O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!

[singledad984Participant 201]

I’m 29 and been separated from my ex wife for about 2.5 years and legally divorced for about 1.5 years! Got custody of our daughter and everything is great!!! Since my divorce I’ve done alot of dating and really have spent some time observing /studying the opposite sex! And I’ve really learned alot!! But here recently I’ve tried to save a family member of mine from marriage and either I failed him or he just didn’t listen lol! I have a great Job and make north of $100,000 a year! My cousin works with me and is 23 years old! He started dating this girl about a year and a half ago! Great girl very attractive very kind seemed like she would be a great person to spend your life with! They decide to get married and approximately 2 months before the marriage she end up pregnant by my cousin! (That I know of) and soon as that pregnancy test came back positive they decide to go ahead and get married at the justice of the peace! Then instantly she COMPLETELY changed!!! They had a house given to them just 3 houses down from mine! Wasn’t a mansion or anything fancy by any means but most certainly wasn’t a dump either! Great house and oppurtunity for a young couple to start out with! Well she decides immediately among finding out she pregnant that this house (that’s free may I remind u) is not good enough for her and she DEMANDS my cousin move her 10 miles to the town next to us in this big fancy house and if he doesn’t she will move back in with her parents 40 miles away and he will never see his child when it’s born! So my cousin throws all their s~~~ in the u haul and buys her this house! Instantly bills have increased $1000 a month just Bc she has to keep up with the jones…they get all settled and and about 2 weeks ago she has the baby a little girl!! Me and my cousin work shift work together and car pool 30 miles to work!!! He informs me yesterday that he hasn’t been getting any sleep Bc after working a 12 hour shift and getting off at 5:30 am he said he went home and mowed his yard at 7 while it was cool! Said it took 2 hours to mow his yard (it’s massive!) So now it’s 9am and has to be back to work that night so he goes to head to bed and as soon as he gets in bed his new bride tells him to get up and go watch the baby Bc she (his wife) is tired and needs a nap! Then I asked well is she working still? My cousin says no she quit her job being a nurse after getting pregnant!  I said well at least u have somebody to clean and cook for u all day! My cousin says no I do all the cooking and cleaning and even do the laundry! Then goes onto tell me she gets p~~~ed if any of his family stops by! So apparently the girl does nothing all day long!! And he will do ANYTHING to keep her happy!! He was telling me this morning how he is about to go buy her a new car!! And how he wants to go play golf tomorrow but says he will have to ask his wife if it’s ok if he plays!!! So what I’ve learned is that all girls act like the perfect girl till they either get pregnant or married and then they use the child/court system as leverage to get what she wants in the relationship!! Moral of the story is don’t get married and if u do get a prenup!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Poor guy.  100k+ a year job with a free house at 23…he had it made if he didn’t f~~~ himself over with that girl.  He could have been spending money on toys, hobbies, vacations, and stashing it away for early retirement…instead the longer he spends being the servant of his wife, the more expensive the divorce will be.

[EdogParticipant 254]

singledad984 wrote:

Moral of the story is don’t get married and if u do get a prenup!

 

 

Screw the prenup. Just don’t get married at all, then, even this is not an issue.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

[Anonymous 18]

Will any woman be able to prevent this young man from turning bitter and hopeless 5 years from now? No. They wouldn’t even try. Why? Because it’s one of their own that is gaining from his plight. For them he is the real man.

I don’t feel sorry for him. Some of us are born just too nice and too romantic to believe the reality of just being a utility to women. Sometimes it takes hard knocks and mental anguish to wake up. The key is to stay awake.

 

 

[ArchGHOWParticipant 42]

Careful with the ideas of a pre-nup. Even that might not save you from the tyranny of women. There have been more and more cases of pre-nups being voided because the women claim they were forced into it – they were intimidated or put under duress to sign it, were on drugs/alcohol at the time, or that they were somehow tricked into it. What you would need at the minimum is a few witnesses, a few lawyers, a notary  to confirm it’s authenticity and specific rules and regulations on it to outline any and every single situation you could possibly think of – and still, that might not be enough because she will pull the victim card or claim you were abusing her somehow which could null the pre-nup.

All this just to get married to a woman who loves what you can do and provide for her but who will never actually love YOU.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FermatParticipant 3478]

A tragedy indeed.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Anonymous 11]

I would not trust any pre-nups against the alligator tears of a wounded hamster before a possible White Knight judge.  Any pre-nup can be rendered null and void with her attorney using the right exploits and her acting prowess.

Sadly, your cousin is going to learn a very expensive lesson. She is the fool who calls all the shots over there and not a good partner for him to boot. The all about me princess show repeated yet again.

 

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

I’d give him 3… no 5 years max. If it last that long… then we will welcome him to the ranks. A tragedy indeed.  I’ve long learned that a Baptism by fire doesn’t have to be hellfire and brimstone, sometimes it’s just tribulation endured in your very own home.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[kizellParticipant 368]

How tragic.   A man with a nice income and a solid free place to live.   He had it made.

He made the same mistake I made when I was in my 20s.  He’ll be here soon enough.  Once wisdom crosses his path in the form of reality.

Stupid bitches never can be satisfied,  can they?  And how callous of a c~~~ to you have to be to threaten to take away a child if you don’t get what you selfishly want.  F~~~ing c~~~s I swear…

[WolfParticipant 890]

Yes, your cousin is screwed. The narrative of his “romance” is right out of the textbook for male destruction. He is already screwed, having married her and having a child; however, the longer he waits to divorce her, the more screwed he will be. You need to plant the seed in his head ASAP.

[Anonymous 3]

The most tragic part of all this is that there is a very good chance the child isn’t even his. Western women are truly toxic, as is the Western government. Western men are pathetic losers themselves, I’m not sure if there is anything redeeming at all about the West.

[BlackEagleParticipant 54]

Anonymous wrote:

The most tragic part of all this is that there is a very good chance the child isn’t even his. Western women are truly toxic, as is the Western government. Western men are pathetic losers themselves, I’m not sure if there is anything redeeming at all about the West.

hey hey heyy relax.. i’ve seen my fare share of eastern men eating their own feet  from women! please dont try to  divide …i happen to love western culture pre feminism/gynecentrism!

to the OP its your duty to try and open his eyes  a bit now! Poor bastard had it good

[singledad984Participant 201]

U know guys my cousin is one of the nicest guys u could ever meet he would give u the shirt off his back if u needed it! But he probably the most hard headed u could ever meet and because of that I believe he will put up with her ass forever!! Bc he does anything and everything to keep her happy! I honestly don’t think he will tell her to screw off!! But I do believe most women will look at him and say he is a “real man” Bc of his dedicated servitude towards her!! If he was one of us and said “I don’t owe any of u females s~~~” then he be classified as “not a real man”

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

Soon… the only woman ‘valuable’ of carrying a child will be replaced by machine and biotech.

I can’t wait.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Morale of story, don’t get married, it’s the Kobiyashi Maru for men.

 

BTW OP, did you ever advise him at the time, when each scenario happened, to pull the plug and bail? Since it seems like there were points in time with red flags being raised pretty high.

[DJCParticipant 44]

Just sad. 23years old, locked into 18 yrs of bondage. I bet you a million dollars there will be a baby number 2, maybe even 3.  Thats how these bitches work, they see a man start to catch his breath, and as soon as he starts to think “ok I might just make it out of this alive” they start with the “we should have another baby so the first kid has someone to play with” talk.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

DJC wrote:

Just sad. 23years old, locked into 18 yrs of bondage. I bet you a million dollars there will be a baby number 2, maybe even 3. Thats how these bitches work, they see a man start to catch his breath, and as soon as he starts to think “ok I might just make it out of this alive” they start with the “we should have another baby so the first kid has someone to play with” talk.

They start with the “I’d like to reset the timer on my 18 years of owning you” talk.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Beer wrote:

They start with the “I’d like to reset the timer on my 18 years of owning you” talk.

Possibly 22 years…what kid doesn’t do some form of post secondary education nowadays?

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