No need for intimacy with women – the way it works for me

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Hey folks,

I will be honest and tell my personal experience and how it works for me. I’m pretty confident that you fellow brethren out there can take it as that, without being provoked or offended. That is not my purpose.

I am very AWALT-affected at the moment, and my aim is at getting away from a woman, not getting involved MORE in any of them.

I also do know that I need and crave and appreciate physical intimacy. I’m not interested to involve money when it comes to sex, even if it’d be regarding “to pay her to leave”.

Is all this a contradictive situation for me? No. If it’s something I feel fortunate about, it’s being bisexual. It feels very deliberating to be able to skip the whole destructive woman-chasing thing, and still be able to engage in meaningful, wellneeded intimacy. With a man. Taking place in a way that is uncomplicated, fun, respectful. Where it IS possible to also become good friends, hang out together, be relaxed, engage in meaningful discussions – but with no drama, and no strings attached.

For me personally, this works very well. Which way will I go in the future? I’ll borrow a quote from a different discussion:

Eric Lauder wrote:

It’s the same reason why bisexual men equally attracted to both women and men have a strong tendency to become fully gay: on the long run they go for the easier option.

This kinda makes sense to me. We’ll see.

This might not be a very mainstream MGTOW thing to write about (but then again, do the words ‘mainstream’ and MGTOW ever fit together?). But this is how it works for me, and I’m happy about it. Guess us MGTOW’s are allowed to exist in all flavours, even some flavours odder than others…

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Flat shared with a good looking outragiously Gay guy for a year when in Berlin. He would tell me stories of how easy it was for him to get sex any time of day or night by visiting public parks or Gay Bars in the city. Sometimes he wouldn’t even need to say a word to his temporary lover, just a smile, a nod, a wink, and into the bushes they go for quick relief.

I’ve got to admit I was jealous of this easy pick up culture. Women always seemed to want so much time and energy from me before they put out. He was a straight looking Gay and very charming and witty. Girls would flock to him and he would lead them on before exiting to “Get some C~~~”. I kinda’ realised that men f~~~ because they want to. Women f~~~ (most guys), because they think they can hook them into long term slavery.

He tried it on with me one time but I politely turned him down. “Thats a bridge I’m not ready to cross” was my refusal.

He was convinced that all men are secretly Gay but they just don’t know it. I like Asses, but not hairy ones :-)!

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 0]

Nordman wrote:

This might not be a very mainstream MGTOW thing to write about (but then again, do the words ‘mainstream’ and MGTOW ever fit together?). But this is how it works for me, and I’m happy about it. Guess us MGTOW’s are allowed to exist in all flavours, even some flavours odder than others…

The only requirement around her is that you are a man! Milo Yianopolis is unashamedly gay and yet he is a respected MGTOW. I love watching his speeches especially when he is calling out feminazis and I will buy his book when it comes out. No, Nordman, nobody here is going to judge you for being bi.

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Greg Honda wrote:

I’ve got to admit I was jealous of this easy pick up culture. Women always seemed to want so much time and energy from me before they put out. He was a straight looking Gay and very charming and witty. Girls would flock to him and he would lead them on before exiting to “Get some C~~~”. I kinda’ realised that men f~~~ because they want to. Women f~~~ (most guys), because they think they can hook them into long term slavery.

Hilariously funny the way your flat-mate led them on 😀 . And yes, because we want to. Simple as that.

Greg Honda wrote:

He tried it on with me one time but I politely turned him down. “Thats a bridge I’m not ready to cross” was my refusal.

Very elegant refusal! 🙂

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Thanks Nordman. I got nothing against Gays. Be yourself I say.

I used to get a bit p~~~ed off sometimes on the dance floor though. I like to dance and I move my whole body snake hips stlye, and some gay guys would hit on me on the dance floor. They figured I must be gay I guess. Some wouldn’t take no for an answer and I had to threaten violence to get them outta’ my space. Also in gay clubs (best place for Hi NRG dance music in the 80’s), they would grope me as I walked by them. (I was tall slim blonde and cute), That p~~~ed me off as well, as I don’t do that to women. But, I guess I was in their space so it’s their rules.

Anyway, yeah, you guys got it good. No bulls~~~ from guys trying to tie you down.

Hedonism all the way Yeah! 🙂

It's Time to get Wise

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Anonymous wrote:

The only requirement around her is that you are a man! Milo Yianopolis is unashamedly gay and yet he is a respected MGTOW. I love watching his speeches especially when he is calling out feminazis and I will buy his book when it comes out. No, Nordman, nobody here is going to judge you for being bi.

Cheers, thanks for your comment! And Milo is my hero ever since I discovered him in April last year. [walking up to the podium] “Feminism… is cancer. Thank you very much!” [walking down from the podium]. He’s simply undefeatable! Women being used to these mr-nice-guy-gay-best-friend-types get so shocked by him. It’s priceless to see the British stiff upper lip feminists totally lose it when he fires away and puts them down in the debate programs in the TV-studio.

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Greg Honda wrote:

I used to get a bit p~~~ed off sometimes on the dance floor though. I like to dance and I move my whole body snake hips stlye, and some gay guys would hit on me on the dance floor. They figured I must be gay I guess. Some wouldn’t take no for an answer and I had to threaten violence to get them outta’ my space. Also in gay clubs (best place for Hi NRG dance music in the 80’s), they would grope me as I walked by them. (I was tall slim blonde and cute), That p~~~ed me off as well, as I don’t do that to women. But, I guess I was in their space so it’s their rules.

I find that rude and unacceptable. Even if it’s a gay club, anyone’s personal integrity should be respected. I don’t know the “gay scene” so I don’t know if that’s a common “rule” everybody is happy with.

Greg Honda wrote:

Anyway, yeah, you guys got it good. No bulls~~~ from guys trying to tie you down.

Yeah, see that’s what I really appreciate! 🙂

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

To each there own as long as your life style choices don’t interfear with mine live and let live I say.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Akhilleus wrote:

To each there own as long as your life style choices don’t interfear with mine live and let live I say.

Yup. Fully agree.

My dick belongs in my fleshlight. Nice and healthy.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Greg Honda wrote:

He would tell me stories of how easy it was for him to get sex any time of day or night by visiting public parks or Gay Bars in the city.

Haha reminds me of the time I was going on a weekend trip to the races with some buddies and we were driving a couple states over. We stopped late at night at a truck stop…one of my buddies was a trucker so he knew all the spots. My other buddy hopped out to take a p~~~, but they locked the building up at night so he just walked to the edge of the woods and started p~~~ing. The trucker buddy sitting in the car with me was laughing his ass off saying “watch…someone is going to hit on him, this is where all the gays come for hook ups at night time” Sure enough someone gets out of a parked car and starts walking over to him as he’s p~~~ing.

He finished his p~~~ and as he was walking back to us, the dude gave him a smile and a nod and said “want some company?” If he wanted to he could have just said “yup” and that would have sealed the deal lol. Before I saw this I’d have just thought he was full of s~~~ if he told me about what goes on there…but after seeing that “Want some company?” has been an inside joke between us ever since lol.

[WallyParticipant]

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[NordmanParticipant 47]

Beer wrote:

The trucker buddy sitting in the car with me was laughing his ass off saying “watch…someone is going to hit on him, this is where all the gays come for hook ups at night time” Sure enough someone gets out of a parked car and starts walking over to him as he’s p~~~ing.

Whoa – “want some company?”… Fortunately that has never happened to me 🙂

Wally wrote:

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“I tell you buddy… I’d be the luckiest guy alive, if that did it for me.”

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Also shaming and telling you how to live your life that’s Tuna talk, trying to change your values and views to make a special interest platform Tuna talk, freedom of speech and thought and anti-gynocentrism core of MGTOW, everyone has a unique MGTOW flavor.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[NordmanParticipant 47]

@akhilleus-2 Great words about the core of MGTOW! As a non-native English speaker and quite new to this forum, I’m still tuning into what “tuna” and the tuna talk is all about. But I suppose it has something to do with destructive talk and gossip. And something with the smell of tuna…

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