Nix Mansplaining

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  • #1522
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    Ether_ore
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    Another new term for me, which I only recently came across is “mansplaining”. This, apparently is something women accuse men of doing; it taking the form of (according to women) of talking down to them. This is why I adopted MGTOW as opposed to MRA. If in a negotiation, a man’s voice is marginalized on the grounds that he is assuming the position of teacher without warrant, then any further attempt to negotiate is an exercise in futility. It is like proselytizing. If they don’t want to hear it, you are just wasting your breathe.

    My own approach has become; if I ever am confronted (though I seldom am…I avoid the “opportunity”) of having a discussion with a woman on the subject of male/female relations; I recognize that I do not have the right to any input concerning her behavior. If I don’t engage with the problem, there is no problem, and I walk away. I am not a woman’s teacher and I am damn sure not her student. I have absolutely nothing to gain interacting with a woman, and by being MGTOW, I have, as a Buddhist might put it… attained unto enlightenment. Men to a large extent cause their own suffering.

    When women see and understand that men will not engage in argument with them, then maybe we can say some progress is being made.

    #1525
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    Crazy Canuck
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    Women hate being ignored, it’s the worst thing. If you don’t respond when they try to talk to you they will flip out big time. Silience speaks louder than words they say.

    I remember helping women at work and they assumed I wanted to have sex with them. I didn’t say anything back. Now I think twice about helping women. Either way you’re an asshole. If you don’t help them then you’re selfish prick, if you do you’re a desperate prick trying to get into their pants.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #1526
    EbanSoul
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    That’s how I handle it. Only speak when the moment 100% calls for it. Don’t make any small talk. Remember that every thing you do you will be judged for. (Condemned for is more like it.) In my eye’s the way your dealing with all that is absolutely right. I have watch a lot of guys loose there jobs just because a woman didn’t like them, and in this economy that’s really to much to risk.

    #1531
    TheBard
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    Pretty much how I think too. I only talk to women at work or in public whenever I absolutely have to. The other day I was a best buy to see if they had anymore of those 3ds games that were part of a buy 1 get 1 free deal and when I got to the 3ds isle there was none of the games part of the deal left and the deal hadn’t even been on for 24 hours, like I expected, but there was a cute girl who was my age also in the isle looking at 3ds games. I thought about making a joke and saying “you looking for the buy 1 get 1 free 3ds games too? Best buy probably only had 2 of each game when the deal started yesterday lol.” I decided not to because I figured she would take it the wrong way and go online and complain how she couldn’t even go to best buy without getting hit on because men are desperate and weak. I am lucky though because even though 98% of the people I work with are women they are cool and not a pain in the ass.

    #1639
    Ether_ore
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    @CrazyCanuck

    Yeah… I know that’s true. Here is a story of how I learned that lesson. Right off I’ll tell you that I handled this incident badly, but I learned from it.
    I was working in the maintenance department for a flight services company. A woman got hired into the department, and I decided That I was not ever going to be accused of sexual harassment. I knew that anything you say can be construed as hitting on a woman if it has nothing to do with the job. I decided that I would only speak to her if the job required it. Next thing I know, our boss came to me asking if I thought abuse of women was appropriate. She had complained that I was ignoring her, which I was. Social pleasantries in my mind had nothing to do with work. So there you go; I received a reprimand for trying to mind my own business.

    So I’ll smile, nod and try to be polite from a distance, but otherwise it’s strictly business. With women, it’s a no win situation. All you can do is minimize contact with them and give them a little excuse as possible to see you as either a positive or negative challenge. My mantra is and will be: there is absolutely nothing to be gained by interacting with women.

    #1650
    Tyberius
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    Canuck is right on that. Attention is a woman’s lifeblood, but to believe neglect is “abuse” is just capital BATS~~~ CRAZY. Not talking to women at work is the way to go. They don’t like it? too bad. You can say this to a supervisor’s face “I don’t talk to women at work about anything other than work just like I don’t talk to you at work about anything other than work. This is not a social playground, if you don’t understand that, then perhaps you should not be a supervisor. You should not be encouraging employees to talk, about anything other than work anyway. So what’s your problem exactly?”

    Call the bitches OUT! It may even get you promoted. They can’t nail you for that.

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    VileNord
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    There is a new girl in my workplace, which is a rarity seeing as I work in a machine shop. She’s probably the cutest little Vietnamese chick I ever saw and every man in the shop besides me is abuzz behind her back. When we talk (and the job requires it cause I program the machine she runs) I NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER, EVER talk to her like she is a girl. If she wants to work in a man’s world like machining is, than shes going to be treated like a man. I won’t coddle her just because she has a nice ass.

    Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

    #1704
    Crazy Canuck
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    Btw “slut walk” is all about getting attention. Dressing like a slut is about getting attention. Seriously people actually believe women dress like sluts for themselves?

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

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