New! Fron Spain, Europe. Tired of this sick society

[soplamocosParticipant 11]

Hi all,

Im a 33 years old man who have been swimming in the jar so long, and this last 4 years since i catched my ex with another guy and other problems i begining to loose everything, (false) friends, self steem, and i have been suffering of anxiety during this years.

This years i have been avoiding relationships, im not ugly, i always have been lucky with girls but since that i just dont want a relationship and all my friends are married and lots of them with kids and i hate that. im not jealous im just seeing that all that is a waste of time.

Just yesterday making searchs over the internet about my “problems” i discovered that im out of the jar! not completely but beggining a new life, and yes its very very hard, my family is pushing me, people is looking at me like a weirdo or mad person…. but this is what i need, this online society is what i have been looking for this years and now i discovered it.

I just want to be completely out of the jar and stop swimming for a third person, i want to swim bymyself and for me

Hi all!!

[cutrootParticipant 6]

Hello soplamocos, and welcome!

I have just begun this adventure too.  Thanks for sharing your story and joining here, I hope you can pursue your dream of swimming for yourself.

All that we can really lose are our misconceptions.

Best wishes.

[soplamocosParticipant 11]

Thanks cutroot

Yeah, that loses are not loses in reality, is better to say goodbye to people who doesnt give a s~~~ for other and are trapped on this competitive sick society. So i beggining to discover and feeling proud of what im doing. Now i want to do it right and not fall in the trap again and begin to feel happy on my own way.

 

[roninParticipant 341]

Hello, I’m from Spain too, it’s good to see MGTOW is spreading across our country. Welcome to the best place on the internets and full of great people, so grab a beer, sit back and enjoy.

We are at the dawn of a New Era. We are the Vanguard.-Greg Honda.

[soplamocosParticipant 11]

Thanks guys!!! im happy to be here!! i feel not alone anymore, i feel motivated

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Hola bienvenido

Good we have more guys from Europe coming on line.

The numbers swell ?

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Greetings.  Welcome to a wealth of knowledge the media will never tell you.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Welcome man, good to see that europeans are starting to catch up too, as I’m one of them. Have a great time here, mate ! 😀

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

Welcome @soplamocos! I know what you mean that going through your thirties as a single man can be difficult, especially when your friends are all getting married.

I was hanging around with some couples the other day.  Just idle chit chat about absolutely nothing.  One of the wives was talking about a favourite band and about all the concerts she and her husband have seen – and she listed off all the places they caught shows in chronological order.  Her husband jumped in and said “I think we saw the concert in Boston before the one in Phili… Remember that we…” and before he could even express his whole thought she just dismissed the suggestion, shook her head, and insisted “No” – her version of history was correct and his version was wrong.  Zero interest in having actually SHARED the experience with her husband, zero interest in what he actually THOUGHT.  Even though this was apparently one of their favourite things to do together.  And he did what every good husband should do and just keep is mouth shut and let her get on with her story. And this is what most would describe as a perfectly healthy and successful marriage.

Today I see these relationships, these happy marriages between couples who are “just right” for each other, and I see all these small concessions, unending corrections in behaviour, and compromise after compromise, all to maintain “balance” and “peace” in the relationship.  F~~~ that.

I am master of my own ship and do not have anyone telling me where to turn, and will never go anywhere except my own way.

Cheers and once again, Welcome!

 

 

[On the PathParticipant 28]

Welcome!

Follow your dreams, work hard and keep learning.
Nothing wrong with avoiding women that keep you from achieving those goals.

Cheers!

[On the PathParticipant 28]

S~~~ @myself… You gave me flashbacks of my last relationship.

Concession after concession. Compromise and shutting up. Telling myself i was happy.
And for what?
Turning into a shell of a man, because having a woman in your life is what is expected of you.

Thanks again mgtow.com, never been happier!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Welcome soplamocos,

I can empathize with your feelings.  There is going to be a lot of changes in your thinking as time goes on.  Some of it can be stressful and hurtful when you realize certain truths.

This is a safe place to make you transition back in to reality.

 

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I have watched a lot of my friends get married, get miserable, and then get divorced again. It was an education to be sure. I’m glad you did not fall into the marriage trap.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

Hi soplamocos, nice entry, a good splash in the MGTOW pool! Don’t worry about feminist turds floating around here, their not allowed, and we don’t p~~~ in our pool either, that’s why it’s clear all the way to the bottom! Welcome to the clean and private club of MGTOW!

[NinjaParticipant 39]

Hello soplamocos, I am glad you have woken up to the realities of female nature, welcome!

Though, I am somewhat surprised that European nations are succumbing to the gynocentric plague, perhaps it was only a matter time.

[DauntlessParticipant 403]

Hola, mi amigo. Welcome aboard. It’s great to see MGTOW extending its roots all over Europe.

"To live is to suffer; to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering." - Friedrich Nietzsche

[soplamocosParticipant 11]

Thank you guys!!

This is a really nice place!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Bienvenida @soplamocos! Su Inglés es mucho mejor que mi español . Por favor, siéntase como en casa.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[soplamocosParticipant 11]

thank you @keymaster . as i see you are the webmaster / creator of this website, i work as frontend developer in a cloud computing company if you need something related you can contact me.

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