On being accused of domestic violence

[ShierPrismParticipant 4]

About five years ago, I split up with my girlfriend. Upon hearing this, my previous girlfriend came around to my flat uninvited. She tried to seduce me, throwing herself at me. I declined her advances. She then went bat-s~~~ crazy, as was her style, crying, screaming, and refusing to leave. She was sat in my flat blubbing like a big fat mess. I politely but firmly requested that she f~~~ off and leave, but she would not, and stood her ground. After around half an hour of this nonsense, I began to lose my temper, and told her she needed to get out or I would throw her out.

Getting up to leave, she walked towards the front door, which I held open for her. Upon reaching the threshold she went nuts, attempting to punch and strike me in the head repeatedly in a frenzy. In defence, I simply extended my arms and pushed her away from me. However being a fat clumsy thing, she tripped and fell, grazing her arm on the outside wall in the process. She begged to be let back in to tend to her ‘wound’. Needless to say I didn’t think this was a good idea. Eventually she got the idea and went on her merry way, and I thought little more of it.

Two days later, a knock at the door. It’s the police. He asks to come in and speak to me. Feeling I have nothing to hide, I consent. We sit and talk; he explains that my crazy ex has called the police alleging I have assaulted her. As ‘proof’ she cites her ‘wounds’ – a small graze on her upper arm. I’ll always remember what the police said: “it’s clearly assault”. Clearly??! I did what I needed to do to stay safe:I lied out of my backside, and denied having pushed her in any way, gave her as much of a character assassination as I could, telling him that she was a drunk who often fell over while p~~~ed up and frequently had cuts and scrapes from these incidents, and called him out on the claim that this bitch’s graze implied any wrongdoing on my part.

In the end the case was dropped due to lack of evidence and no further action was taken. But it taught me a valuable lesson. When it comes to the police, always deny everything. The police will always side with the woman in any domestic incident. An when it comes to women, be very, very careful, because they can attack you and  still come out of it with the official status of ‘victim’.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You’re lucky you’re not in a place where the State takes the role of victim. Then its the State that brings the case and not her.

Some guys here think I might be nuts when I always say

Don’t go near women. Don’t look at them, talk to them or f~~~ them.

The majority of women have … to a greater or lesser degree …. mental health issues.

The law is now written by them for them. Men are the target in the gynocentric holocaust.

You can save yourself and other by ….. just not putting dick in them.

Get a hooker.

….. and welcome ☺

[RoyDalParticipant]

ShierPrism wrote:

In the end the case was dropped due to lack of evidence and no further action was taken.

Whew!

ShierPrism wrote:

When it comes to the police, always deny everything.

More than one of my lawyer friends have told me the same. One instructed me to always say, “I deny it” as a stock response. In the US, you can demand a lawyer it they try to escalate … and if you have $50K burning a hole in your pocket, then you can get a competent one.

I have a lawyer’s business card in my wallet just in case. He will spring me from the clink for an amount I can afford. Perish forbid I ever need him. We pal around while he’s off work, and I am fortunate to know him.

Edit: I want to underscore this.

You do not ever, not ever, argue with a cop. It’s all mild tones of voice, non-aggressive body language, and “Officer” or “Sir.” And, of course, “I deny it.”

There may be cases where “I deny it” obviously won’t work. Then use something like “he tried to kill me,” or whatever the situation demands.
Always set the scene as either you did nothing, or you were defending life and limb.

Thus spake my lawyer pals.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[QcummerParticipant 652]

I know somebody who knows somebody that is a criminal defense lawyer. If you say his crazy ex girlfriend is around, he will literally take off running. She should have been put in prison for years, she did zero time, became the victim, and he spent a couple days in jail. He can make lite of the event by saying, “best thing that ever happened to me, got 7 new clients while I was there”. It’s no laughing matter. With stakes that high, do you REALLY want to roll the dice?

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Women belong to the state. I’ve sat in the back of many police cars due to the same kind of lying caniving women. Just avoid them all, its just never worth it. They’ll destroy you just to protect their fragile egoes. Learn from that Bruh.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

ShierPrism wrote:

Upon hearing this, my previous girlfriend came around to my flat uninvited.

WHY would you let her in? She’s your EX-girlfriend. That should mean something. One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. She already had hers.

The instant you start having trouble with a woman, any woman, call the police. Let them deal with her. More importantly, calling the police first starts the legal paper trail with your side of the story. That’s important.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

This is why I will never engage in cohabitation with a female unless it’s my sister or my mother the only females I trust and would take a bullet for.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[pjharris1Participant 7]

All excellent advice. The rage that some women are capable of is extraordinary because it can be so unexpected. Once you do experience it, you never forget it. And yet it is only males who are presented as aggressors.

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