Need your advice…getting a ring.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I have been thinking about getting a nice wedding type band and wearing it. No there is no chick involved.

I am thinking that corporate america likes married men…They are docile and whipped.

Would there be an advantage in the world of work for people (HR feminists) to think I’m married?

I have never been into jewelry and I like to try new things.

Just to be clear there is not chick and this isn’t a Seinfeld thing to attract chicks.

Any thoughts are welcome.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

i never thought of this…..good idea, especially for middle aged men because it makes you seem more responsible.

i notice that politicians always like to talk or take pics with their wife and kids so that people will vote for them.

only problem is………. what if people start asking details about your wife or ask to meet her?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Go to a pawn shop and purchase a used, men’s gold wedding band. No filigree or jewels.

I suggest that it be yellow as opposed to white gold. Yellow gold is more traditional and stands out more as a wedding band.

Edit

“what if people start asking details about your wife or ask to meet her?”

Good question – answer, you are a widow – never had children.

So long as you wear the ring you are a long suffering widower that lost his true love.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

@$aver,

Thanks. I try to out think the little hamsters. In the US it is illegal to ask about martial status. So if the women ASSume I’m a submissive married drone…. 6 months later at the Xmas party, as long as I don’t lie and say I have a wife…

🙂

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Thanks. I try to out think the little hamsters. In the US it is illegal to ask about martial status.

I ‘THINK” it will be okay. However, I am not aware of one single check to verify your status as ‘Widow”

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

@Soldier, you to Thanks.

As long it doesn’t involve a security clearance job, they won’t. It is all what the others think. If they assume I married, widowed, etc. it is on them.

SO the question becomes. Does being married (or appearing to be) make me more desirable as a job candidate?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Does being married (or appearing to be) make me more desirable as a job candidate?

Being married and over the age of 25 has the implication of being a more stable, mature man.

However, many/most of the HR representatives that are doing the hiring women that have certain prejudices.

1. They prefer to hire good looking men.
2. They prefer to hire less than attractive women – they get jealous

Photos of Attractive Female Job Seekers Stir Up HR Jealousy

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[HitmanParticipant]

a wedding ring to wear that gives the impression your’e married/widowed …go with widowed …be prepared for the pussy to attack you ! that ring ATTRACTS females …for real .they see it as a sign that you have SMV and know how to f~~~ really well, or some woman out there never would have married you ..

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Hitman wrote:

a wedding ring to wear that gives the impression your’e married/widowed …go with widowed …be prepared for the pussy to attack you ! that ring ATTRACTS females …for real .they see it as a sign that you have SMV and know how to f~~~ really well, or some woman out there never would have married you ..

Thanks, but I not looking for women. I just want a competitive advantage in getting and keeping jobs. If a ring gets me that, Ill take it.

Sun Tsu said all warfare is based upon deception.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

I’ve heard this still turns women on and some women will be attracted to you because of it. I can see how due to womans hypergamous nature. I don’t really see the point unless you’re trying some sort of social experiment.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[Anonymous 0]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Just to be clear there is not chick and this isn’t a Seinfeld thing to attract chicks.

Weelll JS
Let me relate what happened to me.

When I was widowed (2007) at my late wife’s funeral a woman (read that as gold digging hypergamous bitch) advised me not to wait too long before I started dating again and that she was separating from her husband. He and I worked together. I thought to myself here I am hurt and crying myself to sleep and all she could do is tell me she would be available if I wanted it. I wanted to throw her out myself and tell her husband but instead I said “Thank you for coming” and to my shame and like a good little mangina I didn’t tell him his wife was a whore (worse than that at least a whore is honest about what she’s doing)

About a year later I moved my wedding band to my right hand – a popular thing widowed people do- and guess what, I got all kinds of attention from single and married women. So I moved my ring back to my left hand and noticed I got more attention from married women than single ones.
so I wore a wedding band on both hands – I got questioning looks from women (men didn’t even notice) and when asked I told the truth. I was divorced once and widowed once. This seemed to make me more popular.

About 2012 I got tired of these games and removed both rings and stopped dating and decided to be a hermit. Loner didn’t sound so bad either. Just last spring I found MGTOW and lurked for a while to see if it was for real. It is – and now words like hermit and loner are replaced with level 3 and ghosting. I know I can date if I want but I cannot bring myself to trust women. All it would take is a false allegation of anything and I would be lose everything. I don’t have time to rebuild again.

Sooo…..to get back to JS’s original question NO DONOT WEAR A WEDDING RING UNLESS YOU WANT TO FIND OUT WHO THE CHEATING BITCHES ARE
Sorry for this ramble guys. I am just too emotional about this. Celibacy is preferred in my life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

MalfunctionNeedInput wrote:

I’ve heard this still turns women on and some women will be attracted to you because of it. I can see how due to womans hypergamous nature. I don’t really see the point unless you’re trying some sort of social experiment.

no experiment. competitive advantage. If the HR women vote yes, it helps me get the job. That’s all I care about.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

@M52.

Sorry for your loss and pain.

Not looking for attention…Seriously, if it helps me get/ keep the job I’d get my nose pierced.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 0]

All is good JS
LOL If you want to get promoted, stuff a pair of socks in your pants when talking to those HR bitches LOL

[RoyDalParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I am thinking that corporate america likes married men…They are docile and whipped.

I think it would be an advantage.

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Go to a pawn shop and purchase a used, men’s gold wedding band. No filigree or jewels.

Pawn shop is the ticket.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 29]

Anonymous wrote:

Let me relate what happened to me.
When I was widowed (2007) at my late wife’s funeral a woman (read that as gold digging hypergamous bitch) advised me not to wait too long before I started dating again and that she was separating from her husband. He and I worked together. I thought to myself here I am hurt and crying myself to sleep and all she could do is tell me she would be available if I wanted it. I wanted to throw her out myself . . . . . . .

A relatively similar thing happened to me when my partner passed away last year.
Her body was barely cold before I had a couple of offers from her female friends.
I could see and understand sympathy from people, but it was like a competition between a few of those
trollops that was disgusting.

ps: I wore a ring between 1977 and 1979 and never again.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Would there be an advantage in the world of work for people (HR feminists) to think I’m married?

OH YES. No doubt about it. A ring on the 4th finger of your left hand says “now there;s a good little docile slave”. Don’t bother correcting them.

With women, it has the reverse effect. You would think it would be a deterrent but she can’t WAIT to be a home wrecker. Let her think you’re married.

One time, after sex, a woman I only met a couple of days prior asked me “so where’s your wife?”.

I said “WHAT?”

She said “You’re wearing a wedding band. Where’s your wife?”

I said “Oh that’s not a wedding ring. That’s my father’s ring and it’s the only finger it fits on. Wait,… you thought I was married and you had sex with me anyway? GET OUT.”

It’s the perfect out.

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Remember, women think they know EVERYTHING and men are all f~~~ing idiots They don’t even think they need to ask you anything and they have you all figured out. Milk that s~~~ for all it’s worth and use it to your advantage. They see a ring on the 4th finger of your left hand and think they have you pegged. I enjoy playing stupid for women. I let them think I’m blue pill. I let them think they are manipulating me. I let them think they know everything and are right all the time…. and then I pull the rug out from under them.

It’s her own fault for thinking we’re all idiots. Female hubris is the most glorious thing. Exploit that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Jan,

Great idea. This little maneuver may help your career.
I wouldn’t be surprised if wearing a ring would attract more attention from the ladies. I would have fun inventing stories about the factitious wife.
Example- my wife couldn’t attend- she was worn out from our four hour sexual adventure – I think she broke something.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Not joking, I’ve thought about getting a fake ring just to ward off females. I’ll call it a mgtow ring. Shouldn’t be hard because a man’s ring costs all of 3 bucks and a woman’s costs thousands. But, I’ve already developed a story for HR. Had a fiance, she died, and I have no desire to marry again because I’m “sooooooo emotionally crushed” and that’ll shut them the f~~~ up.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

But, I’ve already developed a story for HR. Had a fiance, she died, and I have no desire to marry again because I’m “sooooooo emotionally crushed” and that’ll shut them the f~~~ up

That won’t shut them up, you’ll so get laid by so many women with that line. They will come to your emotional rescue. Hope you got that vasectomy.

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