New chick, same ole

[SilnusParticipant 45]

Some chick approached me from the workplace and wanted to hang out. She is actually a very intellectual person and could hold good conversation. Well, only three dates later I had sex with her and her reply was “well you have to date me now”. Of course, since the golden beetle (vagina) has been so graciously thrown upon me, I now must support her. I was as transparent as I could be and simply told her, “If you are looking for a relationship then I am not it. I am not having a relationship and will never have one for the rest of my life”. She replies, “Ok, then why are you even dating then?”

This kills me. It has become programming that if a chick throws the pussy at you, you must become their slave and beckon to their call. F~~~ that s~~~. She told me if I wasn’t looking for something serious then she needs to walk away. The kicker here is, we only went on 3 dates! I didn’t even know the girl’s birthday.

I told her that I understand and good luck to her. You know what else is strange, I am no playboy by any means, but I can get laid pretty regular if I so choose, but sex has lost it’s luster to me. I’d rather jack off and not have to worry about the repercussions of a crazed female falsely accusing me of rape or some how ‘getting pregnant’. I’d rather beat my dick until it falls off than worry about a subpoena for rape charges or other bulls~~~ accusations women get away with. I am seriously considering going celibate.

[Anonymous 5]

Good for you beating it will allow you to do just that the risks are high but pussy is just pussy. The endless power of the c~~~ is for others not individuals. If you focus on money and happiness you’ll find yourself more attuned to your passion and less to your animalistic nature. Leaving people to think your part of the scenery and thats what can be scary. A truly free man.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Silnus wrote:

This kills me. It has become programming that if a chick throws the pussy at you, you must become their slave and beckon to their call.

It might work if there weren’t so many easy women out there. If the average chick made you wait 3 months instead of 3 dates to get some pussy, you might actually think a little harder about keeping it around because you know it will take a little effort to replace.

Its funny how sluts think being a slut is empowering, but in reality it has taken more away from them then they will ever comprehend.

[AttonParticipant]

She sounds like your everyday carousel rider to me, I would suggest an aids test.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[No CountryParticipant 759]

I’m still amazed on how you guys still beat up the va jay jay. More power too you guys. I envy you. From the experiences of living with a girl who use wrap her legs around my body before the busting I just can’t risk it anymore. In my mid 2os with my finger in the air towards woman. Freedom is to precious to me.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Silnus wrote:

Some chick approached me from the workplace

Mistake number 1 right there. Never EVER f~~~ anyone from the workplace. Keep all communication you’ve had with her in case she pulls the sexual harassment card or acted under duress bulls~~~.

[No CountryParticipant 759]

@deepinthought I couldn’t agree with you more. When I was a very young man at the age of 18 I had many woman at the place of my employment throwing themselves at me. Married in their 40s to girls my age. I never took the bait.
So after not taking the bait for many months and just entailing the woman something happened. I come back from to work after Easter and there was a rumor I f~~~ed this lady that I never spoke a word to on Easter. According to her we had a 8 hour bang fest. I was in shock and tried to deny the whole thing. It didn’t work.
I didn’t even f~~~ this woman let alone speak too her. So my advice treat work as work and business only. To f~~~ing risky. I was lucky and nothing came about, but everyone knew about in the office and I mean EVERYONE.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Silnus wrote:

This kills me. It has become programming that if a chick throws the pussy at you, you must become their slave and beckon to their call.

It is our biological function — however distorted by modern civilization — and, yes, it has killed many men. I’m glad you didn’t fall for it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 11]

DeepInThought wrote:

Never EVER f~~~ anyone from the workplace

Very wise words. This is great advice on so many levels. The one time I put my dick in f~~~ing truly crazy. I met her at the workplace.

Working with someone does not equal really knowing someone. Throwing in potential HR grenades and the grapevine knowing every last detail of your personal life is a surefire recipe for disaster. Always maintain strict separation between your work and personal life. I firewall work and personal from each other with zeal these days.

Silnus wrote:

three dates later I had sex with her

This three dates and no pussy PUA golden rule is a great way to get attached to an out of control STD ridden 300 meter dick height cheating slut who’ll suck you dry both ways it can be done if you get the drift. I don’t even care if a woman friendzones me for not f~~~ing her right off the bat. That makes not having her in my life self-evident.

All available limited slots for female friends in my life are presently occupied by women who are actually reciprocal with room for no more due to exceeding maximum drama exposure limits.

Reciprocity is a very rare characteristic in women is all I can say.

[OldBillParticipant]

You made a few mistakes, Silnus, but that’s okay. We all make mistakes and we’re all here to learn.

First, you got involved with someone where you work. Do not s~~~ where you eat. Any involvement with women is fraught with dangers; it’s one of the major reasons why MGTOW and this site exists after all. You’ve compounded the problem by risking your current job. If she gets a hair across her ass for any reason, she and the c~~~s in HR can run you out of your current job and sabotage your efforts at finding another.

While it’s always good to keep an eye on the job market, you need to start seriously looking because this woman isn’t going to take your brush off well. Sooner than later, she’s going to get “buyer’s remorse” and you’re going to get f~~~ed.

Second, you followed the all too usual and brain dead Gen X/Millennial practice of “hanging out”. I don’t know when that idiocy started but it’s cause young men no end of trouble. Never be vague with a woman. “Hanging out” means one to you and something else entirely to a woman. You think it’s nothing, she thinks it’s dating, and, before you know it, you’ve been “hanging out” for a year and she’s pricing wedding gowns. If you’re going to do anything or go anywhere with a woman, you must be explicit about what will take place. Say “We’re dining out”, We’re seeing a movie”, or “We’re attending a game.” instead of “Uhhh… you want to hang out or something?” Be explicit. They’re women and they’re deliberately stupid.

Third, and this ties in with your second mistake, you failed to explicitly state your boundaries before becoming involved with this woman. When you failed to rebuff her approach and accepted her invitation, you should have done so with the proviso I don’t date and we will not be in a relationship. You should have quashed any hope she had of any relationship of any kind developing with you. Being a woman, she’s going ignore your warnings “because vagina” but that’s her problem.

I regularly go out with women and every one of them – whether they choose to have sex with me or not – know exactly where they stand with me. Access to their pussies will not and does not change my opinion of them or imply an obligation of any kind on my part. They are told this right up front, they are reminded of it, and if they choose to ignore it, that’s entirely their problem.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Silnus wrote:

Well, only three dates later I had sex with her and her reply was “well you have to date me now”.

That’s the girl that f~~~s on credit. A whore of a different color.
She puts out for free , but expects to collect later – with interest. That’s when she hands you the bill.

The WORST kind.

She’s the worst, because she keeps her price hidden and when you don’t pay it she behaves like you treated her badly. It’s like walking into a Porsche dealer and he gives you the keys and lets you drive off the lot! Then he calls the police and says you stole it and holds your dog ransom.

Same s~~~.

This is the kind of psycho that will key your car and slash your leather – because the whore didn’t get paid. If anyone is reading this and laughing, I’m dead f~~~ing serious. You go / make out with her and everyone has a great time. You treat her well, she has fun, great sex, you drop her off, good night. Awesome.

3 days later it’s “I thought we were in a relationship now” and if you don’t text her before end of day Thursday and read her mind, she behaves like you treated her badly. Monkeys~~~ insane.

Silnus wrote:

The kicker here is, we only went on 3 dates! I didn’t even know the girl’s birthday.

^^ THIS ^^

It’s like you have to EXPLAIN to a grown woman that the criteria for sex is a list with one item on it. The criteria for a “relationship” , to spend time with her, live with her, marry, sit across from her, listen to her………. is a list of s~~~ a mile long and depends on if you LIKE THE GIRL I don’t know how a chick can go out on a single date and not understand this. She’s having sex for the wrong reasons.

Once I dated a girl for a couple of months. I saw her maybe 8 times. We’re out and she says “so I guess this means we’re in a relationship now”. Never asked me my birthday. how many brothers and sisters I have, where I was born, where I went to school, how I like to spend my spare time, or even what my last name was.

Seriously. What the f~~~ are you doing wanting a “relationship” with someone you made NO effort to learn anything about!!!

I swear to everything holy……… it’s like women don’t give a F~~~ who the guy is.
As long as she can change her “relationship status” on facebook.

Horrifying.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Well, only three dates later I had sex with her and her reply was “well you have to date me now”.

Am I the only one who rarely considers anything a “date” anymore? Im rather eccentric and idiosyncratic, but it seems to me most people dont really date anymore. Its usually last minute “want to grab a drink” type things. Anyones input/opinion appreciated. Might even make a thread about this.

Your story reminds me of something similair but even more exreme that happened to me a while back. I dont go out picking up on girls either, but I was at a local bar with a nice buzz on one night. I came back in after a smoke and this girl is sitting in my seat. I give her a hard time and tell her she stole my seat. We joke around and she moves one seat over. After some intoxicated kissing, I said Im going home. She says shes coming with me…

Next morning we grab a coffee and she buys: a tooth brush, tooth paste, and a coffee mug and proceeds to put it at my place. Smiling when saying – “Dont let any OTHER girls use my stuff”. Leaving her mark and assuming were an “item” because she spread her legs. Trying to hold hands and act like were lovers now. It was so unnatural. Unreal.

They say dogs p~~~ to mark their territory. Some women spread their legs and think theyve acquired a new possession.

Then you have the really young ones who think NOTHING of sex and just jump from c~~~ to c~~~ with zero relationships throughout their 20s.

Resident cynic.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

They are all the same except you can get them in different colors or different optional trip package.She is different is
Famous last words of danger by Me or any of my friends.She loves to watch ball games.She loves my car and most important she love to suck my dick.I said this several times ,but I went with what I call Blind ignorance.I went with my gut feeling and sure enough in card playing parlance I discovered a tell .The tell was that she was holding all the cards .It was time to put all in into the pot or walk away.as Kenny Rodgers sings
Every gambler knows
That the secret to survivin’
Is knowin’ what to throw away
And knowin’ what to keep
‘Cause every hand’s a winner
And every hand’s a loser
And the best that you can hope for is to die
In your sleep

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