Not sure if i belong here,lets see.

[taliensinParticipant 30]

Hello my fellow escape artists

Let me start by saying that since i remember myself (i am 32 now) i have always preferred women as friends (and i still don’t believe friendships are possible with the same sex for both men and women,too much competition) for their complete lack of empathy ,distaste for weakness of any kind and analytical minds (when applied to others,of course) as opposed to most boys and men at my age who tend to be impulsive, sentimental and often competitive.

Having those experiences growing up meant that i was never hurt in a relationship because all those things i read as life altering experiences in here and in similar fora/websites i’ve known as natural since childhood and,well, people in general and women in particular are extremely predictable so i could always see it coming before it did.

Now,in my late teens i had this fantasy,of wanting to find a girl who was truly equal to me (yes,you could call me feminist in that regard) and marry ,have kids,the whole package, much to the amusement of the aforementioned girls (as my best friend once said “yes,we are all whores,please grow up and accept it”) but,of course, that never worked.

Then came my twenties which can be best described as a prolonged traveling orgy since the simple fact that women want to marry and settle down only after their famous biological clock chimes finally sunk in but as i am sure you already know this gets old pretty fast so i decided to try the relationship thing again, to the amusement of the gods and anyone lucky enough to know me in real life.

Then the dreaded thirty years of age struck and i found myself examining what i was doing. At that time i was already bored of my joke of a sex life which had,by then, winded down to an insane ex and a couple of -with benefits and decided to take a break from anything resembling intimate relationships of any kind, a 6 month me-my cat-reading type of thing which continues more than 2 years later.

You see,i found that, while i still like women more, i myself and i (not to mention what remains of my sanity) are far more important than the same little games everyone plays to feel better about themselves.

Its weird,its not like i stopped being attracted to women,its everytime i talk to one in a even-remotely sexual situation my reaction is something like “not this s~~~ AGAIN”, i just want to devote time to me and my friends instead of getting ever so disgusted at the insanity of every daddy-issues out there.  So,the question is,am i in the right place?

[taliensinParticipant 30]

(i can’t edit the post? wa?)

and,rereading it,seems i forgot to add the part where i specify why i am posting here in the first place.

While i personally consider the behaviors that drive most good men to alcohol, depression and the kind of music your mother warned you about as pretty much normal for women and think that being angry at them would be the same as getting angry at the sea for being wet i have unfortunately seen many men ruin their lives because they couldn’t see the game for what it really is.

This is only made worse by the modern state doing everything they can to cater to every whim a woman may have upto and including ruining YOUR life because a woman (GASP) lied for whatever reason , your kids taken away and you having to pay for the rest of your life because you were brainwashed into thinking things such as marriage can work in this toxic environment and all the good stuff and of course the completely false depiction of “all women” in western media (ameribros i REALLY feel for you, seeing what you are being forcefed over there is like peeking into bizaro world).

So, if anything i can help anyone take his life into his own hand and,if he chooses to, quit this rigged game then i would be happy.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

taliensin wrote:

So,the question is,am i in the right place?

Hello and welcome. I can guarantee you no MGHOW will rush to answer that one for you. It’s no surprise that they didn’t jump. Not because they / we are not helpful or understanding, but because MGTOW is not a sales pitch. Spend some time scanning introductions to see what I mean, because this website (and MGTOW itself) is deliberately created to be the type of environment and atmosphere where a man will say “FANTASTIC! I’M FINALLY HOME!” and he will KNOW if he belongs – or he will not. Either conclusion is acceptable and expected.

It does nobody any good to try and convince you. Least of all you.
Its “homework” and introspection only you are capable of… and encouraged to do.
Just like due diligence when investing in the market.

But don’t misunderstand as a negative or a dismissal. The rest of the world will fall over themselves to tell you what’s right (and “best”) for you – and what you should invest in. MGTOW is a place where you decide all of it. How awesome is that.

Beyond that, the terms and conditions and a sense of belonging will be entirely determined by you.

The door is open to leave, and it’s open to stay. Take all the time you need.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[taliensinParticipant 30]

you are,of course, right. The one to blame here is me and my amazing talent for failing to get my points across when typing in english,will have to work on that. I love the idea and i have yet to read an article i disagree with, we will see how long i survive in the forum though,thanks for the wellcome.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Would never guess it wasn’t your first language. Most impressive.

taliensin wrote:

I love the idea and i have yet to read an article i disagree with

Well that’s a positive indication. But it may help you not think of it in terms of “agreeing” or “disagreeing”, because it’s not an “opinion”. Its’s not possible agree (or disagree) with a fact. MGTOW is very truth orientated, and there are no illusions. Sometimes it tastes like s~~~, but they are happy to swallow the truth pills BECAUSE it’s not an opinion. If there are still illusions in your heart and mind, tread carefully.

Now and then, there are debates like politics and religion, personal tastes, “what MGTOW means” to each of us… those are opinions to be agreed with – or not. But the commonalities are non-debatable.

Wish you every success on your quest if I didn’t come across warm enough in welcoming you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[taliensinParticipant 30]

distant second but i am working on it.

Keymaster wrote:

Wish you every success on your quest if I didn’t come across warm enough in welcoming you.

I WAS PROMISED A RED CARPET AND COOKIES! especialy cookies!

and now you touched a nerve,in a good way, searching for the truth in life is always hard because you have to leave behind the lies you WANT to believe to feel better and look at reality which tends to be far from pink and fluffy.And then you have to look for a solution,if there is none within your power you have to accept what is and move on and here we are.

 

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

taliensin wrote:

I WAS PROMISED A RED CARPET AND COOKIES! especialy cookies!

Happy to disappoint. I burned cookies once. A terrific cook, but baking is not my thing. I use my oven for storage.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[CountMeInParticipant 38]

taliensin wrote:

i have always preferred women as friends.

I myself have always had girl “friends” instead of guy friends. Different reasons though. I found their behavior toward woman to be neanderthal and crude. This was just that I was brainwashed to think this was wrong behavior. These male dominate traits are exactly what woman look for. That’s why the “nice guy”always looses to the bad boy. I’ve since worked past that.

Take your time. Only you will know if this is where you want to be.

[Anonymous 42]

@squirrel, welcome to MGTOW, enjoy the forums.

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