Not a Tibeten Monk.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Less than a year and a half a year ago, I sworn off women. Nearly two months ago, I was told by a MGTOW I should swear off beer. Last month, my job demanded me to swear off vaping and a 37 year nicotine addiction. I became a MGTOW Monk, not a Tibetan Monk. It’s far too much, far too fast and I have rebelled. If MGTOW requires instant sainthood, I just cant do it. I did not wish to post my own s~~~ again but I feel like MGTOW is trying to control every aspect of my life. I will never return to the plantation and I guess I am a MGHOW but I wish to relate to my brothers in MGTOW. I am not some attention whore and I do not seek to divide members, I just seek guidance from those who may know more than I. That is all I ever really wanted.
If you think I am messed up, I get it. I was mostly raised by a single mother and the rest of my life was hard. I do not wish to go into details as none of us had a perfect life.

[Will RobinsonParticipant 3479]

It’s a common mistake. It’s exactly the same reason that people set new years resolutions with good intentions and then fail a few months later.

People overestimate how much they can achieve in a few months and underestimate how much they can achieve in a few years.

A good analogy is to think of trying to run a marathon, if someone tried tomorrow with no training and out of shape, they’d fail. If they made small improvements gradually over a year, they’d be able to run the marathon.

Learn strategies for impulse control and delayed gratification by searching the net and reading books. Here’s a start on the following link and a book called “The Marshmallow Test: Mastering Self-Control, Walter Mischel’ may give you a start in the right direction too.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/do-the-right-thing/201005/six-principles-best-manage-impulses-maximize-life-satisfaction-and

Make small graded changes and keep making them gradually over time (rather than trying to change everything all at once). And remember to reward yourself for success. That way you get into a positive dopamine feedback loop.

May you walk in peace and happiness, May you and all mgtow, near and far walk in peace and happiness.

[bladeParticipant]

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Astro wrote:

If MGTOW requires instant sainthood, I just cant do it.

Why not ?

Astro wrote:

. I did not wish to post my own s~~~ again but I feel like MGTOW is trying to control every aspect of my life.

Astro wrote:

I am not some attention whore and I do not seek to divide members, I just seek guidance from those who may know more than I. That is all I ever really wanted.

Astro wrote:

If you think I am messed up,

You sound like your going well .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Simply do what you want bro.
Sneak some vape session in where possible, so long as it’s a fairly neutral smell (not Cap’n Crunch Berry flavor etc.) no one will notice.

I keep to myself, tending to limit human interaction.
That’s a personal preference as I find many people tedious and a psychic drain.

Sometimes I might even go and do some blue pill s~~~: it’s called being human.
Who gives a f~~~?

Just don’t be an SJW cuck and you’re cool in my books!

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

What does MGTOW mess?

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY, not km way, mgtower way, carnage way, BUT YOU WAY.

Saint hood? A saint? Me?

Dude, I’m pretty sure if hell exist, I’m going straight there when I drop my meat suit.

Im a monk to avoid drama and health issues, I don’t drink because I never liked alcohol and health issue.

Although I don’t drink, I ocasionally sip a shop of rice liquor or orujo (high grade alcoholic beverage) after a good meal by a restaurant.

I never smoked, I do as I wish and I please.

If I have the desire I have no problem getting an scort for a few hundreds.

None of those things control my life, I have them if I wish, if do not, I don’t do it and it doesn’t represent a sacrifice in my end.

Im carnage, im the ruler of me, this is my world, I command and obey on my life according to will and desires.

IM A FREE MEN, are you a free men?

DO AS YOU WISH, that is MGTOW

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I remember when carnage use to give me the Heeby Jeebies. Now I know he’s the normal one.

Take his advice. It works.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

iMickey503 wrote:

I remember when carnage use to give me the Heeby Jeebies. Now I know he’s the normal one.

Take his advice. It works.

Or maybe you have become insane?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Carnage wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

I remember when carnage use to give me the Heeby Jeebies. Now I know he’s the normal one.

Take his advice. It works.

Or maybe you have become insane?

Degree of agreement with Carnage is a good measure of how your NFG skills are coming along.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[WallyParticipant]

Sparky, if you want to drink a beer drink a beer. As long as The beer is keeping you from going your own way no worries. For some alcohol may keep them from going their own way, same for anything.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 54]

Smoke Drink, f~~~ all the pussy you can!
We are all going to die someday.

Live while you can!

Just dont get married.

Let us know how its going please.

[Anonymous 18]

Astro wrote:

I will never return to the plantation and I guess I am a MGHOW but I wish to relate to my brothers in MGTOW.

You know there is that little voice deep in the recesses of your mind (its there if you listen closely) – the voice that says ‘only if you found the right woman, your life would be happier’.

Once you laugh at the silliness of that inner remnant of longing for a female in order to fully enjoy life, you are MGTOW.

Rest is smoke. Monk mode is most rewarding for a man in the long run. But getting there takes work. And its a fine re-calibration over few years. Even then there are failures at times.

To be MGTOW you don’t need to be a monk.

Just accept that you’re awesome by virtue of being a man, and the gynocentric society is run by c~~~s who value pussy over dignity.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Thank you for your responses, I mean that. I was starting to think bad of MGTOW but some of you have given me another chance. I am no angel, I said some things here I regret. I am no devil either, I am just a man on a path.

Manspread Mansplainer wrote:

Simply do what you want bro.
Sneak some vape session in where possible, so long as it’s a fairly neutral smell (not Cap’n Crunch Berry flavor etc.) no one will notice.

Yep, you are correct. I have found a way in my current situation. Unless they include nicotine in the drug test or sniff me for candy instead of the booze smell left over from students in my bus, I will be fine. I suppose the next will be a war on caffeine and then, we are all f–ked.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Wally wrote:

Sparky, if you want to drink a beer drink a beer. As long as The beer is keeping you from going your own way no worries. For some alcohol may keep them from going their own way, same for anything.

That’s what I think. If my wife hated it, can it be all bad? I see much crap in my profession but as long as I can function, who cares? I have many beers but refrain from the hard stuff and feel I am doing well for and old sailor who used to drink six times as much. Want to see a REAL alcoholic? Look no further than my first wife who I stayed sober clean for seven years.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Anonymous wrote:

Smoke Drink, f~~~ all the pussy you can!
We are all going to die someday.
Live while you can!
Just dont get married.
Let us know how its going please.

Trust me, I will never marry again. I may have my fights with members but I will never return to the plantation. I even took an oath to be a monk for life on these forums.

[Anonymous 38]

Astro wrote:

I did not wish to post my own s~~~ again but I feel like MGTOW is trying to control every aspect of my life.

This is what can happen when you ‘take oaths’, are overly ambitious for a particular ‘goal’ or outcome. You block out observations and natural impulses because they would be detrimental to your mission, and you become a slave.

You’ve had enough guidance by now. What it boils down to is eliminating that which is causing you suffering. Be relentless. Your life will improve bit by bit.

You remind me of an acquaintance who seems to be waiting for some magic cure while changing nothing about his situation. A man can only save himself.

Stop wasting your life and act. Words are not required, you don’t need to update or justify yourself everyone like some blue piller. Maybe take a year off MGTOW.com and work on yourself, then come back and tell us how you’re doing.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I have taken some time away in my own way but you are correct. No one goes blue to red pill overnight without the rage and side affects. I am doing better and I like living on my own. I never thought I would but I enjoy life alone but sharing it with a fellow MGTOW is even better. I still keep my oath as a MGTOW Monk with no regrets. I cannot go back or even trust myself with a hooker because it would make me stupid again.

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