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[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

Hey, I’m so glad I’ve found this site. I wish I had this wealth of information 6 months ago. I’ve been separated from a narcissist since April. Around July, after all of the denial and self pity started to wear off (along with begging her to come back and pitiful pleadings to change), I told a guy what I had been going through and how I was trying to prove I’m not abusive because I could not think of one instance when I had been guilty of the “in-human treatment” and “emotional and physical abuse” that was described in the divorce papers. He told me that he believed I was the one being abused and since then my whole mindset has changed.

I’m still dealing with a lot of weird and tough emotions but I’m definitely hopeful. I was one of those guys that claimed to be a feminist and was a full blown White Knight at times. So, here’s to change and a fulfilling life without a wife.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Jan said it best—welcome home brother.

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

Thanks!

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Jones

Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere,
And some times in the middle of nowhere you find yourself

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome brother to salvation.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Terrific! A very big welcome to you.

Grizzly wrote:

“emotional and physical abuse” that was described in the divorce papers

I’m still amazed women still try to get away with that bulls~~~.

Anyone wants to see who starts the emotional abuse in a marriage … just look at the female. Women are actually PROUD of initiating it and think it’s a GOOD thing to upset their husbands.

Grizzly wrote:

He told me that he believed I was the one being abused and since then my whole mindset has changed.

+1 has awoken.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome Jones_Clay64, it’s great to have a full blown convert aboard, you have more to offer than you realize, you’re no longer the unknowing and unwary, your journey is one of full circle.

Again, welcome the the forums…

[HitmanParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere,
And some times in the middle of nowhere you find yourself

damn that’s good m52…
welcome!!!
been where you were at and never going back .
believe me,
it wasn’t you, it was HER .

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome and guaranteed she’s being coached to say all that crap by her lawyer too.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

Tuneout wrote:

Welcome and guaranteed she’s being coached to say all that crap by her lawyer too.

Thanks. Yeah her daddy’s paying for the most expensive lady bulldog lawyer in Nashville… was in marriage counseling for two years and “abuse” was never used to describe any of my actions. Only came up after she left and hired a lawyer. Go figure.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

wow, you must be rich or have kids or both. Why did she claim that?
welcome

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

Her parents are rich and we have a 3 year old son. I’m pretty much broke and make enough to get by. She’s just trying to get as much custody as possible.

[DoneParticipant 21]

Welcome brother. Find your strength. It’s in you, you are a man, and your better than the whole blue pill world will ever know.

Sometimes the light's all shining on me!

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Grizzly wrote:

So, here’s to change and a fulfilling life without a wife.

Cheers!

Welcome. Kick your shoes off and read, read and read some more.

[joetechParticipant]

And now you know WHY to avoid marriage in the future. Welcome to the club!

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Dude, always remember this feeling. AWALT. Don’t get fooled again.

Get an attorney. Fight for your child. He needs you as a father so he can know true love, honesty, courage, integrity and honor. He will never learn these from his mother.

Welcome.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Grizzly wrote:

Her parents are rich and we have a 3 year old son. I’m pretty much broke and make enough to get by. She’s just trying to get as much custody as possible.

What a c~~~. I threatened mine that if she didn’t divorce on good terms – she’ll never see her daughter again. And it worked – I have joint custody and no child support other than half of medical and after school programs. But maybe it only worked because she knew me well enough to know I wasn’t bulls~~~ting her and could really do it – disappear in a different country under a different name. I’m not advocating you should do it, but desperate times call for desperate measures. Just wanted to share
And good luck

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Welcome JC, you’ve found the MGTOW oasis! Hope you find it to be of much use and support.

I see my kid one weekend a fortnight and I actually like it. Allows me to work and train and have my own time and then spend some quality time with my boy, where we go do stuff together, which makes our time together more valuable. It’s great being single.

Seeya around brother.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Welcome my friend.

Its amazing what a turn around you’ve made…It makes me happy and hopeful for change.

Brother, we need to stick together.

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