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*This is not about a “relations~~~” particularly, just a sort of personal social experiment/uncharted territory for me.
I’ve always been extremely introverted, socially awkward, and just unable to interact with people I don’t know very well. On Friday night I was to go out with three very close friends (men of course) and go to bars and/or clubs, which I already knew were places I despised. Before that night, I had never been drunk. I thought I’d have some drinks to try to loosen up and not just be a miserable buzzkill like I was the last time we did this. This would have been somewhat easy for me, except for the fact that we were going out with six of their friends that I had no idea were coming along before, with four of them being weeminz.
Between my social anxiety and red pill rage, I knew I was in for a s~~~ty time. After “pre-gaming” (drinking beforehand to save money on booze) at one weemin’s house, we go to the first bar for the night. We sit around, drink some more, with me not saying a word to anyone except my three friends. Then a cover band starts playing, and all nine other people in the group go up to the dance floor. My friends try to beckon me to the dance floor as well, failing miserably, same as our last outing. Then two of the weeminz attempt to do the same, more aggressively. I was leaning against a nearby pillar with my hands in my pockets, looking down, then the females attempt to physically pull me away from my solitude, which I resisted effortlessly.
Then a third one comes up to me, looking at me flirtatiously. She leans in and whispers in my ear things such as, “I can tell you’re a good guy.” “I like you.” “Just so you know, [mutual friend’s name] and I aren’t dating.” “PLEASE dance with me.” I DO NOT dance, and I’ve never had an interaction like this before. She hugged me repeatedly and kept pushing her breasts that were spilling out of her top against me. It all made me pretty uncomfortable. Keep in mind, I only met this woman that night and the only words we exchanged were “hello” and introducing ourselves. And I am NOT an attractive guy (I don’t give a f~~~, just stating a relevant fact). She is a hard 8, soft 9. I CRINGE at the thought of what my desperate, blue pill 17-year-old self would have believed in this situation.
Several questions were running through my already-buzzed mind. Can she not hold any liquor at all? What’s the game she’s playing? What does she expect to use me for? Or is this just for amusement? Why would my friend, who’s a good guy and not really blue pill, put up with this floozy who he’s not even dating or f~~~ing? Even having some alcohol in my system did not slow down my red pill skepticism one bit. I just responded by looking away and saying “thank you” in a passive-aggressive manner to all the venomous compliments she was spewing. One of my friends comes up to me and tells me to “loosen up” and gives me the last half of his Long Island Iced Tea, then buys another one for me. I drink both much faster than I probably should have. Soon after I start to somewhat lose my balance, but still refuse to engage in social interaction of any kind with the strangers of the group.
After the band leaves, we drop off one of my friends who was so plastered he could hardly stand, then to head to another bar before they stop serving alcohol for the night. The bouncers at the front checked our IDs, as any bar would, but then there was another obstacle people were stopping at before entering. Before my smashed mind could process what this was, the fake flirty bitch from before went ahead of me and motioned me over to her, saying “I got you.” As it turns out, there is a $5 cover to enter that bar and she paid for my entry as well as hers. The rest of the strangers in our group did not want to pay the cover, so they went home. We then headed to the bar to order more drinks, with my two remaining friends finding a place to sit. She told me “I’ll buy you a drink if you dance with me.” Being drunk enough to not give a f~~~ anymore at this point, and trying to get her to stop bothering me about it, I caved. I thought, “What a convenient reversal of gender roles for once.”
We ordered our drinks, then some random guy walked up to her, put his arm around her, and smashed his body against hers, trying to seduce her. She was not interested whatsoever. I had no desire to be chivalrous, and figured I’ll just wait it out until he eventually backs off. When my two friends approach and talk to her, the guy leaves, then she says to me, “You just stood there! You’re supposed to tell him I’m your girl!” She must have thought me saying that would make him change his mind, but of course that wouldn’t have worked. And I don’t want to get into a fight over any bitch. I had choice words for her, but all I said was “I’m just so f~~~ed up right now.”
A bit later, she pulled me to the dance floor and started dancing kind of seductively. Reluctant, I started dancing with rather pathetic moves. I drank enough to the point where I really started to relax. After a few songs I asked her somewhat sarcastically, “Are you happy now?” She replied, “Yes! I’m very happy! Thank you so much for dancing with me!” I was too drunk for red pill rage at this point, and just smiled and continued dancing. Then my friends joined in and we had a pretty good time.
On the way back to the car, she locked me in a hug for pretty much the entire time. I simply hugged back and didn’t really think anything of it. In the car, she kept touching my shoulder and putting out her finger to signal for me to touch mine to hers, which I agreed to. She said things like, “You need to come out with us all the time. It was a lot of fun going out with you.” I told her I would, not thinking much of it. When I sobered up the next day, I thought this through again and I supposed that it would be fine to have a chance of dealing with a little bulls~~~ just for the sake of having fun with my actual friends. They always tell me they wish I could go out more, since it’s hard for me to get weekends off with the job I have. I’d do it for their sake.
Overall, it was a very unusual and interesting experience for me. I was able to relax and let go of my suspicions for a night, while never letting my guard down.
TL;DR: After getting drunk for the first time, I was able to shed my red pill rage and social anxiety and have fun going out to bars and dancing with a few of my friends and a weemin. After so many drinks I relaxed and stopped concentrating on red pills, but I never fell for her deception. I acted like we were cool and had a good time just being around the people who were actually my friends.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
Anonymous12TL;DR: After getting drunk for the first time, I was able to shed my red pill rage and social anxiety and have fun going out to bars and dancing with a few of my friends and a weemin. After so many drinks I relaxed and stopped concentrating on red pills, but I never fell for her deception. I acted like we were cool and had a good time just being around the people who were actually my friends.
It’s good you were able to have fun. For me Red Pill is just ingrained now and I can’t see women as anything I am able to or want to relate to. I can’t close off the thoughts the way you did. Not having a go at you, just commenting.
Bahhh the reason that happens is becouse alcohol blokes your embarrassment, and NFG kicks in.
The secret to “socialice “ IS NOT GIVING A F~~~.Why do you even care what a bunch of retarded think of you?
Is just that DONT GIVE A F~~~, crack a joke at someone elses expenses.
F~~~ it all.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
@Morlock I can see where you’re coming from. I was VERY hammered though. It took a large amount of alcohol to stop my red pill rage. It wasn’t that I wanted to relate to her, I have no desire to relate to weeminz, I just relaxed enough to not care that she happened to be there. I don’t think I will EVER be intoxicated enough to want to relate to or be friends with any harpies.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
@carnage You’re right. However, NFG is sometimes difficult for people with some sort of anxiety disorder. It’s not just social for me, it’s also like that for life in general. It’s under more control than it used to be, but I’m still uptight a lot of the time. I’ve been completely NFG when it comes to females for a while now. That’s the big one. Looking back on who I was just a year ago, I’m extremely grateful for finding the red pill.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
Anonymous12@morlock I can see where you’re coming from. I was VERY hammered though. It took a large amount of alcohol to stop my red pill rage. It wasn’t that I wanted to relate to her, I have no desire to relate to weeminz, I just relaxed enough to not care that she happened to be there. I don’t think I will EVER be intoxicated enough to want to relate to or be friends with any harpies.
Got it. The alcohol just lowered your inhibitions and testosterone as well which made you more chatty.
The thing is that even if you were both drunk, only SHE can use that as an aggressive defence strategy in claiming rape or harassment.
You would still be on your own. I am just being hypothetical for the sake of letting any other new MGTOW know to be careful.
Got it. The alcohol just lowered your inhibitions and testosterone as well which made you more chatty.
The thing is that even if you were both drunk, only SHE can use that as an aggressive defence strategy in claiming rape or harassment.
You would still be on your own. I am just being hypothetical for the sake of letting any other new MGTOW know to be careful.There are still men out there that need to hear this, for sure. I’ve actually decided to never pursue sexual encounters again. Even with how attractive the woman was, and how drunk we were, her pathetic false advances didn’t faze me. She was saying she was interested in me and hugging me and smashing her breasts against me, but no matter what my BAC is that does nothing for me. That’s not sexual harassment though, because I have a penis and she has a vagina. If the genders were reversed, I’d be doing time and be a registered sex offender.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
Anonymous12Got it. The alcohol just lowered your inhibitions and testosterone as well which made you more chatty.
The thing is that even if you were both drunk, only SHE can use that as an aggressive defence strategy in claiming rape or harassment.
You would still be on your own. I am just being hypothetical for the sake of letting any other new MGTOW know to be careful.There are still men out there that need to hear this, for sure. I’ve actually decided to never pursue sexual encounters again. Even with how attractive the woman was, and how drunk we were, her pathetic false advances didn’t faze me. She was saying she was interested in me and hugging me and smashing her breasts against me, but no matter what my BAC is that does nothing for me. That’s not sexual harassment though, because I have a penis and she has a vagina. If the genders were reversed, I’d be doing time and be a registered sex offender.
That is what has always p~~~ed me off about how things are. If I so much as smile or go to hold her hand I am a creep and a pervert. But she can push herself against me and that is perfectly ok.
I hate that double standard as you point out. They keep talking about equality but they don’t want any such thing at all. I just can’t trust them.
A dangerous game.
A woman can grab your hand and force it to grab her breast, then claim sexual harassment. There is a video on youtube in which that happened, which the guy had a body cam, and it got him out of trouble that would have otherwise stuck. She was mad because he did not reciprocate the attention she wanted from him, that she was giving him.
Women have always been, and more now than ever, interested in what they can get from you, rather than anything about you. They are as children, riding the moment based on how they feel. Women cannot be reasoned with, as they are incapable of seeing past their emotions.
Leave them to their cats, and I will enjoy my lifestyle and freedom.
Anonymous42He who plays with fire always gets burned…
After getting drunk for the first time, I was able to shed my red pill rage and social anxiety and have fun going out to bars and dancing with a few of my friends and a weemin.
Alcohol is not a cure for social anxiety. Thinking that it is, is a slippery slope that you need to get off, fast.
After so many drinks I relaxed and stopped concentrating on red pills, but I never fell for her deception.
Wrong. You ended up in a clinch with her.
She was after you and you lost control. You came within an ace of total disaster.
I acted like we were cool and had a good time just being around the people who were actually my friends.
They are not your friends. They are p~~~head morons and whores who are going to get you into trouble.
Anonymous1Interesting story, I would recommend not going out and drinking if you don’t drink regularly. You are at a disadvantage.
One of the things I always liked doing was having a few friends over and playing a nice game of MTG over a few beers. Sadly, I don’t have anyone to play with anymore because all my old mates got married.
Anyways, be careful Alcohol and Women are a recipe for disaster.
So, you went out got drunk and danced/talked/flirted or whatever with some good lookin Women.
Alright, you’re an Adult Man that has apparently assimilated the Red Pill, but are maybe a little bit surprised that you Enjoyed Yourself, and probably Flattered that a Good looking Women would take such Interest in you.
I Get it.
So, You NEED to Do WHATEVER It Is that YOU DECIDE IS the Right Move for YOU DOWN YOUR PATH.
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Bars, women, dancing and booze. Complete waste of time.
Fake people doing fake stuff with bimbos.
Peace brothers
Alcohol is not a cure for social anxiety. Thinking that it is, is a slippery slope that you need to get off, fast.
I know the slipper slope that alcohol can cause. My neighbor is an alcoholic and is a complete f~~~-up in life because of it. It was just an experiment that I will not be repeating.
Wrong. You ended up in a clinch with her.
She was after you and you lost control. You came within an ace of total disaster.There was never a point in which I thought anything she was saying or doing was genuine. I know better than that, no matter how much alcohol is in my system. I understand what you are saying though, since whether or not I get into trouble is not necessarily under my control. I will make it a point to only go out with males from now on. If my friends are going out with any weeminz, I will not be tagging along.
They are not your friends. They are p~~~head morons and whores who are going to get you into trouble.
To clarify, the whore is not my friend, just a friend of my friend that I met that night. All of my friends are males. The friends I went out with that night are good guys and I trust them but they are not aware of the danger they can get into. When it’s just the guys everything is fine, and I will have to keep it that way.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
So, you went out got drunk and danced/talked/flirted or whatever with some good lookin Women.
I did not flirt. A few guys here may be getting the wrong idea. I’m going to re-emphasize that my reaction to everything that happened in regards to that was very passive and uninterested.
Alright, you’re an Adult Man that has apparently assimilated the Red Pill, but are maybe a little bit surprised that you Enjoyed Yourself, and probably Flattered that a Good looking Women would take such Interest in you.
I Get it.
So, You NEED to Do WHATEVER It Is that YOU DECIDE IS the Right Move for YOU DOWN YOUR PATH.I was not flattered. I know better than to believe anything a woman tells me. Any game she was trying to play with me was made even more obvious than normal because of her intoxication. I had red pill rage most of the night. When I was at my most drunk for the night, all that happened was the internal red pill rage was replaced by NFG.
I am living a celibate life. I do not keep any women in my life that are outside of my family, and even then I am wary of trusting women in my family. I went out because I wanted to spend time with the males who are my friends, which I don’t get many opportunities for because of my work schedule. I am not putting myself in a situation like this again.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
One of the things I always liked doing was having a few friends over and playing a nice game of MTG over a few beers. Sadly, I don’t have anyone to play with anymore because all my old mates got married.
Playing MTG with my friends is my favorite activity. I suspect that some of my friends are living red pill lives without knowing it. At least three of them have never dated and were always intensely focused on school, careers and their passions. So hopefully not all of them will become entrapped within the next 10 years.
I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.
Anonymous1Playing MTG with my friends is my favorite activity. I suspect that some of my friends are living red pill lives without knowing it. At least three of them have never dated and were always intensely focused on school, careers and their passions. So hopefully not all of them will become entrapped within the next 10 years.
I started playing when Ice Age came out. I miss those days. Last time I played was many years ago, we had a nice game with 6 people. We literally played all night for about 8 hours. By the end we were all completely hammered after 8 hours of continuous drinking. Then my friends all got married one after the other, no more fun.
Their wives put a stop to MTG. Very sad, state of affairs.
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