New here and have a few questions

[Thorium123Participant 39]

Hello everyone. I’m a 26 year old guy here from California that never knew such a thing called MGTOW existed but it is something I’ve been thinking about for quite some time. I have decided to follow this lifestyle after careful consideration of the climate men now live in. For starters I’m single right now. I’ve been in previous relationships and there was sometimes a few years of gaps between them. I never really felt like I was missing out on something during those periods so I feel like MGTOW isn’t that big of a deal to do. I also have many hobbies that can occupy my time and several guy friends to hang with, I’m not lonely etc. The reason I went mgtow is based on one of risk vs reward. In the current landscape in the US I really think it is very anti men. Guys have the most to lose in a marriage situation. Guys are expected to initiate everything yet with all the sexual harassment hysteria going on it is way too easy to be misread and basically have your entire life destroyed with absolutely no evidence, simply an accusation. The risks are just not worth it both financially and for sanity purposes. I can take care of my sexual needs on my own. I have pretty much just cut off women entirely from my life except for family like my mother and sister. A few months back I was at the bar with a few of my buds and this girl kept hitting on me. I told her to leave me alone and she seemed shocked that I turned her down and seemed to get p~~~ed but she eventually left me alone. I just have one question about going MGTOW. How do you explain the situation to other people? I mean if you are single in your 30s or 40s how do you explain that you don’t want a relationship when so many around you are married? They may assume you are gay or something. Also, some girls are crazy in that if you ignore them they take it as a challenge and will purposefully hit on you because it’s attractive if you ignore them or something idk what it is. But they only seem to get it when you tell them with a straight face to leave you the hell alone. Basically my question is for the long term (as in years) cut off women in a society that is so two faced? Men are expected to initiate sexual situations and expected to get married and all the rest yet are constantly bombarded with misreading situations, sexual harassment hysteria, etc etc.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Simple. Stop worrying about what others think about you. Trust when I say, they have more important things to worry about in their own life than if you’re gay or straight. It’s no big deal. However, swearing off women at 26.. Good luck. I’m 40 and it’s an up hill battle. You can still date, just do not get married.

[HitmanParticipant]

you owe no explanations to anyone.
there are many things to say if you like,
but you don’t have to explain yourself.
just live the way you choose.
i’m sure the men here will help you with things to say if you wish.
welcome.
glad you found the site.

[ghostParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

you owe no explanations to anyone.
there are many things to say if you like,
but you don’t have to explain yourself.
just live the way you choose.

Hitman is spot on.

Welcome!

[Thorium123Participant 39]

Thanks for the replies.Thankfully I have never been married and am an engineer and make very good money after working only 4 years. I still sometimes have casual type encounters but after seeing how royally screwed you can get with marriage and kids there is no way I’m doing that

[ghostParticipant]

Thorium123 wrote:

sometimes have casual type encounters

Waste of time. They are beneath you. You will eventually stop. Believe me.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro .

I guess the beachboys were full of s~~~

i never realised they were pussy begging . Holy s~~~ .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Thorium123Participant 39]

ghost wrote:

Thorium123 wrote:

sometimes have casual type encounters

Waste of time. They are beneath you. You will eventually stop. Believe me.

Maybe in time. Sex is a huge driving force but I will never get married in order to get it because it is so easy with dating apps these days

[ghostParticipant]

Thorium123 wrote:

Sex is a huge driving force

I understand. You just haven’t had enough to where it gets boring to you. Personally, I could never have sex with someone who I had no emotion for. I would have a hard time even having an erection with that person. I would just feel disgusted to be with her.

[bladeParticipant]

Thorium123 wrote:

They may assume you are gay or something.

So what , f~~~ em they can go else where pestering for c~~~ .

If people want to think that your gay that is there problem not yours . They own it not you .

I would reply ……..

Oh you think i am gay , cool give me my f~~~in rights please sir and bend over . Lol

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 5]

Thanks for the intro.
I notice you use “Guys” a hell of a lot. I used to be the same.
One of the most effective tactics women use to control men for life is to require them to prove and keep proving they’re men to deserve the title “Man”
I dare any woman on the planet to put down on her Facebook page what women have to do to prove they’re worthy of being called a woman. Just sit back and see what happens to any woman who states any requirements what so ever to be thought of as a woman!
However, ask any of them to write something on what men have to do to be called men and the list will go forever. You’ll notice that every single “requirement” to be a REAL man will be serving a woman’s purpose one way or another.
You’re a man and you don’t have to prove it to anyone.

A warm welcome, and enjoy the company of other men.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I dare any woman on the planet to put down on her Facebook page what women have to do to prove they’re worthy of being called a woman. Just sit back and see what happens to any woman who states any requirements what so ever to be thought of as a woman!
However, ask any of them to write something on what men have to do to be called men and the list will go forever. You’ll notice that every single “requirement” to be a REAL man will be serving a woman’s purpose one way or another.

F~~~ Facebook and f~~~ all of those c~~~s and their blue pill “men”.

[ATLANTISParticipant 119]

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome to MGTOW. In my 40s, I work with mostly women who I am sure think I’m gay and question behind my back. We just signed up for the company xmas party and I was the only person that put down one attending. Don’t get me wrong I get along well with all of them, but know what they think.

At this point I do not date, it’s a waste of money I would rather put my money into scuba diving, photography, investing. I’m debt free and own my own home, never married no kids, and I love my life.

If you chose to interact in relationships ask her for an STD test, the CDC facts are eye opening, protect your health.

The guys are right screw what others think! When your on your death bed what are you going to care about the hobbies you missed out on? Or care about what others think?

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 42]

Thorium123 wrote:

How do you explain the situation to other people?

You don’t, they don’t deserve an “explanation”, you’re living for while they’re brainwashed into accepting abuse and living with that abuse as medium norm across the board. You’re not going to find anything worthwhile or valuable in today’s modern emboldened narcissistic self entitled female, let others mine for gold where only sand exists to cave in on top of them.

Thorium123 wrote:

I mean if you are single in your 30s or 40s how do you explain that you don’t want a relationship when so many around you are married? They may assume you are gay or something.

You’ve been conditioned to think like a child, not a man. A “real man” has no concern whatsoever for hive mentality making you a child to run around serving everything under the sun except your own needs which by the way are not on societies list of importance but rather non existent until it destroys you then you’re discarded and raped of all your material value in some many cases thrown into confinement and raped of all your natural rights and the blessing of life itself!

You’ve awoken to the fact that you’re in the devils kitchen and you’re the meal to be eaten!

Feminism kills everything it touches, don’t let it touch you and you will not only live but THRIVE unlike all the cuck slaves dropping like flies all around you while criticizing you who refused to serve yourself on a platter all carved up awaiting consumption.

This society has been set ablaze by feminism and gynocentrism and until MGTOW men did all the burning while women sat in their white castle pouring the flaming oil into the mote far far below them, go into the wilderness and stay away from the castle and the flames, you’ll only get burned to a crisp and never enjoy life’s sweet offerings.

That which they touch, dies! DO NOT TOUCH!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Thorium123 wrote:

Thanks for the replies.Thankfully I have never been married and am an engineer and make very good money after working only 4 years. I still sometimes have casual type encounters but after seeing how royally screwed you can get with marriage and kids there is no way I’m doing that

Rule #1 : Never marry. Don’t believe the bulls~~~ about pre-nups. They can be and frequently are tossed, and the woman still gets her cash and prizes.

Rule #2: Never cohabitate. Common law marriage and that s~~~. Plus, even in a state that is not common law marriage, you still can have legal exposure.

Rule #3: The One Phone Call. A woman can always make that one phone call, even if nothing happened, and Dial-A-Gun dudes will come take you away. If you call up Dial-A-Gun after SHE attacks you, YOU are still likely to be taken away, even if she struck you and you didn’t even fight back and you even had injuries.

Rule #4: About casual encounters. Beware of pin holes poked in condoms so she can get baby and thus cash and prizes without marriage. Beware of the condom being taken out of the trash – women HAVE impregnated themselves this way. One British woman even managed to parlay the results of a blowjob she gave into a pregnancy and hundreds of thousands in child support.

Rule #5: About eating pussy. A fair number of women get off on f~~~ing one guy and then letting another guy eat her pussy later. Consider that the next time you put your tongue between her meat flaps. That rueben may actually be cream chipped beef.

F~~~ all of that s~~~.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

Thorium123 wrote:

How do you explain the situation to other people? I mean if you are single in your 30s or 40s how do you explain that you don’t want a relationship when so many around you are married?

Don’t explain.

If you start talking about MGTOW, you can get in a whole heap of trouble, particularly in the workplace.

If asked a direct question, deflect it with a vague, meaningless answer.

They may assume you are gay or something.

So? Your masculinity is not so fragile that their opinion has any value.

Also, some girls are crazy in that if you ignore them they take it as a challenge and will purposefully hit on you because it’s attractive if you ignore them or something idk what it is.

(1) Her ego can’t stand it, so she must try again.
(2) That may mean that you are successful and have hidden $.

But they only seem to get it when you tell them with a straight face to leave you the hell alone.

Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt, but be careful.

As RangerOne says, always keep the possibility of THAT phone call in mind. Never forget how spiteful they are.

Basically my question is for the long term (as in years) cut off women in a society that is so two faced?

Go monk. It’s the only way.

[AttonParticipant]

How do you explain the situation to other people?

Keep it simple cite legal liability issues it has worked for me.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Welcome!

I agree with others about not caring what others think.

But, being older and divorced that’s pretty much my answer. I tell them I’ve been married and divorced. I have my kids. The only man that ever encouraged me to ‘get back out there’ was very blue pill/tradcon.
Now women will say stuff like ‘you’ll find someone.’ Or ‘you’re just not ready yet.’ Or such bulls~~~. And I’ll just be like ‘sure…’

[Tim941Participant 68]

Thorium123 wrote:

I can take care of my sexual needs on my own.

Thank you for posting your feelings and perceptions, Thorium123 (preferably by MSR). Please expand in explicit fashion. Sex with a naturally beautiful youngish woman can be an experience of cosmic proportions—that’s my question.

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