No longer trust 99.9% of people

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Edited my last post, Gay Frogs did 911 I had left out the gay frogs part by accident. What is up with them gay frogs though?

Yea, it’s a shame… The world is so f~~~ed up that humans have started to turn the freakin frogs gay.

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Anonymous wrote:

Around here everyone but me is in self-destruct mode! And they want company!

I’m in survival mode. I fear that I will be stuck in this mode for life.

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MasterShake wrote:

Easiest way to be happy is to be thankful. I dunno about you but I believe in God and Jesus and it helps having that connection. Its really easy to be thankful to God. If not then just be thankful for being born at all on Earth. We have great air, great trees, great food, great challenges, and always opportunities to grow. I don’t trust anyone with important stuff or rely on them. That doesn’t stop me from having fun with others though. It also feels great to help people just to help. Just be conscious that your helping and not being used.

True. I’ve given up on God a long time ago. I respect the idea and have no problems with others believing in a higher power. However, that ship sailed a long time ago. Yea, I know they say God helps those who help themselves. If that is true, I must be a Saint still waiting for my wings.

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Trailboss wrote:

Sorry….your hanging around the wrong f~~~ing people….Stop that!

Welcome to New York Metro.

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Jake wrote:

trust people that are deserving not just anyone I’ve known people for over ten years that doesn’t make them trustable

That would equal no one.

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My post divorce anger ran for years (second divorce). A lot of wasted time a lot of wasted money. A few good friends are a nice thing to have once time heals some of the crap one has to go through.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

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NerdTunneler wrote:

Let them be. Be responsible for your own life. Your happiness is what you make out of it…

Agreed. However, going it alone in solitude for the next 40 + years would weaken most people. I can do it, but I fear it would just increase my rage and anger towards people. Funny, I was very social in HS and college. Not sure what the f~~~ happened to the world. Perhaps, it’s just me…

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Carnage wrote:

Dude I’m the same, women are leeches, coworkers try to f~~~ you up all the time.

Family? The try to leech you too.

Friends, if they can they make you pay for s~~~ they want.

Yes you are alone in this world.

But guess what, that’s great, becouse you HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ALONE, BUT YOU DIDNT KNEW.

Now you are alone like before, but you are able to recognize your enemy, that’s half of the battle.

Me? Im alone, but I’m not lonely.

Im half alien.

Im a monsters and they should be afraid.

One thing I’ve learned. You can be with someone and still be lonely. Now, post divorce, I just have distain, distrust and wonder what’s in it for them when someone asks me for something. Notice, I never ask anyone for anything. I broke my arm once, didn’t want to bother my then wife, so I drove myself to the hospital. I was actually yelled at for doing so. WTF?

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WPL wrote:

I know how you feel. When I was in primary school, I was forced to see many different psychologists, psychiatrists, and even a neurologist (there’s nothing wrong with me, and never has been — without getting too deep into personal history, this was due to my parents’ protracted and bitter divorce, initiated by…. you guessed it, my mother. Attorneys on both sides wanted evaluations of the kids). Anyhow, my dad revealed to me much later that one of the shrinks had told him that I seem not to automatically trust people. I don’t know what sort of reaction the doc was expecting from my dad, but my dad replied, “well, why SHOULD he? Trust must be earned.” Well, the doc didn’t have an answer for that.

Oh, and one other shrink and I got to discussing science. Rather than admit that I knew more than he did, he wrote in his report that I was “making up pseudoscience”. Well, which one of us now has an engineering degree?… yeah, not that asshole.

Now, if I’ve known someone for a time, and if he’s never asked anything unreasonable from me, and if he’s never lied to me, never tried to mooch off me, then I might begin to trust him.

Attorneys.. They just do this crap for more $$$. I swear, they’ve ruined so many lives, yet they get paid for it. WTF? Heartless bunch of scumbags. I cannot stand lawyers. If I was ever in a position of power, first thing I’d do is shoot all the lawyers. The therapists are equally as bad. They use people as guinea pigs. Half the time they don’t even know what they are doing. Give a few drugs and hope something works.

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Murinees wrote:

This is a scary world. When I was 6, I trusted my classmate to hold my bag with my art assignment (a snail made of paper stripe) while I went to the bathroom. When the time came to turn in the work, I found my snail was now owned by my classmate. He stole it. I told my teacher, she did not believe me.

Looking back, as little as a 6-year-old, he can do such an evil thing. As a 6-year-old myself, this world is hell, how can I live here when supposedly a friend can do such thing, how can I trust anybody? Perhaps from that time on, I really can’t trust anyone, which made myself very inclined to be self-sufficient.

Then I thought maybe a wife is the one who I can trust and be together. I held this belief very strongly, as in my society back then, family is upheld and my parents seem to do quite well. As I am now an MGTOW, you should know what had happened to my marriage. It was depressing that my last hope shattered, but it does prepare me to find the true meaning of life.

I have forfeited the world. It does me no good and I am so ready to leave when the time comes.

You should had beat that dude down in recess. I recall one time I moved to a new place and went to a new school. Some of the boys there thought they were tough and tried to pick a fight. One threw a basketball at me. Said it was an accident, I said no problem. He then did it again. I took the basketball, walked over to him and smacked him across the face with it. No one ever bothered me again. Can’t do that anymore, but back in the day, it was how I confronted things. Not with violence, but when there is an issue, you talk about it and find a resolution.

As for a wife, I thought the same. It amazes me how a person can turn on you so quickly. Hence the reason why I cannot trust any of them. I would love too, however, the costs are too great. Sex is nice, however, financial security is even nicer. I prefer the later. If I am alone for life, I can handle that. I cannot handle living in a van down by the river due to divorce rape. She tried, but failed miserably. She was the one who got financially devastated, not me. Not too long ago she finally admitted to a mutual friend that she really f~~~ed up. When I was told this, I didn’t acknowledge her. I just said who? I am sorry, you must have me confused with someone else. That ForeverDone is dead. I have no recollection of the woman you are talking about.

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743 roadmaster wrote:

My post divorce anger ran for years (second divorce). A lot of wasted time a lot of wasted money. A few good friends are a nice thing to have once time heals some of the crap one has to go through.

Sorry you had to experience this. I am more angry at myself than anyone else. The buck stops with me. I am now once bitten, twice shy.

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Man I am exactly the same way. I was life of the party until about my mid 30’s. But so many disappointments with women and other people led me to the same space you now find yourself in….

Its the times we live in. There is a concerted effort to break the bonds that unite people so we are all drifting alone…

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Human beings are unfortunately predators and that predatory nature shows it face a lot in relationships or opportunities to screw someone else over for their own benefit. I don’t blame you, always be kind but skeptical until someone offers something of value to you and then you can reciprocate and open up. It’s unfortunate but largely the truth.

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Sad state of affairs. This is what the majority of the world has come to. What’s in it for ME. And of course, $$$$$$$.

[Wildwalker57Participant 107]

I am in my early 40s, not religious, and am in the same shoes. I don’t trust anyone, but after a while, I got over that, accepted it, and just know that most people are out for themselves and will run you over without blinking. There are a few exceptions out there, but everyone likes to think they are that .01% and most aren’t.

What I do, is focus on myself. I found my passion in life. I found a reason to wake up and be excited to Carpe Diem (Seize the day!). I found my passion with writing and doing art. It is literally the first thing I think about when I wake and the last thing before I go to sleep. In finding my passion, I have found I don’t even think about anyone else. I have found when you stop focusing on something that’s bringing you down, it miraculously loses its power to bring you down. I can’t change people, but I can live a life where I manifest my love into the world every single day. I am focused on creating and birthing into the world my creative visions, and I have been doing this for years now and it never gets old.

If I might be so bold, I would say search within yourself for something that gets you jacked up and excited to get out of bed in the morning. It took me six months of searching to find my passion. I tried a lot of different things (key word- different). Search within yourself, have faith, be determined, and be excited about it. I don’t believe I am special, and I believe I have all the tools in this life to live a happy life. I believe that for you too because I’m not all that special. Keep searching because that is what it sounds like you are doing by even asking the question. Keep searching.

"It's a trap!" Admiral Ackbar.

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Wildwalker57 wrote:

If I might be so bold, I would say search within yourself for something that gets you jacked up and excited to get out of bed in the morning. It took me six months of searching to find my passion. I tried a lot of different things (key word- different). Search within yourself, have faith, be determined, and be excited about it. I don’t believe I am special, and I believe I have all the tools in this life to live a happy life. I believe that for you too because I’m not all that special. Keep searching because that is what it sounds like you are doing by even asking the question. Keep searching.

I’ve accomplished all that I have set for myself aside from running for public office. Aside from that, there really isn’t anything else I want to do. I was hungry when I was younger and had nothing. I have financial stability, a home, car. What else do I need? It would be nice to find someone to share it with, but that is no longer really possible these days it seems. I find life very boring. You name it, I’ve done it (aside from drugs and going to outer space).

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