No Contact: A Tool For MGTOW

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

NO CONTACT is an essential tool to have when dealing with an ex-wife. Don’t be afraid to use it! I’ve gotten a second shaming-guilting email and I have no intention of answering that one either. No matter what the message is, beware of the potential for manipulative ways in an attempt to bypass your good sense and corrupt your position. Only consider responding when you are just about sure the next communication will come from her lawyer. And then, even then, NO EXPLANATIONS! Short and to the point, DONE.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Keep the e-mails, just in case, Ms. Crazy gets Crazier, and you “need” them for legal reasons.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 25]

Yup. That’s exactly what I’m doing with my ex.

Everything gets audit trailed and kept. She only gets a response when it’s absolutely necessary and relevant.

I said goodbye to crazy a long time ago. She’s someone else’s problem now

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Keep the e-mails, just in case, Ms. Crazy gets Crazier, and you “need” them for legal reasons.

Great reminder!

Point Of No Return wrote:

Only consider responding when you are just about sure the next communication will come from her lawyer.

I still would use your tools and go with NO Contact.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Yes Point of no return.

It was my approach after court was done.

My lawyer gave me sound advice. We had done the initial court matters. My ex-wife had violated every court order. I wanted to go back to court and straighten her out.

My lawyer said that I had two choices. One, place another 5k in her retainer and she would move forward. Or, two, drop everything and move forward with my life.

She told me the one big truth. It isn’t criminal court. It is family court. No judge or court can make my ex-wife become a decent person.

I dropped everything and went on with my life. No contact with ex-wife or child for 4 years.

Then one day my son arrived at my doorstep. I spent the next 5 years trying to get him on path. But, alas, he was too messed up momma boy.

But, no contact is the path!

Peace brothers

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

Also, whenever you are forced to have a conversation with her, especially on the phone, record the whole thing.

https://www.amazon.com/dB9PRO-Audio-Recorder-Gray-Microphone/dp/B0193NVDG4/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1495046981&sr=8-3&keywords=voice+recorder+usb

Something like this. Research your local and state laws about requirements for recording. For instance, some states require that you inform the other party. Others do not. Do your research!

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Anonymous 43]

no contact, 900 miles away is just about perfect. No car chases, no tracking devices, no kicked in doors, and no private investigators.

Life is good.

[Anonymous 3]

Silver Fox wrote:

Also, whenever you are forced to have a conversation with her, especially on the phone, record the whole thing.

Smartphones can be set for automatic call recording. It is also useful when I don’t remember exactly what the other person said, and don’t want to look dumb and ask again. Just make sure you don’t let any other app to upload those into some “cloud”.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Most important part of “no contact” is never caving under any circumstances. When you make up your mind to do it, don’t back down. Not even if your phone explodes with 50 texts every hour. Not even to say “go away” or to try and make a point….

No contact IS the point.

It’s all you need to say.

Nothing.

It feels fantastic too, because everything she’s doing to herself, she’s doing to herSELF – while you do nothing, or anything else.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[joetechParticipant]

I love call blocking. They didn’t have that back when phones were attached to the wall. Call blocking makes no contact a breeze. 2000 miles of geography helps, too.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

NO CONTACT = NO F~~~S GIVEN. They go hand and hand.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 42]

I don’t know how, I don’t have an X wife? I must be missing something here?

I do however believe in preempted strikes on marriage to avoid the smoldering ruins of divorce! Right down the smokestack as they say!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Repeat after me: “Please direct all future communication through my attorney. Failure to do so will result in a restraining order being filed against you.”

[Anonymous 14]

This strategy is a big deal, you young guys need to do this as soon as possible in life in regards to relationships that go bad. There is no reason to stay in contact with someone that it does not work out with, it will only get more and more ugly.

Just walk away.

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