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[JoeBlowParticipant 6]

Just joined. I feel like my general frustration has led me here, but perhaps this would be a cathartic experience, getting some of this off my chest.

After my divorce 6 years ago (a relationship everyone thought would never end, including myself) I fell in love with a woman who I thought was the one for me…my “second chance”, if you will.  And I poured everything I had into that relationship.  Grand romantic gestures above and beyond anything I had ever done for my ex wife.  I convinced myself that my marriage failed because I didn’t try hard enough, and I wasn’t going to make that mistake again.  And you know what?  IT DIDN’T F~~~ING MATTER.  She ended up breaking up with me anyways 6 months later because, long story short, she saw me as a threat to her independence.

I’ve pretty much checked out now too.  I just don’t see the point in trying anymore.  I don’t feel like I HATE women.  But I feel like the expectations of men in relationships have hit levels of extreme f~~~ing RIDICULOUSNESS.  And it’s just so frustrating to deal with.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Welcome friend. Come in, sit down and the others will be with you shortly.

Here’s a coffee …. must dash as late for work.

Will talk soon …. the guys will show you around.

Toodles

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

What she was telling you she wants to suck more dick f~~~’in worthless c~~~.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[under6footParticipant 20]

Hello Brother,

You can bet one of her whack out girlfriends put a bug in her ear and convinced her the grass is greener somewhere else.

I heard “misery loves company” so true when it concerns women.

[experiencedParticipant]

Truly glad you’re here. You came to the right place.  Read here, at this site. Go over it from Start to finish. Learn from others’ mistakes. Lift up brothers that are going through the same s~~~ you’re going through. Women are like various wild animals in that if you leave them alone they’ll leave you alone???? bulls~~~ – you are going to learn here how to be careful around them and their too numerous ways of effing guys in today’s society.

“Longest journeys can begin in a bad way, and yours sounds like that.  But, you’ve taken the correct next step otherwise you wouldn’t be here.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Women keep treating men so badly it defies description. Then, one day, we stop coming back for more. Welcome to a place where men who refuse to be punished for good intentions congregate.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Women don’t want “Till death do us part”They want till I feel the princess party is over.

They look at you and see flaws.They look at men and see flaws but they are unable to look at themselves and see flaws.

It’s part of what’s called the Women Are Wonderful effect.

Female psychology.

I started a whole thread on female psychology and will be adding to it later.

Yes  without a lot of social conditioning and peer pressure women do not make good long term  partners .They evolved to consider their wants and needs and feelings first and foremost. To nest and to foment nice soft conditions for them to have and raise children. And to manipulate situations and conditions to achieve that.

Much much safer for Men to Go Their  Own Way .

I’m sorry you went through that brother.

Take care and see you around.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[JoeBlowParticipant 6]

The worst thing is, there were warning signs right off the bat, I just ignored them, f~~~ing DUMB on my part:

 

Not fully divorced yet, still going through the proceedings, so hadn’t hit that complete I’M FREE stage yet.

12 years younger than me—sounds cool on the surface, but this age gap MATTERS, it causes all sorts of issues

had kids way young so laments “missing her 20’s”—I’ve dated a few of these “I’ve missed my 20’s” women, and it’s a f~~~ing nightmare.  30-40 year old women who want to party and get drunk all the time to make up for something they feel they missed out on early in life are a f~~~ing joke.  Especially when you DID live it up in your 20’s.  S~~~, I lived enough 20’s for TWO people.  Not looking to relive it though now that I’m 40.

Told me “be careful, I’m crazy, haha”—this should have been a warning sign, not a cute joke to brush off.  Because all she was trying to do was excuse her own irrational behaviour and absolve herself of any guilt because hey, she warned me, right?

 

There were more signs throughout the relationship, but this was off the top.  I ignored these signs because she was attractive and GREAT in bed.  Worst part is, I went into it wanting to keep it just as a sex thing, and I should have.  Instead, I got sucked in to loving her.  Which wouldn’t have been a bad thing, had she not done a complete 180 on me.  I swear, it’s like this is all a game to some women.  They don’t really want to fall in love, they just want to see if they can get YOU to fall in love with them.  And when they do?  game over.  It’s no longer FUN for them, so on to their next VICTIM.

 

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Welcome to the forums, may you find peace here on the web and good information.

Good luck to you in real life.

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[Anonymous 42]

Hey Joe, You hit everything pretty much square on the head!

Now is the time to arrange your future, so repeat after me; “I will never ignore or avoid an intellectual red flag, or warning bell going on inside my head, no matter how small, or quiet it is.”, if you do that, I guarantee you’ll be much better off! Welcome to MGTOW, recharge your battery, put on your seat belts, restart your life, and hang the f~~~ on! The real fun’s about to begin!

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