as far as using it to pick up women it’s a waste of time.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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