On the Topic of Revenge

[JediTimParticipant 50]

I don’t want to overgeneralize, as there are some who have seen the light prior to tragedy, but for many of us it seems that hardship has brought us to the truth of MGTOW – especially since it seems we are the first generation of a new movement.

Naturally, all MGTOW are welcome to chime in, but I’m wondering how those of you that have been through your own trauma (ugly divorce, parental alienation, financial rape, cheating, etc.) dealt with the desire for revenge.

As a MGMOW, I’m already plotting how to exact my own retribution on the people that helped to precipitate my misery, but naturally until the papers are signed, I’m a choir boy. I recognize that revenge won’t explicitly help me go my own way, but then I wonder if it will by way of closure.

The best revenge is to live well, and I agree. But part of me does want to punctuate my new life with a firebrand – “Don’t f~~~ with me anymore” exclamation.

For those of you that have felt similarly, what sorts of revenge did you awaken on your foes, and did it help you go your own way?

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

When a woman cheats, the best revenge is to let the other guy keep her.

It’s not just a line, either.
It’s a dish best served cold.

A “don’t f~~~ with me anymore” attitude is a highly advantages position, because they are NOT expecting it.
“Don’t kick my leg or I will break yours” has served me very well from time to time. No revenge required.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

One should never put fish in her ducted heating….

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[RoyDalParticipant]

… the best revenge is to let the other guy keep her.

I agree completely with KeyMaster. Do nothing except let him keep her.

By the way, there is a product used by deer hunters — skunk oil. It is used to mask the hunter’s scent from the deer. It smells worse than dead fish and lasts longer. (Not that I would do anything with this. It would be wrong.)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Mal ContentParticipant 31]

Been lurking for awhile and felt the need to weigh in on this one.

Best form of revenge is to live well. Nothing p~~~es off a woman more than her thinking you are doing better without her. Don’t waste energy and resources being mean, just channel that anger into being productive for YOUR betterment.

Just my two cents worth…

Theres no place I can be since I found Serenity

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hey Mal Content. Welcome and thanks for chiming in.

Your “two cents” is worth a lot more than that.

Cheers.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Revenge is something I think all of us thought about at one point or another.

 

Believe me, after my bitter divorce,  all the lies, cheating, and bulls~~~ that went behind my back I wanted some good old fashion revenge!. But then I thought, about the guy my ex wife cheated on me with. and what he now has to deal with. I started laughing so hard you would’ve thought I was a crazy man or something.

I recently saw a picture of my ex wife and her lover (they got married), she put on 20 pounds and her “New” husband looks miserable!, hahahaha!. I looked at that picture and just laughed and laughed, and to me, that was revenge enough.

 

This asshole now has to deal with a certified bitch, who will not only have him by the b~~~~, but suck the life out of his very soul as well as his finances. I was grateful to see that picture, because they both look miserable. Here this guy is, raising kids, married to a C~~~, who I know isn’t happy married to this bitch.

 

While I’m enjoying my life, surfing, traveling, riding my motorcycle.  in the end, I got the last laugh. Sometimes revenge isn’t about getting back at someone, It’s taking the opposite direction, and then watching that other person crash and burn in the process.

 

This same is true for a lot of blue pill guy friends in my life, who i warned about marrying the wrong chic, they would either stop talking, want to pick a fight or ignore me, and in the long run, after a few years, who’s the first person they call up when the s~~~ hits the fan?, ME. All i say in those situations time and time again is, “I told you so man”.

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Revenge is a beautiful thing. We all get a certain satisfaction out of seeing it in movies like “Man on Fire” (Denzel Washington)….

But when it comes to women, it’s very important to understand FORCE.

Men understand force EXPLICITLY.
To neutralize a threat, Men use fists, knives, bombs, guns etc.

Women understand force IMPLICITLY.
To neutralize a threat, they use social manipulation, mind games, back-stabbing (without knives), ostracizing from a group. etc.

So you “beat” women not by actually “beating” them. But destroying them from the inside. It’s a different kind of warfare. So the game of revenge must be fought with different ammunition.

Attention is a woman’s lifeblood. Women will even initiate violence when they are not getting it and proudly upload the film to youtube for all the world to see. When women don’t get attention, it’s the same as firing all your nukes – without firing a single shot or throwing a single fist.

Even 10,000 of the ugliest bitches on earth (feminists) will say and do ANYTHING for attention they would otherwise never get. Don’t subscribe to their bulls~~~, and they become instant failures. They know it too.

Just KNOWING you are doing better without her will reduce her entire belief system to rubble. Absolutely no contact is infinitely more effective than throwing a fist. Nothing is more devastating to her. It’s the game SHE plays to win, you easily beat her the same way. When you are treated badly by woman, you don’t need to treat her badly back… you just need to live better without her.

Great topic, this.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Great Point!

Dudes need to learn how to properly ‘fight’ women.   Proper Way?  Don’t Fight Them.  🙂  Your Ass is going to jail if you use Physicality.

Use “Ignoricality”.

When You Don’t Fight and instead “Flee”/Ignore Their Asses, You Win.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Nobody was implying or suggesting violence. Just used it as an example to understand the different ways men and woman understand force.

I remember a scene from The Godfather Part II. Al Pacino hit Diane Keaton so hard, he practically came off the floor. She didn’t throw a fist to hurt him. She aborted his son without telling him…. which would be perfectly justifiable grounds for him to get angry. But did hitting her really HURT?

Later in the movie, when she shows up to visit the kids, he doesn’t do anything. Doesn’t say a word. He doesn’t even blink. He just quietly walks up to the door and slowly closes it in her face.

Awesome.

… and it hurt worse than any fist.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Point understood.  Awesome scene.  Mike nullified her by ignoring her. Did the same to Bitch Ass Fredo…until their Mother died.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

If a guy hooks up short term or long term with the chick that he knowingly slept with while she was currently in a relationship with another guy then he’s an idiot. He will be on the receiving end of the backstabbing as she repeats her behavior like clockwork.

I am in agreement. Let the dude who she cheated on you with have her. He inherits all her bulls~~~ and bad behavior and you have been given a perfect reason to sever ties with the bitch. You can even tell the guy “Let me know when she pulls the same s~~~ on you, we can have a beer and laugh about it.”

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

If a guy hooks up short term or long term with the chick that he knowingly slept with while she was currently in a relationship with another guy then he’s an idiot. He will be on the receiving end of the backstabbing as she repeats her behavior like clockwork.

Bet your ass. If she cheats WITH you… she will cheat ON you.

You can even tell the guy “Let me know when she pulls the same s~~~ on you, we can have a beer and laugh about it.”

Excellent. When she gets wind of that, she will go out of her mind.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JediTimParticipant 50]

Over the weekend (prior to reading this), I went blows for blows (figuratively) with her regarding divorce and the kids. To borrow Key’s phrase from last week, “If you kick me, I’ll break your leg” type stuff. Calm. Drove her insane. Then got bored and started playing Call of Duty, cleaning, watching porn, cooking for the week, etc. The texts wouldn’t stop coming in. Finally had to hit Do Not Disturb on my phone and take a nap.

KeyMaster – I think that after some essence of “oh damn, he’s serious” has been established like I tried to do this week, ignoring her can be very very effective. Whenever she and I are at joint functions for the kids, all my attention is on the kids, or, if they are wrapping up in something (example: gymnastics), I’m on my phone texting my homies, snapping pics of the kids, laughing, etc.

HOWEVER, I am still plotting implicit revenge on all the f~~~ers that have assisted her in her soon-to-be short-lived reign of chaos.

[PeterGParticipant 4]

Ignoring is like suffocation to women guys.My situation 1 yeah ago was a bit more light.I was in the friend-zone and still a blue pill man because of my ignorance of how things work,anyway i was reading a post with the title ‘The devil may cry attitude’. The point that it was making was that by giving less attention you are becoming more desirable to them.So i thought no attention means infinite desire, in the beginning i started with ignoring the calls then when we meet in person only a ‘hello’ and that’s it.In a week she was calling and texting and chatting on facebook all the time.

Keep in mind that before that nothing, i was the one initiating all calls-texts etc.

The plan was working so i started texting back and calling again,i was really happy but then something happened she was going back to her ‘old-self’.That’s when i understood that she is nothing more that an attention seeker that will do anything to get it.So i texted her for the last time saying this:Thank you for your epic friendzone you have given me the best gift of my life, you have given me the light to be aLION among sheep,thank you again.

And that was it ,since then i do not text-call-speak nothing ,not even making eye contact if it happens to be in the same room with me when we have the same lesson in the university.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@jeditim

KeyMaster – I think that after some essence of “oh damn, he’s serious” has been established like I tried to do this week, ignoring her can be very very effective. Whenever she and I are at joint functions for the kids, all my attention is on the kids, or, if they are wrapping up in something (example: gymnastics), I’m on my phone texting my homies, snapping pics of the kids, laughing, etc.

HOWEVER, I am still plotting implicit revenge on all the f~~~ers that have assisted her in her soon-to-be short-lived reign of chaos.

I wish you every success with that, and will crack open the champagne to read the FULL report from you on successful execution…. (of your plan). This would be where I might watch “The Shawshank Redemption” for a preview on how satisfying it will be.

May the force be with you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JediTimParticipant 50]

My Marine Corps father taught me, “What gets measured gets done,” ie., write your s~~~ down so you’ll be accountable to do it. So while this isn’t a full report, I don’t mind sharing my completed and existing plans:

1. Completed – documented in detail against wife all incidences of physical violence she perpetrated against me, and wrote up in official court discovery documents. Included sexual details about her ongoing four year affair she had with a married man prior to meeting me. Included his name, current address, and wife’s name. Response: Furious that I had “publicly shamed” her. All of a sudden, she’s interested in settling the divorce out of court. I told her I would be glad to withhold the child support she is funneling to her lawyer, happy to subpoena her former lover to testify about her character, and would love to get in front of a judge to testify about her physical abuse against me she enacted in front of the kids.

2a. To be Done – against her pastor who encouraged me to sign her bulls~~~ separation agreement – a formal letter written to the Presbyterian Church of America General Assembly outlining the details surrounding his involvement in the dissolution of my family including his contribution to my children being removed from my custody. Attach a bill for lawyer fees. Retain all Facebook friends with involvement in that congregation. After letter to PCA General Assembly is sent, write a nice long detailed summary outlining what a fraud he is to be posted on Facebook. Also, draft a letter directly to the monthly session assembly at the church. Carbon copy to be sent directly to pastor. Direct letter to pastor to be sent to church directly telling him what a s~~~ he is. Carbon copy to be sent to monthly session assembly.

2b. To be Done – against her cousin that referred her to her divorce attorney. Her cousin’s father hung himself a few days before Christmas, and she still hasn’t dealt with. As I have my kids Christmas Eve, will be phoning from a payphone on Christmas Day to her cell phone, and anonymously saying “You’re a disgrace of a daughter. It’s a good thing your father spared himself the misery of seeing what you became. I would have hung myself too.” I have already recruited two friends to assist with this. Still need to get a roll of quarters.

2c. To be Done – against her church’s senior therapist that responded to my disclosure that having my kids withheld was making me consider self-harm. His response was “you really need to be alone right now and look around at those four walls and stew in the mess of your marriage”. A general letter to the church’s general session that gathers monthly. Outline details of our meeting as well as a letter directly to Maryland Psychiatric Licensure board outlining failure to assist with appropriate medical attention. (I never harmed myself, BTW).

2d. To be done – against my wife (ongoing). Respond with screenshots of her insane texts directly to our mutual friends that ask how things are going. Maintain an attitude of “Go f~~~ yourself, bitch.” Continue speaking the truth about her past, including her shameful sexual history.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I have to reason to seek revenge because I’ve never been steam rolled in Divorce court nor have I been “straight jacked” by a greedy trollop.

However, I’ve found that ignoring them in public places gets under their skin really bad.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
When a woman cheats, the best revenge is to let the other guy keep her.

It’s not just a line, either.
It’s a dish best served cold.

You win the internet today sir.

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That’s EXACTLY the scene I was thinking of. Awesome.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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