New member introducing himself

[nedlahParticipant 72]

Hi guys.

Thank you for this wonderful forum full of likeminded people. I have been reading for a few months without registering or introducing myself. I am a 33-year old guy living in Northern Europe. Well educated, never been married or had kids, good job, paid off BMW and a small apartment (yes small but I f~~~ing love having no debt, rent or payments). I am currently in a 4 month relationship with this 27 year old girl. The sex has been very good, but lately she has developed an attitude which I hate. I feel I have been treating her well, buying her small gifts, taken her to the cinema, restaurants, complimented her. Last night I got a taste of her true colors. She had been drinking with a girlfriend (married girl who hates me) and this bitch friend obviously filled her head with s~~~. After she came home I called her and she began telling me how she disliked all my shortcomings. According to her I don’t compliment her enough, I don’t show enough emotions, I don’t spend enough money,I don’t take an interest in our future, I am cold, I should get a bigger apartment etc.. And I have always been polite to her and never even criticizing her.

She wants marriage and kids which I certainly do not. I want to read books, travel, drink fine wine and Scotch, drive my car and enjoy life. I have concluded that I have to break up with her this weekend (preferably before Christmas as I rather want to be with my parents and siblings than her). I have to be strong. It will be sad for a day or two and I will certainly miss the sex, but I have to do this as I do not want to lose what I have and get stuck with debt.

I will try to contribute to the forum instead of just reading. I know I am in the right place. I like to have sex with women so I do not avoid them all together, but at the same time I do not want marriage or children (I use condoms and even considering a vasectomy). By the way, I do believe young women these days are more f~~~ed in the head than in the past.

[nedlahParticipant 72]

I know she will make me feel guilty as I break this news to her, but I should do it sooner than later.  How do you guys deal with women who make you feel guilty? Usually, I just keep quiet and cut all contact.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

How do you guys deal with women who make you feel guilty? Usually, I just keep quiet and cut all contact.

I don’t let them succeed. What can she make you feel guilty about? Not having the same dreams as she?

This might help, and anybody can understand it.

/video/why-men-dont-commit/

She can’t make you feel guilty for that. And any woman who tries doesn’t have YOUR best interests in mind. No man should ever marry a woman who hates him enough to actually let him go through with it.

nedlah Wecleome to MGTOW! And happy you finally joined after being a lurker for a while.
Cheers!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[nedlahParticipant 72]

Thanks KeyMaster!

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