No Fckng Way! It's Getting Serious Out There. . . WTF

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

Jumping out of planes this weekend on the west coast and a buddy showed up an hour ago.

He road tripped down from Oregon.

He did three tours in Iraq, has no criminal record and is a stand up guy.

I ran into him after my last landing and could tell something was wrong when I walked by. Dropped my gear in the hanger and grabbed him.

We walked over to my Jeep and I asked him what was up.

Let me start by saying, I am speechless.

He didn’t have his girlfriend with him. He is in fact blue pill to the bone and that will never change. His girlfriend is gorgeous and has been maintaining a really good unicorn facade for the last year.

He has an ex from two years ago that made a false domestic violence accusation (after he caught her cheating) but he was never charged.

However, there was a restraining order put in place by a judge at the time that was set for a three year period.

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Anyway, he had tears forming when he told me what happened last week (in Oregon).

Tears forming. And he did three tours in Iraq.

I knew it was serious.

He was in Oregon last week driving and his hybrid unicorn, gorgeous girlfriend in the passenger seat.

And he got pulled over for speeding.

The cop got his license, told him he was going 12mph over the speed limit and walked back to his car.

Then came back after running my buddy’s info and asked his current girlfriend for her ID. And when she asked why, the cop told her that his computer told him that the driver has an active restraining order against him from a woman and he is required to check to make sure that him and her are not together.

He then took her ID back to his car.

And all hell broke loose in my buddy’s truck because pumpkin didn’t know anything about that.

The cop came back and she was crying. And the cop went so far as to tell her the ‘petitioner’s’ name on the order and said he only checked her ID because she was a close age/ color/ etc match and he had to be sure.

And at that point, the last thing my buddy was worried about was the ticket.

His girlfriend got out and was still crying, and another cop car pulled up.

At that point it was Team C~~~ Block (with tin badges & guns) to the rescue.

She said she didn’t want to get back in my buddy’s truck and was ‘scared’ and the second cop recommended she call someone to pick her up, while the other cop told my buddy to stay in his vehicle when he opened the door to get out.

And then it was done.

The first cop told him that she called a friend to pick her up and one of them would wait with her until her girlfriend came.

And he was told to leave.

It’s been a week and he’s pretty shaken up right now. He said when he called her that night, she said ‘I’m not ready to talk right now. . .’

And he hasn’t heard from her since.

He’s a freakin’ mess at this point.

And I’m speechless.

Going to try to get his brain re-wired at 13,000 feet tomorrow.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

Now.

WTF is going on out there at this point?

Seriously.

I had no idea this kind of sh*t was going down and at this level.

[Anonymous 6]

Did he know about the restraining order??

Second of all, why the F~~~ would she get out of the vehicle?? He didn’t do anything to her, and I’m almost certain that the officer broke some sort of protocol saying the name of the woman who has the restraining order on him.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Your buddy is too good for that stupid c~~~. you can tell him I said that. Truth.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Well…
That is f~~~ed up how (and I am assuming his position is that the domestic charges were bogus) a false accusation can haunt this guy for so long, when a judge recently jumped through hoops to make sure a woman who actually stabbed her BF would not be affected at all by the charges.

Having said that.
1. If he is going to date, he needs to tell them his side of the story before they find out some other way.
2. He got a good glimpse of where he actually stands with her. Had she viewed him as Brad Pitt, she would have made every effort to hear his side and forgive him, probably even side with him and hate on the ex.
3. He should go MGTOW and forget about unicorns.
4. He is a hero for his service imo.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

I get not being happy with your boyfriend having a restraining order but if you have been going out with someone for a year and you just walk away an emotional wreck unable to talk about it you’re a f~~~ing child.

I understand a restraining order is a bit of a big deal and could be a red flag for her but really…they have been going out for a year! Talk to him over the phone at least you bitch.

I feel bad for him and getting a bulls~~~ restraining order sucks (unless he deserved it) but she is a c~~~ for not talking to him. She probably is loving being the victim right now. “Poor me, my boyfriend has a dark past. At least I think he does because I refuse to sit down and get the facts from him. Boo hoo hoo.
C~~~ blocking cops suck but she’s a C.U.N.T. For walking away with no communication with him.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[Anonymous 54]

Blue pill hell.
She assumes the worst of him, with zero information.

Mention Mgtow at 10,000 Feet.

[Anonymous 3]

Why are you guys blaming the girl instead of the cops and the legal system and the previous woman?

You can’t expect a woman to be a saint.

What you can expect, is for men to use some judgment and not let things snowball.

When you trade your freedom for security you get neither. Too many people want a police state for “protection” and they “respect authority” and all that other garbage. If you’re going to do that, then this is what happens. You can only trust yourself in this world, stop putting your faith and trust in systems and other people and maybe things get better.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

If he hasn’t been arrested all he loses is the 2nd girlfriend who has proven herself unworthy of him anyway. Obvioulsy, he needs to go hard core monk for a few years. Good luck helping him with that.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

Venom –

Yeah. In order for an order to be valid, a guy needs to have been served with it.

And as far as the respondent & petitioner’s names:

Accessible via something called public record.

[Anonymous 14]

He will likely end up in jail sooner or later. Messing around with stupid bitches can do that ya know? He seems to be picking some winners too.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

At least they checked and didn’t just rip him out of the car and put him in cuffs like they did to a buddy of mine, same situation, new girlfriend

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Anonymous 11]

Your buddy had a swinging frozen mackerel uppercut to his jaw. That is utterly f~~~ed up beyond belief. The c~~~s, cops, and system are responsible.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

This is why you’ve got to put people’s feet to the fire early in the relationship. If this chick flipped so easily over something so petty, can you imagine what she’d do in a real pinch?

Tell your boy, who I am sure does not want to hear it, that the sound he just heard was a bullet whizzing past his head and that now, knowing he is in a hot zone, he should put on his f~~~ing helmet and keep his f~~~ing head down.

[Anonymous 3]

What you guys are demanding is not something possible for a woman. Stop thinking of them as equals. Stop thinking they can be rational or loyal. That type of thing is beyond them. It’s just feminist lies.

Of course women have waged tremendous damage by being gifted authority and power and being treated as equals, let alone as superiors in the face of the law and Corporate America. But that doesn’t mean that will change in your personal relationships.

If you are looking for a woman that will stick by you and will trust you no matter what others say, you are a fool. That woman does not exist.

Do not marry. Do not cohabitate. Do not impregnate. And never trust or believe in a woman, ever.

[joetechParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

Yeah. In order for an order to be valid, a guy needs to have been served with it.

That’s what I used to think, until I was hauled away from my front door.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 43]

thanks judge f~~~wit for a long term Restraining order.

wanna bet current gf is gonna smack him with a ro of her own? mmm the gift that keeps on giving!

[sidecarParticipant 35851]

Sky-O wrote:

And he hasn’t heard from her since.

Bullet dodged.

Even if he doesn’t realize it.

That’s the problem with blue pill thinking: it warps your perception so you mistake benefits for problems. And vice versa.

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

Tell him that staying with that girl is like jumping without a parachute.

Someone is gonna end up as street pizza.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

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