Negotiations Didn't Go Well

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Ok, I have to share this. Honestly, this s~~~ happens all the time, and I have also been victim of this bulls~~~ during my previous marriage. I got a gaming convention coming up in town. We get together and play board, card, and miniature games for four days straight. Tons of people attend this convention. I ask my normal gaming buddies in a group chat message who would like to get together and play a particularly long but fun game that takes about 6-8 hours to play. Everyone loves this game but it takes longer than our usual games. These guys are all married. One guy didn’t respond as he is basically imprisoned on weekends. He’s got young kids, so whatever. Another guy is watching kids (grandkids??), so his lil’l sweetheart can come and go as she pleases. But this other guy’s reply really go me the most.

This other friend is nearing retirement. The first thing he says is that his wife’s friend is coming to visit from out of town and she expects him to babysit her (an old hag). Then, I tell him that this epic game is worth some wife “heat” to deal with for a little bit. He then says is in the process of negotiations. The next day he texts again and says “Negotiations didn’t go well.” WTF does that even mean? A man has to negotiate with a female just to do as he pleases, meanwhile, she does EXACTLY as she pleases.

Listen, I have done this s~~~ myself earlier in my marriage, when I was constantly trying to appease my piece of ass (that I was barely getting). I don’t understand why men put up with this s~~~. F~~~, my best friend can do NOTHING alone, without at least taking one of his kids with him. His wife is a lazy, insecure c~~~, who has made going to college her career and she is 40 y/o. I can’t take it anymore.

[Anonymous 43]

he who has a partner has a master

[AttonParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

he who has a partner has a master

Almost all women are f~~~ing terrible masters.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

Then I say move on to “aggressive negotiations” tell’em p~~~ off and go play games with your bros.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Since it’s unlikely they’re going to change any time soon.

I think you need to find some new “gaming buddies”.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Nero wrote:

I don’t understand why men put up with this s~~~. F~~~, my best friend can do NOTHING alone, without at least taking one of his kids with him.

Bro’ you know exactly why men will tolerate this s~~~.

Nero wrote:

Listen, I have done this s~~~ myself earlier in my marriage, when I was constantly trying to appease my piece of ass (that I was barely getting).

you see?

Blue pilled men, and we have all (at least most of us) been there, will try to “improve” their own behaviour, challenging their own boundaries, because that is what society has been telling them. “If your girl/woman/wife doesn’t give ass, it is your fault, because you just have not been trying hard enough.” So Blue Pillers do what they concieve as “trying harder”, they will bear even more hardships and slowly but steadily dilute their own borders. Not realizing, the woman they try to impress by how much they are willing to suffer “for her” affection, turns away in disgust and runs straight into the arms of a “chad”, who is not afraid to show her her limitations.
Women do have an inner need of being led, they are not made for taking the lead. If he gives her the lead, she is going to do just as she pleases. Women are uncapable of seeing the consequences of their own behaviour. Additionally it is an insult to her as that is prove, “she” has been picking a man of lower social standards, which means she has shown she cannot attract high class men and consequently looses social status. No woman fancies loosing status, so she has to get rid of the social stigmata “her” man has become. Feminism has even taken away her excuse of being financially dependend on her “weak” counterpart. The rise of single moms have taken her excuse “it is for the best of the children”, so now after “equality” has taken away all her excuses, she is forced to cheat.
Third wave feminism is harming men and women, but women will not admit that. They have had 20+ years to come up with some meaningful solution to the partnership dilemma, they have put themselves in, now men go MGTOW, let’s see how long it takes before “the patriarchy” has put an end to the nonsense that women claim their “freedom”. The downside of that coin is, men, who have found the happiness and peace of living minimalistic and on their own are not going to come back to the plantation. The men growing up and seeing how fantastic life is, when you don’t have to work for 3, 4 or more persons, but just for yourself, will be a generation of “No, thank you” in regards to LTR and marriage. The next generation will be a generation of ONSs and FWBs, resulting in a significant shrinking of the total number. Which actually fits quite well with the technological developments, where there are plainly less people needed.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

@muglintar: Bro, that was when I was a young fool and my wife was young and hot. We’re talking about post-wall women/hags here. That’s why I’m baffled.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

You guys are forgetting what is really going on here. You can’t negotiate with a woman who thinks she OWNS her blue pill man. He is right now on the plantation as a slave and she is a slave master. Have you ever heard of a slave master negotiating anything with a slave when she has all the power? He allowed this dynamic in their relationship he is a prisoner of his own construct and the only way to get out will be for him to grow some b~~~~ and take the red pill.

Nothing else short of that will make him understand his situation until he takes the blinders off and sees nothing is holding him back.

The draft horse

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