I am going through my D, and have been thinking a lot about how to position myself socially once I am clear and free. Mgtow thinking has been a huge aid in pulling together my planned style. Some of the Mgtow material is simply a way you interpret society and for me some of it goes along with minimalism, a philosophy I have adapted for several years.
1 – Women are ok, can be fun, so long as they never perceive they are in a “relationship” (relations~~~) with you. Once they feel they are in relationship you are cooked. Reality is that even if you are not in one they still sometimes think they are in one. So once that happens, have to end all contact immediately.
2 – There is no way a relationship can ever be anything but negative. There is no unicorn.
3 – I think, partially because i can, it is ok to pay certain small bills for women in general, so drinks, diners, hotels. (but never gifts)
4 – Minimalism is important because it provides you with freedom. Now i am not a gear guy, i am a travel guy so this goes with that. I can go where i please, when i please or wherever the dollars are. No woman can or will ever inhibit that.
5 – So with the above structure, I can be positive in my commentary about woman and that is helpful as you navigate the social and business world. I always want to condition myself to think positive, even though i have entirely given up on an wish or desire for a relationship.
6 – I have taken as an assumption, that as you leave woman in the rear mirror, you acquire more and more peace.
7 – The experience of struggles in the past, is a huge natural source of peace. Simple things gain in value. Simplicity is a great goal, stress is the enemy, especially personal stress, work stress is all good and expected, stress out of work needs to be forestalled.
8 – I am not too against feminism. Yes it has it’s problems, but free sex and woman making their own money is a positive. Yes it likely has made relations~~~s worse, my belief is that relations~~~s have always been bad news for men.
9 – Pump and dump is not worth the effort unless it comes to you.
10 – I simply will not comment on relationships when i am with a women. If they talk I will just look at them and smile. If all they want is a relationship i will just not call them again. If they talk about interesting matters I will call.
11 – My apartment, furniture, clothes and stuff choices will always be based on strict minimalism. I will always want to be able to get up and go in a week end.
12 – I do not give a s~~~ about politics at a personal level. But I will always minimize my foot print and ghost.
13 – Mgtow,, well this website… it is great source and reminder about how important it is not to slip back to any blue pill or white knight behaviors. Nobody in my personal life needs to understand any of this. It is a private matter between me and you all.
For me this is a period. My model is set. Thank You so much to many of you, especially the great thinkers. I realize i am not fully aligned with a lot of you but many of you, even ones that have some different views than mine, helped me straighten out my positioning. When I joined this site I really did not have it worked out at all.
BlakeGuy 2 years, 11 months ago.
