New member of Mgtow

[MrMeParticipant 651]

Hello,

I am new. Actualy, I am new the this whole manosphere thing. I come in peace. I’m from Canada (29 yo) and women in my area are starting to bother me. Objectivation and even reification of men seems to be a common, accepted phenomenon around here. History taught us how those behavior will only transgress towards hate and hate is never the answer.

I don’t know where to start, I don’t know how to begin. I have given up on wanting a girlfriend or a wife. I have grown tired of being used and emasculated by women or at least tired of being pushed to be more emasculated by society. Sometimes realizing how it came to a point where I found myself emasculating my own person. A great shame that is. Society is to be blamed for women’s behavior in those modern days.

In this introduction, instead of telling my story of my previous interactions and relationships with the female species, I will share the solution to all this matriarchy crap that I figured out for myself. You, dear reader, will be the only judge of my ”madness”.

I have decided to become a male stripper. My job will be to go on a stage, strip for ladies’s great amusement. It might sound like a strange answer to the oppression I have endured but please, hear me out. In starting stripping, I comply with the gender role abolition nature of feminism. I say to these women: you know what? you win, you can get equality, here it is. I started rejecting women romantically interested in me a couple of years ago. I told myself: if they want my time and attention, they will have to invest some money. Men needed to invest in their women for millenniums. Feminism dictate equality is to be obtain, I say give it to them. Women now need to invest in men to keep them interested.

The party guy that I am, I have witness times and times again the painfull feeling of being rejected or ignored in a club or social setting. Sometimes , to my great suprise , those same women came back 15 minutes later DROOLING on my dance moves and asking for more or to be grinded on. The same girls, denying my existence moments ago are all into me now because of some dance moves they like? Guess what I did? I rejected the s~~~ out of them.

It came to a point where I felt I should be paid for women to watch me dance and to interact with me. Thus my great revenge towards women, role reversal acceptance with complete objectivation of my own self for their own pleasure but you know what? Im totaly cool with it. My secret for being ok with all this? I get paid to dance, I get paid to shake my junk in girls face and I get paid for girls to interact with me and most of all, I get to reject women who tries to hit on me. Revenge is sweet.

Thanks.

 

[…Spectator 1165]

MrMe: We share a common strategy with women. I decided in 2002 when the first Hollywood actress realized that her boobs wouldn’t cover my bill, I have to laugh at the look on their faces now when I send the invoice and they look around in panic for a mangina to cover the expense. This has worked out well most of the time. In your case, getting to see how women really are will make you seriously question ever bothering with them for something serious like starting a family. Of course, they will conveniently forget all the f~~~ed up s~~~ they did while riding the c~~~ carousel when it comes time for you to get down on your knees. Wait….you are already on your knees right? Glad I’m not dancing but sitting in the chair laughing my ass off tonite.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome aboard!

I don’t know where to start, I don’t know how to begin.

Begin by avoiding things and behaviors that cause you suffering and distress — which is exactly what you are doing.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

I’m not going to knock you brother, you go make your paper. Just make sure you keep it away from the heathens (females) once you get it….

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[MrMeParticipant 651]

Thx for your replies guys.

 

Ill leave this here :

Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.

[Anonymous 42]

RoyDal wrote:

Welcome aboard!

I don’t know where to start, I don’t know how to begin.

Begin by avoiding things and behaviors that cause you suffering and distress — which is exactly what you are doing.

That world will only serve to darken your potential,,,I had a friend that became a stripper for years (strip’O’grams), He got me to do it “once” in Amherst Massachusetts, I never did that again,,,I was sickened at all the attention I received, Did it on a dare, I to can dance, shake and wiggle… Now I dwell in the absolute solitude of serenity…. That line of work is only going to put your soul through the sewer!!!!

[RoyDalParticipant]

@MG-Tower,
Good point!!

@mrme,
If your present direction doesn’t serve your well being, then abandon it and try something else. Study the biographies of men who have achieved the goals you aspire to. Learn from them what to do and what to avoid.

Overshare: I’ve never tried male stripping. I seriously doubt I was qualified, and I was never drawn to it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[mackiavelicParticipant 226]

MrMe wrote:

Thx for your replies guys.

Ill leave this here :

Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.

only for that i like you already dude. i wont judge the path of mgtow you decided to take for yourself only you can even if your path has a smell of revenge to it,

but one thing is for sure we do like the same ideal, we think alike when it comes to sex, believing that brought me to were i am now 31 and a virgin and thats how i will remain. There is no love anymore, all there is is fakeness and deceiving.

I do wonder though are you ready to live like me by this ideal of “Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex” and not have sex again? Its hard but honestly if you manage to do so they really loose any power they had on you in the first place, once you have your heart set to it they cant do anything not even getting naked and on their fours will do a thing ( i know cause it pretty much happened to me).

Just be sure that love is dead. its a fact … grieve about it if you have to like i did for many years but try never to accept the fakeness of this “love” they offer. It will kill you.

[MrMeParticipant 651]

@RoyDal

I understand what you mean. It would be wiser to go work at Walmart like an outstanding citizen ( don’t have my diploma yet…) but 300$ in 2 hours and a half is 300$ in 2 hours in a half… hard to say no to that.

The job is psychologicaly and physicaly demanding but stripping and dancing is my art. Believe it or not, I used to do exactly that in the private locals at my gym before wanting to become a male stripper. The only difference is that now im doing it in front of people who enjoy what I do.

Not alot of people are able to make their art profitable. I feel I gotta take advantage of the situation.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Women constantly say they want equality. Paying to look at men dancing is part of that. They want equality and you want their money. Follow their example and treat it like the profit based business that they’ve made it to be. I don’t think any man will fault you for it, and there is no woman anywhere who has any basis at all to even comment on it.

The only thing that seems ironic about it to me, is that after giving you their money all night in exchange for dancing, they will continue to look for ways to take your money the next day in exchange for a ‘relationship’… I’ll be looking forward to reading your posts about your experiences with this, and hope that you post them often. I suspect you’ll get a perspective of women’s behavior that many of us will not otherwise see…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[MrMeParticipant 651]

BrainPilot wrote:

I’ll be looking forward to reading your posts about your experiences with this, and hope that you post them often. I suspect you’ll get a perspective of women’s behavior that many of us will not otherwise see…

I was thinking of writing from my experience as a stripper in the upcoming week. Would you suggest I make a new post and treat it as a ”male stripper journal” or just posting stuff here in the introduction section is just fine?

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

either one will work.  with any reply to a post that I make, I check the box at the bottom so that I will get new posts in my emails.  i can follow multiple threads this way.  Keymaster was the one who (I think) wrote a post describing his experience working as a bartender years ago.  He may be able to retrieve it or write a new one that may give you some insights into some of what you might expect in your new line of work.  Whatever the case, look forward to reading your posts…

 

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

either one will work.  with any reply to a post that I make, I check the box at the bottom so that I will get new posts in my emails.  i can follow multiple threads this way.  Keymaster was the one who (I think) wrote a post describing his experience working as a bartender years ago.  He may be able to retrieve it or write a new one that may give you some insights into some of what you might expect in your new line of work.  Whatever the case, ‘looking forward to reading your posts…

 

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[MrMeParticipant 651]

BrainPilot wrote:

Keymaster was the one who (I think) wrote a post describing his experience working as a bartender years ago. He may be able to retrieve it or write a new one that may give you some insights into some of what you might expect in your new line of work. Whatever the case, ‘looking forward to reading your posts…

I would be glad to read a bartender’s journal.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

Ha ha! Nice profession! And you’ll be in a position to TAKE money from women instead of them taking it from YOU. Enjoy that money because it’s all for YOU. Do some saving and investing, and feel free to tell us your stories of any insane women and their behavior that you happen to notice.

Welcome to the forums!

[MrMeParticipant 651]

Little update and background,

Now, I have worked in a gay club for a month and I started stripping for extra hours in a bisexual club last week. I will comment mostly on my experiences in the bisexual strip club because this is where the girls (mostly land whales) hang out.

Worked thursday and friday. Thursday was dead and I was playing a more passive role since it was my first day at that strip club. I saw transexuals for the first time that day. Alot more male clients thats for sure. The girls are mostly fat and ugly AND don’t want to pay anything but alcool. They are getting the show on stage for free pretty much, thats what it means.

On friday, I got hammered by the clients … they almost all payed me for drinks and weed. I got one old blue pill client who made me dance for 130$ but thats about it… not making much money out of that place yet (its that time of the year…). I got hit on by alot of girls at that club that day and some wanted my number. No girls is making me dance for money yet. One girl in the club caught my eye and I flirted with her a couple of songs and she forced a kiss on me. I was so drunk that I french kissed her. We ended up touching each other everywhere ( I grabbed her you know what and those two big mellons too in front of her friends) and she also wanted my phone number. The original deal was that I give her my phone number if she accept a dance from me but I was too weak to resist and ended up kissing her and putting a piece of paper with my phone number in her bra.

You know what guys ? She is 17 yo ! She is minor and wasn’t aloud in the club pretty much. She wants to bang me for free like that. It seems pretty unbelievable but I had to work for 130$ in 14 hours for that … which is NOT WORTH IT AT ALL. She is just an other young girl wanting to ride the c~~~ carousel, I would totally let her ride me if we are cool with it but I doubt it will happen. She was probably using me to impress her friend or something like that. It seems I am not strong enough to resist those offers yet. That bitch played me pretty good getting all that attention and paying nothing in return. Girls are real pros at doing this and I will be more careful in the future.

[Anonymous 42]

@mrme, try strip’o’grams, my friends (back in my life in the city) were strippers. We lived in a duplex. My stripper friend (and body shop partner) lived next-door, and other strippers just around the corner. On weekends we use to eat breakfast all together at a local diner just around the corner. I went on grams for backup in case there was trouble, or just to go and carry the boombox, and change tapes when necessary.

I know KeyMasters side of the story (when he was in his twenties like me) but from two different perspectives; chicks will bend-over behind a dumpster to get plowed by a perfect stranger!

You’ll need a good boombox,  you can’t be a chooser, the agency calls, you must be reliable! We went on grams to some of the wealthiest areas in the pioneer valley. Young girls being plowed in closets, two young girls on one dude, it was sickening and exciting at the same time. Some of s~~~ I saw and the stories I heard, were absolutely revolting!

We worked all week, then went on grams mostly Friday night, Saturday, and Saturday night, till  11:00, then we went out drinking at club called Annies in Chicopee Mass. Even there I saw some sickening s~~~! Westover AFB wives cheating on their hubbies, making them into fools! I would NEVER in a million years dream of screwing a service man’s wife! But it happened all the time.

I wish you luck, but I wouldn’t be kissing any herpes whores just yet; wait a little longer till you’ve seen the nature of the industry, you’re in for a big surprise! It an’t pretty! All the makeup on earth can’t hide the nature of women from me anymore!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Strip-O-Gram

 

 

[MrMeParticipant 651]

Update:

The owners of the 2 strip clubs have noticed I work at 2 places at once. (I told them … like an idiot)

They gave me an ultimatum and I have to choose one place only to work. The owner at the bisexual strip club is putting more efforts to keep me and I also prefer working at that place so my choice is going to be easy to make. Till now, I am getting 20$ an hour overall at that place, which is half of what I expected. Not much money but I am new and I am promised a much better revenue when clients get to know me better.

My interactions with female clients are limited , on purpose, because they don’t pay very much. They make me drink for free and want free dances and my phone number mostly. The girls are enjoying the show free of charge and I was wondering why that is while I was with an old hag trying to get money from her ( for 30 mins I ”worked” her to get her warm … which is ALOT of wasted time). During that time, one of my drunk blue pill coworker came and offered to give the old hag a dance FREE OF CHARGE! Wtf is this crap this is unacceptable! He is not only destroying my bizness but the bizness of all the stripper in that club doing this. Thankfully, the old hag was fond of me and told him she doesn’t feel like eating peanut butter sandwich tonight so he just left … she ended up paying me only 20$ for spending that much time with her which is not much.

I talked to the best (dancing and good looks) of my coworker about this and he got REALLY P~~~ED. We went to talk about it to the manager because offering clients free dances is KILLING OUR BIZNESS with the ladies. That f~~~ing blue pill stripper got fired on the spot and the team thanked me for reporting his unacceptable behavior. This made me think about girls in the real world and the interaction they have with manginas. The blue pills idiots who put women on a pedestal and give them everything for free ARE OUR REAL ENEMIES. They remove all of our powers with the girls and make their expectations too high to handle.

I will work hard to stop giving the ladies free attention at work. They do not deserve it, they should pay like everyone else.

[MrMeParticipant 651]

update:

Ive switch strip club again and went from bisexual strip club (everyone is welcome) to gay strip club ( men only) to bisexual strip club again. The gay strip club definitely pays more but the bisexual club is more fun because the clientele is younger and there are shemale and women to get money from.

The girls don’t pay much , no surprises here but in 2 weeks of work ive had 2 girls trying to suck my dick for 20$ in the vip section. I wasn’t drunk the first time so I had the willpower to push her away and ask for more money(which she didnt wanted to give) but the second time I wasn’t in the same state of mind so I let her blow me for 20$ … thats not alot of money !  That same girl went around the place and gave blow jobs to most of the dancers, a real  slut. She was a 7/10 at least and she LOOKED respectable. You never know what went in these girl’s mouth, think about that before kissing them.

I know I am a man whore. Thats my job. I had not enough sex for my taste in my life because of shyness . This job is letting me get the sex I always wanted and I get paid for it but let me tell you something : SEX ISN’T WORTH THE MONEY. I have witness so much stuff like for exemple , one of my coworker got himself 1000$ for one night just to have his feet worship … what the f~~~ is the purpose of this? instant gratification? Think long term for f~~~ sake.

Buy a fleshlight and don’t ever pay for sex, ever. I can’t believe the money some people are willing to give me for doing mostly nothing with them. For f~~~ sake people need to control their urges but for now, ill make loads of money using their cravings as bait.

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