One Roadmap to Escape a Narcissist

[DDJParticipant 1880]

I’ve been on this site for a long time and am thankful for the wisdom my brothers provide me here. While I haven’t done an intro yet, it’s mainly because I’m still in a legal fight and don’t want my statements here to negatively impact that situation.

I’ve been divorced twice and awarded custody of the children both times in the State of Washington.

This article provides our brothers a framework to get away from narcissists in their life, whether this hag is a girlfriend or a wife that you need to escape from. As a former paralegal, with over 10 years experience in Family Law, I can tell you from experience that most, if not all ex-wives that file divorce, fit into the example contained in the article above.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[chirParticipant]

Excellent website!

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

there’s one line in that article which really hits home for me:

You can’t change or fix these individuals. Even when she or he claims to want help, all they really want is to be enabled, to continue to do as they’ve always done.

That is a hugely significant realisation for anyone in an abusive relationship.

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

Yeah some guys on this site helped me too. I was involved with this flight nurse who ‘just wanted the best for me’ but man it f~~~ed me up SOOO unbeliably bad, I was literally suicidal, a major part was she was married and didnt tell me like 9 months into the relationship. ‘But I still love you, this is REAL why wont you let us try!?’

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

I’ve read some of the content on that website, it’s very good. I would go as far as to say it’s a must read for anyone in a relationship.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

LightBringer wrote:

‘But I still love you, this is REAL why wont you let us try!?’

You can’t reason with crazy. And you are particularly vulnerable to them because you care about them. The best thing you can do is cut off all contact and focus on your own well being.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[MemberParticipant 323]

Some of the best resource I ever found on the net about high conflict spouses. Would recommend it to anyone.

Haven’t seen any new material for a while on there. Hope Dr. Tara is still doing well?

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