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[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Hello brothers, I am a newbie to the MGTOW site but I learned almost 6 years ago what women are and have been staying away. I am not the best looking guy and kind of short so women see me as an easy target as I do have money. But after this last experience I am so wise now as to what women are…. So here is my story of my tipping point, it’s a doozey so get yer’ popcorn and beer.

2008 I was (still am) a mostly successful day trader (buying and selling stocks on the stock market to make money) just moving through life. I was single, getting a bit lonely, and starting to think about my future. I was already resided with not wanting kids but a wife or at least a partner in crime was on the docket. I did the typical online dating etc as trying to meet anyone where I live is like pulling teeth. So far was not making much success with that.

Fast forward to 2009, I met a lovely (at the time) women with no kids, very good looking, had some BS job in event planning but I did not care as she was hot, and did not want kids as so she first said. We started to date and get close and she eventually moved in. First red flag was she was very reluctant at signing a rental agreement to move in with me. In Canada you become common law after 6 months of living together last I checked and seeing as she had hardly any assets and I had the most I did not want to lose things. She eventually did sign and we lived together…

Fast forward to 2010, things are getting quite bad…. The woman’s job was not working well anymore and she was falling behind in rent and other costs we agreed to split. She was getting more bitchy and mean by the day throwing temper tantrums and other chick BS. You see I was mostly paying for our dates and buying her nice things which she got accustomed to… but as the money started to dry up for her she pushed me to pay for more. She would say things like “Oh just be a man and pay it” and my favourite “Your the man your supposed to take care of the women”. During Christmas season things were s~~~ on the markets for me and I was making almost 70% less money so instead of doing our fancy christmas presents and parties etc I toned it down. I decided it would be a great idea and romantic if I got some canvas and paints so we could paint a picture together as a couple. Boy did she not like that, she blew up and threw a tantrum accusing me of not loving her etc etc blah blah blah. But what really got me was she through my present in the fireplace and stormed out of the house to her witch of a mother. I was very heart broken at this as I actually put effort into this instead of buying some damn jewellery or other trinket.

She eventually came back now with her mother for whatever f~~~en reason for them to now list out their demands at what “A Man” should be doing to take care of his woman. 1 hour later of verbal bitch diarrhoea the mother left with a smug look on her face and the girlfriend proceeded to laugh at the situation and my Christmas present still smouldering in the fire place. Brothers you have no idea how hard it was for me not to c~~~ punt that bitch back into the stone age. I kept my calm though and devised my exit strategy that day. Based off some really good advice from a lawyer friend of mine and from my own money knowledge I devised the perfect ghosting strategy. This strategy would leave me non legally obligated to cover anything (I was damn lucky I got her to sign a rental agreement showing her as a tenant and not common law) and for me to leave clean.

The Strategy
1. Seeing as both our names were on the rental I contacted my landlord a few days after Christmas letting them know I was leaving and I would settle up my end of the rent.
2. I took my name off all the utility bills in advance, stating I was leaving the rental.
3. I called ahead some of my friends for a predetermined time to come help me shotgun move everything I owned in one day.
4. I pre-setup the cancellation of all the things I was paying for that c~~~ (gym membership, netflix, etc etc).
5. FaceBook purge her, all her friends and friends of friends, and her witch mother on the day of the move so they could not see me or find me.
6. Finally I would agree with everything that c~~~ said and told her it was all my fault for everything so she would not get suspicious of anything.

Brothers let me tell you when the day came when this c~~~ left for work my plan launched like military precision. The boys came over and we liquidated everything that was mine from the house (I made sure to video tape what we were doing and what I was taking for backup), all accounts closed, and I was out of there. I was nice enough to leave a note stating why I left and what I have done, I also left a $5 bill for a tissue box this bitch would need for all the tears she is going to shed for now having to pay for everything herself. Bitch was ghosted….

I have never felt better in my life ridding myself of female relation-s~~~s. I get the odd high end escort to f~~~ when I need it but never have wanted to go back to another woman again. I love my mother and my grandmother but the women of this day in age are so f~~~ed with modernized feminism and thinking they control men that I can never go back. I would rather be with my dog…

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[PhiloParticipant 84]

Everything may have gone according to plan but remember to always expect the unexpected. I can’t see the woman you described just letting you walk away without a fight and you can count on her mom to be egging her on in that regard.

I do hope your plan holds together but even if you have actually left her with no legal recourse against you that does not mean that she will not seek one. Your posting here regarding the rental agreement could even be construed as nothing more than an avoidance tacit and a good lawyer may be able to convince a family court judge to simply negate its relevance as a defense against a claim of common law marriage. (I am not a lawyer by the way and am just “thinking out loud” here for the sake a caution.)

In any event, you deserve your victory dance but always remember…”Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”…so be sure and watch your back!

This above all: to thine own self be true - William Shakespeare

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

@philo

You are very right, the woman tried to find me for a long time and even got my friends involved… She was definitely butt hurt from it all, I even heard that she hired a private eye to try to find me. Funny thing is I never left town and was always here lol.

Luckily for me I made sure before she moved in and on paper she was a tenant and nothing more. I burned and deleted every picture of us but still she has some so who knows. Never again….

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Anonymous 5]

A warm welcome.
Nice evacuation logistics, well done!
A tactical retreat with minimal losses is a brilliant victory.
Once you realize the situation is toxic, it’s just human chess. You have to be as sociopathic and calculating as they are.
Show no emotion of any type, and more importantly, give no warning.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Welcome Solidus:

Nothing feels as good as freedom does it? And that is an admirable bit of execution and planning. Congrats on a new start.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Great story. You were nicer than I could ever be. Her mother wouldn’t have gotten her first demand clear of her c~~~ holster before she would have gone on ignore.

A woman’s “demands” prior to marriage are just requests that she (stomps foot) really really wants. Better to know what she’ll turn into and what she was raised with. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

The only thing missing from your tale is whether she was able to make the rent or get booted, since you said her job was going downhill.

Welcome brother.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Dude. First, welcome here. Second, well done with your “tactical retreat” [thanks Ordinaryguy]. Third, these stories just keep getting better — just when you think you’ve heard the worst women have to offer, they raise the bar. I’m surprised she didn’t accuse you of some form of abuse [physical, sexual, verbal, emotional, ?anal? …]

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Welcome Brother! A tear of happiness is in the corner of my eye after reading this tale. No harm, no foul, just a near miss. Never look back. It only gets better from now on. Well done.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Solidus

Just a caution: DO NOT ever be alone with her or put yourself in a situation where she can make a false accusation. Don’t kid yourself, she is planning her revenge.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Welcome sir, mgtow.is that.only sane solution

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Congratulations on your freedom. May your tale serve as a warning to other men considering any form of cohabitation with a woman. Nobody plans to fail, they fail to plan.

#ManOut

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

Welcome SolidusX . I always wanted to do what you are doing , and one day perhaps I will(takes a chunk of money I need to save first). The stark reality seems to have come upon you that whenever you want sex it is easier and cheaper just to pay for it up front. 6 months together in Canada you’re considered common law eh? F~~~ that. Canada seems to have some laws designed to seriously graft your ass if you’re male.

Once you realize the situation is toxic, it’s just human chess. You have to be as sociopathic and calculating as they are.

This is so true , and something I needed to learn and get better at. Good words Ordinaryguy

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Thanks everyone…. I never thought I would be able to rid myself of that bitch but I was laser focused on it and everything seemed to fall in place. An update for you, she finally tracked me down and served me papers to try to get money out of me as she claims we lived together. Boy was she sweat’en bullets when I showed up to court with stacks of papers and receipts detailing her as a renter only. Also as @M52 said after I left I never was alone with her and made sure to video tape every encounter I had with her as she also tried to pull the abuse card. Suffice to say the judge ruled in my favour and thankfully I never saw her again. I wish I had video taped her face fuming it would have been hilarious.

Brothers it is hard to get out clean, I have horror stories from friends of similar situations… Moral and lessons I learned from my story the hard way is this:

1. If you want to leave your situation you can no mater what your situation is, it takes loads of planning and patience but the rewards are worth it.
2. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING WITH RECEIPTS, LEGAL RECORDS, VIDEO, AUDIO… EVERYTHING!!!!! in the start of the relationship up till the end. Also make copies of everything and keep offsite with a third party service like DropBox.
3. Never try for revenge, go the legal route. I know it sucks but trust me if you have your legal ducks are in a row you will not get hosed in the he said she said battle as we know men will lose that war.
4. Get a rock solid exit strategy, think of every possible outcome and contingency as well as have a backup for everything.
5. TELL NO ONE YOUR PLAN NOT EVEN YOUR BEST FRIEND, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHO THE TURNCOAT IS, COULD EVEN BE YOUR FAMILY.
6. You have to be ruthless, as soon as you start to waiver in anyway because she may cry or beg you are now a mangina/whitenight and you are already doomed.

Take it from me its f~~~ing hard as hell to get all this together but if you are very invested in the bitch you are leaving (Kids/house/etc) the better the plan the better your outcome is.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[WarrivarParticipant 44]

Although i don’t have popcorn or drink beer, a partially chewed chicken wing just hit my monitor and i nearly p~~~ed myself! lol

Welcome brother, good to have ya!

[Rat_Rod_RussellParticipant 93]

That, was, glorious. I wish you had that photo to post it up here. That would have been the icing on the cake!

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

In a word…perfect!! Welcome…Bubba Z

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[KTHParticipant 151]

Etrangere wrote:

Canada seems to have some laws designed to seriously graft your ass if you’re male.

No kidding. I was toying with moving there a few years ago, but couldn’t even consider it after reading up on the law.

[aGuyFromPanamaParticipant 9]

New here! Just reading the posts and learning all the lessons I can from fellow MGTOW! Saludos desde Panamá!

Going your Own Way is going to be the Right Way at the end of the day, no doubt about it.

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