No More Buying her shoes and doing honey do’s

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

No More Buying her shoes and doing honey do’s.I believe in the right to chose,how I spend my money and my time,I made it;it’s all mine.I don’t hate women and I don’t care how it sounds,I would rather buy my Toy’s that bribe a woman to stick around. A womans charms sure are grand,but if comes with a lot of drama,I got Madame Thumb and her 4 slutty daughters in the palm of my hand

[narwhalParticipant]

You aren’t even bribing a woman by buying her stuff and doing things for you. I bribe implies you get something back for your money and effort. You aren’t going to get anything in return. Does a slave getting anything for doing his master’s doing?

A coworker recently shocked me by summing it up in one simple statement. “The money comes with the man, like it was an arm or a leg”. That’s how they think. It’s not your generosity, it’s not showing how you care, it’s simply what they are entitled to by being in a relationship with you.

So I say, if you ever are in any kind of relationship, you never give her direct access to your money. You make it clear that what’s mine is mine, and what ever I give to you is not out of obligation, but out of my own free will.

Aside: I’d never buy her shoes anyway. I used to struggle with buying clothing for women, but I figured out how it’s done. Only buy her clothes that you want to see her in, and explain why you want to see her in it. “I think you’re chest will look great in this top, but it won’t look so slutty you can’t wear it in public”. “I pictured you in this and it really turned me on” She’ll love the indirect compliment on her looks and the insight on how she can be attractive to you. Don’t buy her what she says she wants. She won’t appreciate it, and you’ll feel like you wasted your money.

Ok. Then do it.

[experiencedParticipant]

You’ve made the right decision.
When you spend the money on yourself, she will tell you “that’s selfish.” Your upbringing will tell you “that’s selfish.”
SHE will say, “give the money to me” [[so I can spend it on myself, that’s not selfish.]]
YOUR upbringing will tell you, “give the money to her” [[so she can spend it on herself, otherwise you are selfish.]]
And never allow the thought of, “well it would have been for the house, or, our house. Sadly, “a man’s home is his castle ONLY applies today, if he has NO LAYDEE under the same roof / sharing a key / paying a pittance on some obscure bill, etc.

They will all now claim to be traditional conservative anti feminist….
and vote Hillary into office
like marriage once the power is shifted, male heads will roll.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

If you live with a women and paying the bills, you are making it where she can buy things with “her money’ .You have heard the “our money and “her money”.If you are a pimp even, you are giving her money from her John’s $ to buy f~~~ me pumps for the “stroll”.I tell my friends that tell me they can’t get women to leave.I tell them to not spend money on them .Keep no food in the house etc.they will go away. Answer is ussalay “I can’t do that”.You never own a pussy.You can make payments on a pussy.When I go out for fun,I have a budget.If I spend money on a woman it is my choice. I buy drinks for peole with out expecting anything.If a womwn ask for something.I ask her for something back! “do you believe in the (here after) because if you aren’t here after what I am here after.You are going to be here after I am gone

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

here is the rub,she believes that she is “blessing” you by just being there and you owe her for her time.You helped me boil it down to women= 1) your worng , she is right2) it your fault 3) She deserves and you owe her

[HitmanParticipant]

Slavery was abolished. .except for married men /cohabitation is the same. .hell.no.

[RoyDalParticipant]

A well chosen set of “toys” will last a lot longer than any woman’s looks or sex appeal. As for how long you can stand to be around her…

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 3]

Well you know what they say, a fool and his money are soon parted.

I don’t know why any man is buying a woman clothes in 2016. Women have higher incomes than men now anyway. Unless they choose to just stop working and sit at home, in which case that is also on the man for being dumb enough to marry her and giving her that option.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

shovelheadrider wrote:

here is the rub,she believes that she is “blessing” you by just being there and you owe her for her time.You helped me boil it down to women= 1) your worng , she is right2) it your fault 3) She deserves and you owe her

Great observation. I still haven’t figured this out. Why do women think you owe them for just being there? It is like their company is some priceless asset.
Women have an inflated estimation of their worth. (Your time of course is worthless, and her time is priceless)
And if by chance you sleep with one, then she figures you owe her a car or a house.
They seem to have egos as big as Texas.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Ps- the next time some woman wants me to buy her something, I think I will give her a bill for my time

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t believe they think of it the same way they do, it’s not an entitlement in their eyes. They think about how it shows he cares, how they should share in a relationship, how she’s providing sex etc. She thinks of everything except the math and how it doesn’t add up.

Ok. Then do it.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

Yes it could be expensive “s~~~ test” I have asked why I have to do this because I loved her. I was to spend whole day doing something to pass the s~~~ test that I loved her, but a 15 min bj was too much for me to ask her to prove her love.Which would start the circular logic argument. I ask did you knot know I loved bj’s and pussy?circular argument starts i.e.” its always about sex! I thought me have moved on in our relationship than just sex.Here is the nut cutting time a lot of guys get nutted right there.F~~~ing me and sucking me regular was PART of the job description for MY woman.Men are to blame.They do not want to stand up for themselves .They do not want to get women mad.Why worry because she is not going to give you any .They always require something to get off anything.You have to tell a women what you require. My golden rules 1) it cost 0$ to walk around horny 2) it does not matter if she shuts up if she is not in ear shot 3) you can find a girl behind the counter at many 7-11’s would love to meet some one that wants to spend money and have a good time.Babe Ruth struck out 1330 times Ask for pussy! the babe would not hit hr if he kept his bat on his shoulder.How much pussy would you had if you struck out 1330 times.In theses days money is worth more than pussy

[RennieParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

You aren’t even bribing a woman by buying her stuff and doing things for you. I bribe implies you get something back for your money and effort. You aren’t going to get anything in return. Does a slave getting anything for doing his master’s doing?

A coworker recently shocked me by summing it up in one simple statement. “The money comes with the man, like it was an arm or a leg”. That’s how they think. It’s not your generosity, it’s not showing how you care, it’s simply what they are entitled to by being in a relationship with you.

So I say, if you ever are in any kind of relationship, you never give her direct access to your money. You make it clear that what’s mine is mine, and what ever I give to you is not out of obligation, but out of my own free will.

Aside: I’d never buy her shoes anyway. I used to struggle with buying clothing for women, but I figured out how it’s done. Only buy her clothes that you want to see her in, and explain why you want to see her in it. “I think you’re chest will look great in this top, but it won’t look so slutty you can’t wear it in public”. “I pictured you in this and it really turned me on” She’ll love the indirect compliment on her looks and the insight on how she can be attractive to you. Don’t buy her what she says she wants. She won’t appreciate it, and you’ll feel like you wasted your money.

If I had a woman, I know what she would be wearing.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

shovelheadrider wrote:

here is the rub,she believes that she is “blessing” you by just being there and you owe her for her time.

And she expects you to believe it too. Which is why it completely derails women when you give them nothing, especially attention. Suddenly you’ve completely flipped the script and they will do anything for you to try to get some sort of validation from you. Don’t give them that either.

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