While i was working at an ambulance company, I went from working on an ambulance to dispatcher. And only certain people with a class b lincense could drive the largest ambulance in the tate of California. So there were not many qualified people who worked there who could do that job. So most times you were paired with one partner and I was paired and became a permanent partner with a man a little younger than me and we became great friends. he was a very decent man was married to one of the lady supervisors, and would give you the shirt off his back just because, not to mention he was a great stepdad too. One afternoon I came in to work and overheard a group of people around dispatches desk talking about my partner and they knew that he was my partner, they were trying to be quiet, but then they unloaded onto me what the crew of an ambulance standing there had discovered.
They had responded to a call at a near by motel. And after pulling in they saw the mechanic and my partners wife unloading suite cases and heading into the motel together. It was obvious as to what was going on
And now I knew about it, now what to do. Do I tell my partner and literally mess up his life or do I keep it quiet. My brothers I get no pleasure in hurting anyone, man, woman, child or beast. I knew this poor man was going to suffer, because he had ingested , what i didnt know then but know now, a giant blue pill, with that skanky smelly ass c~~~ Biatch, my partner was also a supervisor and trainer. So this was not going to go down well no matter how it was sliced. I felt like i was about to deliver a blow to his heart and mind , but there was something inside me that as I was his good friend I could not keep this knowledge to myself and it was killing me inside to even contemplate the outcome of what might happen if I did tell him. So after he came into work we went and got a sit down meal, my treat of course. And that was one of the most hardest thing ive ever had to do, to tell another man that his wife was seen going into a motel with another man. Of course he lost his apatite immediately, thats why I bought it for him, and I watched as this wonderful caring guy slowly sank into the depths of depression, drinking and into himself. Because thats all that was available to and for him as a man. He of course confronted that stankyassed c~~~ of a biatch, and within a year he was divorced and taking driving lessons for Big rig operations. And it was he and I who partnered up to drive 18 wheelers and then went solo. One reason being that I smoked and he had a breathing problem I didnt know about, that made things difficult , and also I think that every time he and i went back to Cali,it reminded him, It bothered him, and i didnt blame him.
For years I didnt hear from him , I had wondered what became of him and Last year I went to Cali and he and I met up.
My Brothers Reattaching Your ManHood b~~~~ I know these things happen all the time and as hard as they are to tell , these stories need to be told, not because I want to see my brothers hurting , or to step in when they step out, the thought of that makes me sick to my stomach. A good friend is someone you can intrust with you his most “valuable things ” and that includes if they have one their wife, their money, their kids, anything they value, they should be able to trust you with them. And if they can that is a sign of not only a good friend , but a great friend. And sometimes we must do the things that rip our friends guts out , not because we hate them and want to see them in such a state, but because its the “right “thing to do. And I think that is the standard by which we judge each other. There is also strength in numbers, such as in this forum. You can go your own way , and that means to live your life in anyway that pleases you, that should be exceptable to every man who holds MGTOW dear to them.
So to all of you who have read and commented on the things i have said, I thank you for all the kind words and support. I will never tell you how to handle a situation, or anyone. I will give you information and if it doesnt apply to you , or you have never been exposed to the things I have , it doesnt make you any less important, or any less a man, or any less MGTOW. I love reading other posters as well.
So all MY Brothers Reclaiming Your ManHood B~~~~, take each moment one at a time , look back if you must, if you need to make and reexamine your old situations, or examine your present situations, or are considering something in the future , you are free to do so and talk about it. This is the place to get real manly advice, but that wisdom will only be available if you ask speak up about whatever you are dealing with. You will find support, and compassion. I know I have said that in quite a few of my posts, But us men are trained to do everything on our own, And we are great at doing that by the by, but dealling with a relationship issue is much different than building a skyscraper .
Sincerely:
Steve
Anonymous 3 years ago.
