One Down, One to Go

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

I’m happy to announce that cupcake #2 settled. I got a joint custody arrangement, with a substantial amount of time from the recent court battle that I’ve spoken about here within the last year.

Unfortunately c~~~ #1 has been giving me problems within 1 week of the court settlement about the schedule with my other child.

c~~~ #1 has sole custody with a liberal visitation schedule for me. But I’ve still managed to have this child 40 to 60% of the time through a range of different schedules for the last 4 and 1/2 years.

even if i can’t get the custody status changed, i’m sick of dealing with the bull s~~~. i think it will be relieving just to have my time ordered so she can’t bully me when she feels like it.

it seems a little daunting right now but i sort of feel battle hardened from dealing with this most recent case.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Balthazar wrote:

it seems a little daunting right now but i sort of feel battle hardened from dealing with this most recent case.

“What doesn’t kill you, makes you STRONGER” Brother, well done to you on your transition so far.

Keep your eyes peeled.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Anonymous 42]

C~~~ 1, C~~~ 2, I’m on C~~~ none and keeping it that way!

What a f~~~ing nightmare!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Monk mode is the best option.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

Anonymous wrote:

C~~~ 1, C~~~ 2, I’m on C~~~ none and keeping it that way!

What a f~~~ing nightmare!

I’m right with you here.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

Cripes i have zero ex wives and just your description of it all makes me grab a stiff drink.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TonyParticipant 149]

I’m the same one down LAST one to go ( Aug 2018 – 5 years up ).
My daughter was only 3 months old the last time I saw her – but I coudn’t put up with what you are going through. Not dancing to my wife’s tune for the next 18 years.

Wait till my daughter is 18 and not under the legal control of my wife. See if she wants a relationship with me then.

But mega respect to you for what you are putting up with – by two power crazed bitches. Hang in there till you kids are 18 then f~~~ the crazy bitches off for good. I know I’m counting the days down.

[Remove me!Participant]

I’ve only got 1 ex wife. I feel for you, bro. Just don’t have a third. The third time is definitely NOT the charm.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Tony wrote:

Hang in there till you kids are 18 then f~~~ the crazy bitches off for good. I know I’m counting the days down.

Yes, I could not say it any better. Unitl then we must enjoy our lives as best as we can.

Get a vasectomy.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

C~~~ 1, C~~~ 2, I’m on C~~~ none and keeping it that way!

Abso-f~~~ing-lutely.

While I can understand not being able to learn from other men’s mistake, how in hell can you fail to learn from your own mistakes?

“Wife #1 put me through hell during the divorce and continually f~~~s up our child custody arrangements. Guess I better start looking for Wife #2!”

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

My oldest is 19, and so c~~~ #1 is not much of a problem. She has no power over me now.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

OldBill wrote:

While I can understand not being able to learn from other men’s mistake, how in hell can you fail to learn from your own mistakes?

well being that i f~~~ed up twice, i will accept the title of being a damned fool.

but rather than dwell on the mistakes that i’ve already made, i think it’s more important to highlight the corrective course of action i’ve taken to get me on my way.

honestly, to do it twice, i was caught in blue pill hell thinking that NAWALT. The nonsense that went on with the first one was so traumatic that I was sort of in a long term irrational state of mind. I allowed myself to be short sighted in further long term decision making.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

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