New Years Vasectomy

[Sagaciously SingleParticipant 214]

Well it’s a new year and at the risk of being too cliche, it’s time to arrange a long time promise to myself to have the snip!

Perhaps the tipping point was a thought I was struck by today that gave me absolute resolve to follow through with the procedure – I would like to become as least desirable to women as possible.

Seriously.

To explain further I’ve just finished reading Lawrence Shannon’s “The Predatory Female: A field guide to dating and the marriage-divorce industry” and in particular what he explains as “The Invisible Man”. I will quote a little to give you an idea:

“Q. Who is the Invisible Man?”
“A. Any man the predatory female has deemed to be of no further use. Although she’ll go to extremes pleasing and cultivating a man when she’s in the acquisitive mode, she views him as untouchable once his purpose is served. He totally ceases to exist in every way. He becomes a nonperson…”

For me, one way of being of no further use once his purpose is served is after a man has given a woman a child or 2. I’ve seen it first hand with very good friends of mine. Once the man has provided this commodity to a woman he is dismissed and ignored.

I see having a vasectomy as becoming that Invisible Man that Shannon is talking about. I don’t have a paternal instinct and since I can remember (late teens) I’ve had very little desire to have children, and this has obviously impacted negatively on pretty much every relationship (barring hook-ups) I’ve had.

I’ve literally seen the colour literally drain out of a woman’s face when I drop that little truth bomb on a first date or after we’ve been hanging out for a week or two!! Most cannot comprehend what I’ve just told them, or assume I’m joking.

But anyway, back to the theme of my post. Instead of fearing the relegation to Invisible Man status and worrying about being shunned and ignored by women, I now choose to embrace it.

I WANT to be invisible.

Invisible to these treacherous, manipulative creatures as much as possible and navigate through our Matriarchal society limiting the time I am required / expected to communicate with them.

What better way to start cloaking myself in this invisibility than by becoming as undesirable as possible through the inability to provide them with what they want the most from a Man.

Embrace the Invisibility brothers!!!

"And this you can know - fear the time when Manself will not suffer and die for a concept, for this one quality is the foundation of Manself, and this one quality is man, distinctive in the universe". - John Steinbeck.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Been there, done that, can’t recommend it enough. Getting a vasectomy was literally the best gift I ever gave myself. It has saved me an uncountable amount of money.

All MGTOW who do not actively wish to reproduce should have vasectomies. Somewhere there needs to be a MGTOW doctor who will give them away for free. Does anyone know someone who might be interested in this?

[Sagaciously SingleParticipant 214]

Thanks Doc, I appreciate your support.

I also apologise if my post seemed a bit rambled and nonsensical but I’ve just finished a 14hr day and needed to get my message out there to the MGTOW community while it was fresh!

Although it’s not what you specifically asked for, http://www.worldvasectomyday.org/ is a great site for information and advice on the topic.

It seems they’re fighting the good fight for all those seeking a childless life!

"And this you can know - fear the time when Manself will not suffer and die for a concept, for this one quality is the foundation of Manself, and this one quality is man, distinctive in the universe". - John Steinbeck.

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

I can heartily recomend it. However in your scenario, in order to become invisible as you wish you would have to advertise the fact. I think its much more fun to keep such things to yourself, let the dumb whore drain you dry safe in the knowledge that she is wasting her time.

I did not advertise after I had mine. I had several girl friends and a wife who were unaware of my sterile status. However in truth my wife did sugest it as she could not have kids anyway and could not take the pill either, ovarian sist syndrome or some such. I didn’t like to tell here I had already had it done for fear of her becoming a little agitated at the truth. Tee hee!

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[RoyDalParticipant]

Sagaciously Single wrote:

“Q. Who is the Invisible Man?”
“A. Any man the predatory female has deemed to be of no further use.

Yep. I’ve seen it time and time again. “He’s fulfilled his biological function. Now he can just crawl away — and pay alimony, child support, the mortgage on his old house, and whatever else I can squeeze out of him.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Takuan NohoParticipant 14]

The wife gave me the “It’s my body, I make my own decisions” after deciding that our agreement about not having kids was null and void.

So, I made my own decision about my own body and immediately got a vasectomy. Judging by how many of her friends and family that she angrily told my personal, medical business to, she wasn’t too happy about it. Women will dish out their politics and feminist mores with a savage glee. Yet, when the same standards are applied to them, women wilt faster than orchids under a Mississippi sun.

If you are sure that you don’t want kids (or are done having kids), I, too recommend it. A vasectomy is the penultimate expression of control over your own body and seed. It instantly removes the despotic power and control that today’s woman can lord over a man. Was I sure that I never wanted children ever again? No. Did the ability to captain my own reproductive fate on my own terms dwarf any child-rearing uncertainties that I may have had? Absolutely. The scalpel was more tender and welcome than any lover.

The first injection of anesthesia hurts for sure. You may be sore for a few days (or even weeks) afterwards. But sing and rejoice, brothers! That pain is the glorious feeling of a woman’s controlling yoke crumbling off your body.

“When you look at a tree, see it for its leaves, its branches, its trunk and the roots, then and only then will you see the tree”

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Spacemonkey wrote:

I did not advertise after I had mine.

I did. For the first few years after, I told every potential sex partner that I’d had a vasectomy with the intention of weeding out anyone who might have an issue with it. Although nobody questioned or commented on it, I still had four women in that time claim that I had impregnated them. Maybe they weren’t listening or just didn’t know what a vasectomy was.

Now I don’t bother telling anyone, instead I say “So before we go any further, I assume you are on at least one form of birth control, yes?” and if they lie to me then later claim I knocked them up, they’ll get what they deserve.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Spacemonkey wrote:

However in your scenario, in order to become invisible as you wish you would have to advertise the fact. I think its much more fun to keep such things to yourself, let the dumb whore drain you dry safe in the knowledge that she is wasting her time.

Amen to that!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I hear having a vasectomy make you feel tired and sleepy all that time

[Anonymous 5]

I plan on getting one this year. I am looking forward to it so much. The only thing stopping me is my family will shame me about it. I still live at home…so it is nothing I can obviously hide. I have done the research and I would need at least 2 days off work…possibly longer. Pain is not something I am afraid of. I don’t care. I just REALLY don’t want to deal with the f~~~ing shaming from my family who will all talk s~~~ and make me feel like a horrible person for what I feel is right for me.

[VenomParticipant 310]

I’m definitely going to a vasectomy. In the future, who knows, I may want to have sex. But as of right now, I don’t. It’s still a very good safety measure, because women can still claim you banged them and got them pregnant without any evidence what so ever. So if you become a target of that, you can simply show the courts/c~~~s your medical papers.

[Takuan NohoParticipant 14]

Anonymous wrote:

I have done the research and I would need at least 2 days off work…possibly longer. Pain is not something I am afraid of. I don’t care. I just REALLY don’t want to deal with the f~~~ing shaming from my family who will all talk s~~~ and make me feel like a horrible person for what I feel is right for me.

If you plan on following the Way, shaming and s~~~ talking will become a natural occurrence–like bathing, eating or clipping your toenails. Embrace it. Give them the same medicine that society gives you: “It’s my body and no one has the right to make decisions about my body except for me.”

Walk in peace, mrpops238.

“When you look at a tree, see it for its leaves, its branches, its trunk and the roots, then and only then will you see the tree”

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Anonymous wrote:

I have done the research and I would need at least 2 days off work…possibly longer.

After mine I drove myself home and was up and about the next day. Unless you’ve got a physically demanding job, you probably won’t have to worry too much about it, just schedule it for a long weekend or national holiday and you should be good to go.

Not doing it all could potentially be way worse.

[DungeonMasterParticipant 27]

The typical vasectomy has an easy recovery of a few days. Mine was sore for months. So it is possible the doctor can slip (or whatever the hell happened) and the pain will stay for a while longer. It was a couple months before I was no longer sensitive down there.

Some advice: sit back on the couch with a bag of ice under your fellas. Feels even better on a summer day.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I had my vasectomy when I was 26 years old — I’m 53 now — and I’ve never for a minute regretted it. But I also never wanted kids. Ever. Kids are fine, I just don’t want my own. The earth if full.

One of the benefits of having the vasectomy, besides not creating any spawn to f~~~ up your life, is the huge number of women who don’t want to play mommy but would like to get f~~~ed now and then without the risk of pregnancy. They have told me that hearing the words “I had a vasectomy” is like an aphrodisiac to them.

My best example of this was a 20 year-old co-worker who overheard me telling a buddy at work that I had a vasectomy. Within a week she couldn’t keep her hands off of me. I was in my early 40s at the time, and damn, that was some fantastic pussy. We played f~~~ buddies for two years after that.

So go ahead, get a vasectomy, and then f~~~ with reckless abandon. Or ghost. Either way, you’ve got yourself covered.

[Sagaciously SingleParticipant 214]

Well Gents, it seems the universe is telling me I’ve made the correct decision already.

I rang up for the appointment today and was told, and I quote, “I can’t believe it but I’ve got a cancellation tomorrow at 3:45pm which is as rare as hens teeth for this Dr”.

I expected to have to wait for a few weeks or a few months, but the ball is rolling and it feels great.

I’ll keep you all updated on the progress in this thread.

Also Hominid your last paragraph:

“So go ahead, get a vasectomy, and then f~~~ with reckless abandon. Or ghost. Either way, you’ve got yourself covered”.

This is one of the main motivator’s too mate!!

"And this you can know - fear the time when Manself will not suffer and die for a concept, for this one quality is the foundation of Manself, and this one quality is man, distinctive in the universe". - John Steinbeck.

[Dez82Participant 107]

Are you really sure about your decision?
Is becoming forever sterile because women a good decision?
In my country there is a wisecrack for someone who does something not so practical to damage another person: “it’s like the husband who cuts his (dick) to spite the wife” 🙂
Don’t get my wrong, I understand you are forced by the poisonous reality of your women but isn’t giving away your fertility too much?
Aren’t there other solutions? Once you go for it you can’t go back.. Now you don’t wish children but maybe someday you could.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Dez82 wrote:

Is becoming forever sterile because women a good decision?

How about “protecting yourself against unjust paternity suits”?

And you’re not “sterile forever” either, vasectomies can be reversed (costly but possible) and you still produce sperm which, conceivably, could be extracted and used to inseminate someone through a series of deliberate medical procedures.

In other words, you’re taking control over your reproductive rights, not giving up parenthood. And in this climate, yes, I believe anyone who might even randomly find themselves alone with a female needs to protect themselves to the best of their ability.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Stargazer wrote:

Dez82 wrote:

Is becoming forever sterile because women a good decision?

In other words, you’re taking control over your reproductive rights, not giving up parenthood.

Even as a blue pill I got one. My wife wanted six, after three I could hear myself dying at a desk somewhere to support the youngest. I came out of the operating room slightly groggy and joked that I could have as many girlfriends as I wanted now.

I may have been blue pill, but I was still a sarcastic asshole. If you don’t want kids/more kids do this at your earliest convenience. Your load is still identical, the sperm that the operation stops is a minor contribution to the total volume and the color does not change.

i.e. They can’t tell the difference, but you are protected after a clean shot 2-6 weeks later.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Dez82Participant 107]

@ Doc Fenderson and Ogre

I thought it was irreversible. Ok then, I think that given the situation in your country vasectomy is a wise move. Fortunately here in EU there isn’t such climate yet.. I hope we’ll be spared, but I doubt it..

It makes me angry that a man must endure a medical procedure to live a quiet life because women..

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