Officially going my own way

[lightParticipant 9]

Hi everyone, very glad to be here.

 

I come from Norway, a scandinavian country situated at the very top of Europe. We are famous for our beautiful mountains, natural resources, and of course our renowned generous matriarchal welfare state.

 

Throughout my entire life, I have witnessed the hypocrisy of women. At the age of 23 I have still not ever had a girlfriend from my country. The only girls I have dated, have usually been of foreign descent, though living in Norway. One reason for this is because I find them more feminine than their norwegian counterparts, but also because norwegian women have never given me the time of the day, ever. Why, I dont know. I consider myself a great guy(Not trying to sound arrogant), but for some reason, I was never an option for them. Norway is a country where feminism is practically state-sponsored, and women hold all the cards. Recently, I have noticed that this has reached to the point where they dont even bother to make an effort any more. They dont wear make up, they dont wear heels, they dress and act like men, while men spend all their time consumed in fashion, hoping that these women will offer them a slight piece of attention..

Growing up, I usually idealized having a family. Ive given up on this concept now. I am tired of spending my time trying to make women like me, they never gave me a chance anyway. Their demands these days are so rediculous. Norway is a country where you will see only semi-attractive women date very attractive men(no homo). Today is the first day I officially start pursuing my own self interest over others. I have seen the light.

[…Spectator 1165]

@light: you do seem a little girly but if you are, the police here will figure out what to do with you.

the information on the forums can be life saving. it it is for you, let us know. welcome.

[lightParticipant 9]

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@light: you do seem a little girly but if you are, the police here will figure out what to do with you. the information on the forums can be life saving. it it is for you, let us know. welcome.

 

Thanks for the warm welcome, m8.

 

/sarcasm

[…Spectator 1165]

it’s a tough room but worth humbling yourself to save your future. up to you though…..

[lightParticipant 9]

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it’s a tough room but worth humbling yourself to save your future. up to you though…..

 

Not following.

[…Spectator 1165]

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[lightParticipant 9]

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light: the way the forums is set up is very confusing. when you reply to a post, it can end up in the wrong place and it might throw you off. you’ll figure it out.

So far Im finding the layout neat and easy to navigate.

[…Spectator 1165]

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[…Spectator 1165]

oic. you are using m8 as slng for “mate.” we have someone here named m85. thought you were speaking to them. my bad.

[lightParticipant 9]

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cool. then what is it that you aren’t following?

Gee pal, who p~~~ed in your corn flakes? English isnt my mother tongue.

[lightParticipant 9]

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oic. you are using m8 as slng for “mate.” we have someone here named m85. thought you were speaking to them. my bad.

No harm done.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

Welcome Light.

Clearly ListenUp has doubts that you are actually a man.  That alone gives me doubts too.  Your choice of name and the lack of pain in your intro has not helped your case.

If you are not being honest, please go now.  If you are being honest, we welcome you, and you will be glad you have found the brotherhood.

Cheers

PS  It probably has been a never ending source of frustration for you to get no rewards for your efforts to attract women into your life.  Soon you will come to the realization that they were doing you a favor by sending very few landmines your way.  You are still whole because of it.  In that sense, they saved your ass from them.  LOL

BVC

 

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Light, lets start over, WELCOME to MGTOW, nice to see you made it. I’m never going to Norway, except at Epcot Center (Disney World Fla) and that smelled moldy! I feel your frustration, the laws of our two nations and much alike when it comes to right and wrong, and for now the laws are all wrong, the women you speak of sound like third wave feminists, emasculated like men, WHO the f~~~ needs that? Stay strong brother, if not, get strong, search for the truth of being your own man, it’s entirely up to you, and YOU alone, all we can do is assist you, but only if you ask, we don’t throw the truth at anybody, we merely toss it back and forth to each other, adding to it along the way. You’re in the right place, thanks for making a stand. again, Welcome………

[Anonymous 11]

light wrote:

matriarchal welfare state

Welcome Light. We’re a tough but very caring bunch here and are constantly fending off female intrusions so the guards are aggressive out of necessity. I got some flack in my introduction due to my handle seeming to have been created by a female troll. Even worse than the women are the cowardly men that have their wives dictate to them what they type into this web site.

I think because you come from a matriarchal culture you might have a little adjusting to make on your end due to the different attitude of the men on this site. Men here are not pussy whipped and many have had very traumatic experiences. MGTOW is all about uncensored truth, and we are rough sometimes. It’s good you’ve become MGTOW at such a young age. A lot of us have found that going MGTOW has improved how women treat us as in more respect and less s~~~. We all learn from each other here too.

MGTOW is your best defense. Feminism has wrecked havoc worldwide. Good luck and learn, learn, learn. Also, since you live in a matriarchy you can help us learn too.

Being a great guy doesn’t seem to register as a positive to them. They are pretty much all about themselves, period.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Welcome light,
condolences for the misfortune of being in Norway. It continues to fascinate me that men all over the world are having such similar experiences with women. The cold weather alone would keep me out of Norway, but added to the women you describe, you are correct to complain. Here in the US, the women are probably not much better. They are presently giddy at the prospect of one of their own running for president in the next election. We are bracing ourselves…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[lightParticipant 9]

Big Viking Chef BVC wrote:

Welcome Light. Clearly ListenUp has doubts that you are actually a man. That alone gives me doubts too. Your choice of name and the lack of pain in your intro has not helped your case. If you are not being honest, please go now. If you are being honest, we welcome you, and you will be glad you have found the brotherhood. Cheers PS It probably has been a never ending source of frustration for you to get no rewards for your efforts to attract women into your life. Soon you will come to the realization that they were doing you a favor by sending very few landmines your way. You are still whole because of it. In that sense, they saved your ass from them. LOL BVC

The lack of pain in my post is not due to any lacking in pain, rather the exact opposite. It’s just hard to talk about. When I was 18 I was madly in love with a girl I thought was the best person on earth, that is until I discovered she was cheating on me behind my back. She tried manipulating me when I dumped her and told me that she’d keep the kid if I did. Regardless, I dumped her anyways.

One day she came home to my place with a tattoo of my name, and said she had also booked a tattoo session for me to do the same. Obviously I didn’t. I dumped her one week later.

Last I heard she actually has a kid now. Wether its mine or not, I don’t know, and I’m not sure I wanna know either.

Honest enough for ya?

 

EDIT: I can also add that I grew up with my mom and dad in serious court battles over my custody. During this time, my mother accused my dad on false charges of rape, violence, jewellery theft among others. My dad against all odds actually beat her and won custody, but she also got 50% of his ownership in our apartment, leading to the sale of my childhood home.

[lightParticipant 9]

Anonymous wrote:

Hey Light, lets start over, WELCOME to MGTOW, nice to see you made it. I’m never going to Norway, except at Epcot Center (Disney World Fla) and that smelled moldy! I feel your frustration, the laws of our two nations and much alike when it comes to right and wrong, and for now the laws are all wrong, the women you speak of sound like third wave feminists, emasculated like men, WHO the f~~~ needs that? Stay strong brother, if not, get strong, search for the truth of being your own man, it’s entirely up to you, and YOU alone, all we can do is assist you, but only if you ask, we don’t throw the truth at anybody, we merely toss it back and forth to each other, adding to it along the way. You’re in the right place, thanks for making a stand. again, Welcome………

Thanks, brother.

Anonymous wrote:

<div class=”d4p-bbt-quote-title”>light wrote:</div>
matriarchal welfare state

Welcome Light. We’re a tough but very caring bunch here and are constantly fending off female intrusions so the guards are aggressive out of necessity. I got some flack in my introduction due to my handle seeming to have been created by a female troll. Even worse than the women are the cowardly men that have their wives dictate to them what they type into this web site. I think because you come from a matriarchal culture you might have a little adjusting to make on your end due to the different attitude of the men on this site. Men here are not pussy whipped and many have had very traumatic experiences. MGTOW is all about uncensored truth, and we are rough sometimes. It’s good you’ve become MGTOW at such a young age. A lot of us have found that going MGTOW has improved how women treat us as in more respect and less s~~~. We all learn from each other here too. MGTOW is your best defense. Feminism has wrecked havoc worldwide. Good luck and learn, learn, learn. Also, since you live in a matriarchy you can help us learn too. Being a great guy doesn’t seem to register as a positive to them. They are pretty much all about themselves, period.

I’ve served in the army and lived in Eastern Europe. I think I can handle some simple forum banter, lol.

 

BrainPilot wrote:

Welcome light, condolences for the misfortune of being in Norway. It continues to fascinate me that men all over the world are having such similar experiences with women. The cold weather alone would keep me out of Norway, but added to the women you describe, you are correct to complain. Here in the US, the women are probably not much better. They are presently giddy at the prospect of one of their own running for president in the next election. We are bracing ourselves…

The women over here are so feminist that they get upset if you pay for their dinner. I guess that’s a plus. Lol. My impression of american feminists is that they want the benefits of chivalry and the benefits of feminism at the same time. It happens here too, but too a different degree. Norwegians are a timid, cold and quiet people, that includes the ladies. I read on Return of Kings that some guy in America had experienced a woman in the bar scream at a random man she didn’t know ‘It’s my f~~~ing birthday, buy me a f~~~ing drink”, luckily, I haven’t experienced anything like that here yet.

[Anonymous 11]

light wrote:

One day she came home to my place with a tattoo of my name

Great move on dumping her as you just pegged my psychometer many. many degrees of latitude further South than you are with that one.

That took a lot of guts on your part.

[lightParticipant 9]

Anonymous wrote:

<div class=”d4p-bbt-quote-title”>light wrote:</div>
One day she came home to my place with a tattoo of my name

Great move on dumping her as you just pegged my psychometer many. many degrees of latitude further South than you are with that one. That took a lot of guts on your part.

The next months followed with a lot of death threats from her older brothers. I am pretty sure she accused me of rape, and I know for a fact she told them I pressured her into sex, which was not true at all. I waited 4 months like some pathetic beta, till she herself felt ready. Just the feeling of fearing for your life just because you’re entering a bus is a feeling I wish upon no-one.

 

So yeah, I also got traumatic experiences. Not only did it ruin my trust to women, it ruined my trust in general and made me paranoid for a long time. Sometimes I would even believe that my own best friends were against me, that’s how bad it got. Luckily, I managed to shake it all off.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

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oic. you are using m8 as slng for “mate.” we have someone here named m85. thought you were speaking to them. my bad.

Actually, my handle is MGTOW85. And 1985 was the year I was born. Hope that clears it up!!!

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