On the road to recovery

[SheNoheartParticipant 144]

Hello all, just wanted to let you all know, this is the first time I have posted since my incident, its been 6 months. My daughter was taken by her mother at 6 months old and she fled to another country (she’s not coming back). My first born child. I’ve only now had the courage to open up and it’s taken me 6 months to recover from severe mental health trauma that this has bestowed upon me. I won’t get into the details but if this can happen to someone like me who has done good all throughout his relationship, no, drugs, no cheating, no gambling, hard worker, and loved them very much.(not anymore of course)
Unfortunately in this day and age I do not have the money to fight such a massive case, it’s just too much for me, I’ve had to swallow the darkness, forget and just live again, I have excepted self prison for the next 16 years that one day she will rebel, learn the truth and come home to Dad…
To all good men out there, I urge you to stay away from the false perceptions in life, the lies, the hidden hopes, the hidden behaviors, the smokes and mirrors, stand-over attitudes, the traps that we can not see, the behind the scenes of the congregation of feminine terrestrial communications that are encrypted right in front of us, we do not hear and see this for certain reasons. You must decrypt this! you must exist and you must always have no fear to let go early if you see even just a single sign.
Catch them early, do not fall for the trap of emotion and comfort, be alone. Most of all conceal your finances as much as possible. I’m am extremely pleased with the MGOTW operators and the hard work they are doing here. I wish it had been here for me a little earlier. Take my experience and place the seed in your head let it be stuck there in the back of your head and let it stay there as a warning… because let me tell you… I was the guy that made sure and swore to myself that this will never happen to me as if it were 1 in a million chances. Time for me to play lotto!

Enjoy fella’s take care and Go Your Own Way.

[WongataaParticipant 25]

My condolences on your loss brother. The next several years will most likely be very painful and difficult to deal with, especially around the holidays. Do yourself a favor and make sure to spend the holidays with family and friends. The rate of suicide among men is disproportionately high and things like this are the reason why. Take care of yourself, whether through friends and family or going to a counselor. It’s not weak to admit when you need help. Hopefully, you will be given the opportunity to get to know your daughter once she is older.

Take care, and good luck.

[HitmanParticipant]

my ex took our kid almost 4 years ago ,
dragged me through court,
forcing me into debt,
was falsely arrested,
had to sell ever valuable item i owned,
take credit card cash advances..
SO, i truly feel your pain my friend.
the stress of an uncertain future hangs over me like a dark cloud everyday,
but it’s better now than it was.
being here helped me tremendously.
saved my life, because when all that and even some more happened to me i was contemplating ending it all.
.
the poor kid has suffered more than i have,
child protection was in my house because the ex’s mother hurt the kid so bad the HOSPITAL called the state police in .
i could go on and on but will spare you..
suffice it to say that i regained the instinct to survive.
my prayers will be with you brother.

[HitmanParticipant]

SheNoHeart,
one of the friends that gave me countless hours of time talking when i had my world destroyed,
his ex did the same thing as yours.
he hasn’t seen his daughter in about 16 years..
the support money goes out,
and the bitch mother won’t permit contact.
he has sent cards and letters..all returned.
he saves them and plans to give them to the kid,
when she turns 18.
you are NOT ALONE !

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

I hope your kid does find out about you and does go out to seek you bud, best wishes to you!

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[SheNoheartParticipant 144]

Thank you for the replies, really means a lot… it really does.
Right now there’s no legal action or anything like that, I think it’s still fresh and I’m always waking up feeling that a war is about to start, so in that respect I haven’t had much legal advice regarding how I can protect myself and any finances that I come across in future.
If you could please point me to some areas where I can read and learn to protect myself that would be great. I know most of you are probably thinking that someone in my situation is at a high stake of suicidal thoughts, but I just want to let you know I’m all good, I can suppress this and show them I will not break, breaking will only prove them right, I will prove them wrong! this I have learned so far…. don’t worry fella’s I’ve got this.
I will lead as an example to all MGTOW members that even a situation as f~~~ed up as this I have the right to breathe, live, and joy the rest of my life.

thank you for the support I feel much better already 🙂

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Mate you heed a warning for us good guy types out there. Thanks for sharing your story with us.

Just remember you feel love in a different way to the woman who did this. She has somehow reflected her actions back on you and is now making the right choice (in her crazy head) by moving on and leaving behind a trail of waste, as f~~~ed as that may sound.

God bless brother.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[ZoZooParticipant 2]

Sorry for my English (I’m from Hungary)

I work as a police officer. In my country policemen are’t well paid(~600Euro/month), so I can’t afford a lawyer. After our girl was born, my wife waited 4 months, and suddenly took the baby, and divorced.

My life was so ruined, and I felt so desperate that my boss took my gun for 2 months, not to do anything with myself.

I needed about 1 year to recover. Now she’s 3, and I can see her 1 day a week but I have to travel a lot.

The only thing I can do is to wait, give my girl emotional power to feel, that I really love her. time will solve the problem, and the girl will see the real truth sooner or later. And I must keep on building my own life, not other women’s…

Keep going your own way!
God bless!

[SheNoheartParticipant 144]

One of the smartest things I did during our marriage is not listen to family and friends, for years they pressured me into trying to buy property and invest. Obviously with the little money I saved I ensured I did not fall into this trap.
Now, I’m thinking to myself that how lucky I am she left me at a stage where I owned nothing. We were renting and we had cheap run around cars. Although I’m not sure how the court system works where she lives (still in a commonwealth country) she could perhaps try something from over there and still drag me through court. Hopefully this will make it extremely difficult for her to even try taking me to court for child support as I have been told it would cost her $50K and more to do this. They are poor as s~~~ over there too hope they f~~~ing go bust trying!!!

[The Missing ManSpectator 342]

Thank you for posting this!

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