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[Dez82Participant 107]

Hi everyone, I’m Dez and I’m 33.

I don’t want to bother you with my story. Let’s say that in my 20s I was a blue pill, I had my head full of romantic thoughts about women. I desired love before sex. I was so naive about female nature and I wished to start a family with my sweet half. However the reality was made of arrogant and manipulative bitches, who loved to drink, smoke, dance and screaming at the world that they will never marry because they must “live the life”. Every girl I met was the same. Ten years ago I was afraid of them, I felt so insecure because my nature is quite the opposite and I was brain washed by male basher media. Year after year of these delusional interactions awoke me and forced me to swallow the red pill: today I care very little to women. I’m losing the desire of a relationship, even sexual desire has faded. I must thank the void nature of modern female: selfie and Facebook addicted with horrible tattoos on half body, smoker, drinker, any trace of femininity lost. I was saving for buying an house once married, but last year I realized they don’t deserve my efforts (especially because with an eventual divorce I lose everything) so I thought “f~~~ off” and I bought a new car instead.
I became very selective with women: I’m very intuitive about people nature, so if my sixth sense tells me something is wrong, I’m done. This allowed me to avoid a lady with baby rabies: I was so right.. the guy after me was framed with an “unexpected” pregnancy!

I have my hobbies, I live on my own and I can manage my money, time and life: I’ve found my balance but I think going the own way is not the key for happiness.
For me it is a forced solution for a world who give the cold shoulder to man and family. I don’t want to lie, I regret this situation: my parents generation had better chances to build something meaningful in life (it wasn’t all peace and light, I know, but always better than this modern s~~~).

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Agree with everything you say. It is a shame that we can not live like our ancestors. We can’t though, we simply can not.

I am a few years older than you, I am 41. I have lost ALL desire for any kind of relationship with women. I still desire sex, but that is where it ends. I desire NOTHING else from them.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome Dez!

Dez82 wrote:

I’ve found my balance but I think going the own way is not the key for happiness.
For me it is a forced solution for a world who give the cold shoulder to man and family. I don’t want to lie, I regret this situation: my parents generation had better chances to build something meaningful in life (it wasn’t all peace and light, I know, but always better than this modern s~~~).

You will find by reading many of the articles, posts and replies here that MGTOW is the best option for us given THE CURRENT STATE of society. You are choosing to live your life for yourself rather than being a tool for some woman.
You said it was a ‘forced’ solution, but you had the blue pill and the red pill in your hand. You chose the red pill, and good for you. There will be regrets, maybe even depression, but you will find a great deal of support from all the brothers here who went through the same thing as you.
Believe me, given the alternative, you chose wisely. And going our own way IS the key to happiness to many of us, hopefully it will be yours too.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Dez82 wrote:

I don’t want to lie, I regret this situation: my parents generation had better chances to build something meaningful in life (it wasn’t all peace and light, I know, but always better than this modern s~~~).

Bu bu b but Patriarchy! And and and oppression and stuff! How dare you suggest that completely free room and board along with co-ownership of assets in exchange for minor housework and time with kids was anything but!?!?!

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"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Oh, and welcome to the site! It sounds like you’re pretty on board with the red pill……

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Welcome!

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

Hi and welcome brother.

I wish I had woken up years ago, at a younger age like yourself, and I agree that the Current State of Society (Women) is pathetic, the women of my day were possibly less obvious, more cunning, more Con Man, in their approach. They played you better, now they are just so obviously insane.

Does not matter in the least, Cunning double faced thieves you must avoid, their paths are crooked, these evil ones.

Same result for man, destruction of his family life. Utter painful ruin of a man. Financially, physically, emotionally, you get my gist. Just not worth the effort, trust me. Live for you, enjoy the spoils of your own work.

Learn from MGTOW, you have and are amongst good company here.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hey Dez welcome aboard. You’re from Italy? Your English is perfect. Welcome to MGTOW and the forums and thanks for making such a great intro! It wasn’t “a bother”. Intros are very welcome and help a lot of men out. Just a few sentences from you can ping something in another man’s consciousness and awaken a sleeping giant.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome ! enjoy ! you are in the best place to be , your own boss !

[AmuseParticipant 1]

Welcome Dez

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

there is one thing we should do- to thine own self be true

[Dez82Participant 107]

Thank you everybody for your warm welcome.
You’re right, red pill is not easy and sometimes instincts demand everything we avoid, thus depression and sad thoughts.. unfortunately we can’t explain to them how things are going in society.. Let’s hope that somehow in the near future things change for the best, until then MGTOW.

@keymaster: yes I’m Italian. Thank you very much! I learned the basis at school, however I grew up playing video games and, later, surfing the internet: in the early days everything was in English.. it was a boost to my learning.

[Anonymous 29]

Good to see you have found your way here Dez and welcome .

[KTHParticipant 151]

Hi Dez. I’m not far from your age and went through most of the same experiences, and you’re absolutely right – there aren’t many investment-quality women in the US right now.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Hi Dez & all.

First post for me, hope you don’t mind me saying ‘hi’ on your thread.

As for my arrival here – I started years ago in digging for truth in general, trying to better understand the truth of the world around me in politics, finance and society. It was as enlightening as it was depressing.

As an extension of that, and a growing interest in psychology (and in particular the ego and narcissism), I started really paying attention to the people around me. It fascinates me how people accept lies and constantly lie to themselves – these days I just stand on the sidelines with my jaw swinging in the breeze.

I guess it’s pretty easy to see how a quest to rid my life of illusion and over-inquisitive mind might land me here.

I’m sure more of my story will come out in conversations to come, so no need to write a biography just now.

I’ve been lurking for a while, so this is my first chance to thank KM for this site, and the regular commentators that keep me appalled and entertained in equal measure.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Welcome Brother!
You are now among those who share your passion for individual liberty. Stay solo and thrive. The ride only gets better from this point forward.

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