Not even a full 2 months after final divorce, and s~~~ starting…

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

The younger teenage son came back from out of state visit with my ex. I can tell by what he said that his mom talked to him about stuff. She seems to be trying to exploit him missing her when it was almost time for him to come back up here, to suggest he is old enough to decide to move down there if he wants to.

Coincidentally, she is not working, despite having a master’s degree (and student loans), and her boyfriend has been out of work for 2 months. She doesn’t seem to get that I am not her husbank anymore.

My son is naïve, and thinks he can still visit HERE if he moved to Texas. I have a budget spreadsheet. It is real simple. I would not be able to afford to keep my house, or pay rent in an apartment, to say nothing about paying half of the airfare for visitation. There would simply be no HERE.

A year ago, when the ex left, I had like $44,000 in available credit on credit cards. I now have $106,000 in available credit, which I could use to buy gold. A one-way plane flight to Vietnam only costs $750 and a $105,000 of gold could fund a frugal retirement in Vietnam.

I’m considering the wisdom of putting my cards on the table, with regards to the ex, and letting her know what future she will have if she backs me into a corner. (which is none). And my other parting gift, would be to visit her ex, and let him know that she took his son out of state. If there is an attempt to move this beyond idle talk, I’m afraid I should just put the cards on the table.

Woman caused him to be held back a year because of her failure at home schooling. When we were married, she just homeschooled to have an excuse not to go to a job. My son should be in 9th grade. Now she wants to disrupt s~~~ again. F~~~ that s~~~.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[I_see_broken_clocksParticipant 258]

your level of zen, I don’t know how you do it. Thank you for being an example of NFG in the way of dealing with stupid bulls~~~ the right way. Thank you.

[Anonymous 7]

You are being played but you know this.
Your son will mature and he will know that you and he were being played.

FWIW, stick to your guns and keep your powder dry.
I was around ten when it dawned on me my egg donor was a giant c~~~ hammer.

Having said all that….
If you WANT to move to Vietnam then Chúc mừng.
If you don’t really want to move then don’t. F~~~ that bitch.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

My daughter, now 29 can hardly stand my ex. Kids see the truth.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I_see_broken_clocks wrote:

your level of zen, I don’t know how you do it. Thank you for being an example of NFG in the way of dealing with stupid bulls~~~ the right way. Thank you.

My zen has been achieved the hard way, such as being woken up in the middle of the night by the naked ex squatting down on me, after she had snuck out and cheated on me. I woke up in the middle of receiving literal sloppy seconds. The sicker s~~~ is, the more women get off on it.

I’m beyond giving a F.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Ranger One you are awesome. Retiring in Vietnam sounds really nice. I might be joining you one day.
Please keep us updated on your exes failed reverse monkey branch technique.

Any reverse monkey branch towards me will fail. I wouldn’t F her again, even with Blade and Carnage’s dicks.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 14]

Man, that is a tough position to be in Ranger. Glad I never got married. I hope how ever you play your cards on this in the future works out well for you and your kids.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

So if I am reading this right, given her current financial state, she was working your son to live with her, so she can then try to get child support from you?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

So if I am reading this right, given her current financial state, she was working your son to live with her, so she can then try to get child support from you?

That is my interpretation, since their household has had no income for 2 months and this hasn’t come up in the 17 months of separation + divorce until now.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Ranger that is some s~~~ to deal with, she’s being wreckless, lazy and selfish and its affecting you and your kid. Maybe she just thought the money would never stop coming in and if the situation gets bad enough you’ll keep providing. F~~~ that, not another penny, she should have planned ahead and prepared for this eventuality.

Stay strong and tell her to get a job!.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

Well the fact that you have your son living with you, and not her, its pretty clear she had some horrible actions/stuff in her baggage that the court did not just defacto give the child to her.

If you think your son is old enough to digest the information properly, explain to him without anger/blame what “mom” is attempting to do, and why it would not work out financially.

She thinks that child support could be enough to give her, her man child, and her son, enough money to pay all their bills and actually take care of her son.

You can come at this from a more neutral (non personal/hating) angle and show your son how a logical adult male makes serious decisions affecting others. By showing him what mommy is trying to do you can show him how her pipe dream would not come close to working out.

If he says you should just give her money, explain that people divorce its because they don’t want them in their lives anymore. Well that has consequences. Not having someone in your life means you can’t expect things from them anymore. You can’t expect them to take care of you anymore, as you have demanded they get out of your life. What kind of person says “I don’t love you and don’t want you in my life, but keep giving me your money for nothing in return from me.”

If he says you should anyway because “you took vows”, so did she and that did not stop her divorcing you and splitting up the family, and being with another man. The divorce she initiated and demanded destroyed those vows. She walked away from the vows, not you. Divorce has zero consequences for women in relation to the consequences it has for men.

If he says she wants to get back together, explain that once a woman divorces a husband, the chances of her doing it again go up. She made her choice. She split up, and you had to accept it. Now that you have accepted it, you are not going to go back and set yourself up for it again. That is just not being smart enough to learn a lesson from history.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Damn THE NO F~~~S GIVEN POWER is strong in this one.

The hive is disturbed.

Awesome dude, f~~~ing awesome.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

So if I am reading this right, given her current financial state, she was working your son to live with her, so she can then try to get child support from you?

That’s also my take on this.

Not just child support, but maybe even get the son earning and live off him in the future.

Children are just weapons to them.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Old Rottweiler wrote:

Kids see the truth.

Your son will see the Light as he matures and REMEBERS.

As far as your ex, it doesn’t appear that she has the fervor to try and legally take your son from you. He is with you for a reason, and I think her words are hollow, and make sure he UNDERSTANDS that if he goes YOU CAN”T AFFORD TO FLY HIM AROUND.

Ranger One wrote:

I’m afraid I should just put the cards on the table.

Talk to your son, and the hell with her UNLESS she tries to do something LEGALLY, but she sounds just like a TYPICAL Big Talking Lazy Dips~~~.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 42]

I’m glad I don’t have a family!

What a f~~~ing headache!

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single, value: PRICELE$$!!!!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

Old Rottweiler wrote:

Kids see the truth.

Your son will see the Light as he matures and REMEBERS.

As far as your ex, it doesn’t appear that she has the fervor to try and legally take your son from you. He is with you for a reason, and I think her words are hollow, and make sure he UNDERSTANDS that if he goes YOU CAN”T AFFORD TO FLY HIM AROUND.

Ranger One wrote:

I’m afraid I should just put the cards on the table.

Talk to your son, and the hell with her UNLESS she tries to do something LEGALLY, but she sounds just like a TYPICAL Big Talking Lazy Dips~~~.

I wish. I saw how she shredded her first ex in the last drawn out ugly custody battle a couple years ago.

And my son is sadly naïve. And he is trying to convince me that she’ll be reasonable and said she will only ask for what I am currently paying for to support him now while he lives with me. Like I believe that, but he does.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 12]

NO.

[Anonymous 12]

How about he can live with you if he does not want to live like a Bum.
And then slowly but surely unplug the Kid by opening his eyes to how the world really works.

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