Need to help with proposal

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

After divorcing ex-1, I joined a singles group to hang out. The woman were a bunch of single mom’s who were divorced 1-4 times.

One of the regular events was a burn party where a woman who had finalized her divorce would burn all her photos of the divorced-raped ex.

I tell that story as prelude to this post.

A young coworker said he needed to take a day off to help a friend propose. When he got back I was curious why he needed to “help” a marriage proposal.

He looked at me like I was an idiot. Apparently marriage proposals are a big deal now. He needed to carry chairs and tables to the beach for the champagne and hors d’oeuvres for all the people witnessing the proposal. There was a professional photographer to capture the event.

All I could think was this was just another batch of photos for the inevitable burn party.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Lol. like Maternity Shoots. Much adieu about nothing.

All I can think is, this Burn Party concept is so psychologically unhealthy. I mean holy crap bro! Psychopathy at full gallop, immersed in resentment, brewing it, and receiving social validation and encouragement ? …. these women are unsalvageable, totally sick. They may as well be sacrificing animals and spilling rabbit blood into a bowl and painting pentagrams with it. sick

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Game Consoles last longer.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

I would love it for a woman to propose to me.

Then with a face full of disgust, walk away snorting derisively.

NO THANKS.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

FFS, the level of narcissism has reached a new low.
Both the Burn party and the requirement for an OTT and witnessed marriage proposal are excuses for them to say “look at me” and to entertain the Hive.

If I remember correctly, when I proposed to my slag of an ex-wife she was bouncing up and down on my c~~~. Not sure I’d want that witnessed.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

whats most disturbing is that there are so called Mental Health Professionals with degrees and the ability to prescribe drugs, that would encourage such obviously psychotic behavior as Burn Parties.

If men got together laughing and burned ex girlfriend’s, exwive’s stuff … we might get Committed for Evaluation. Seriously. But when women do it… its just, “oh, you go girl!” type backslapping…

[Gravel PitParticipant]

fvck the Hive!

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Blue Pill Men Spend Much Time, Energy, Effort, Mental Focus, and Cash on Living Out THEIR BLUE PILL FANTASIES……

Don’t you remember, “If only I DO THIS, or I DO THAT, or SHE’LL LOVE IT WHEN, AND THEN I’LL PLAN THIS, or BUY THAT, or TAKE HER HERE…….”

TRYING to keep then “Happy” is a fools errand that will only blow up in your face sooner or later

WHAT A COMPLETE WASTE….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Awakened wrote:

TRYING to keep then “Happy” is a fools errand that will only blow up in your face sooner or later
WHAT A COMPLETE WASTE….

Trying to keep a woman happy is like:

Trying to teach a panda how to play Beethoven’s 5th Concerto in E Minor

or

Attempting to win a Nascar race while driving a golf cart

or

Planning a space expedition to land on the moon with a helicopter

or

Getting a deaf person to give you an objective appraisal of Megadeth’s new album after giving them the CD to listen to

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

iMickey503 wrote:

Game Consoles last longer.

So true! I still have an Atari 2600 console and games that work.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

MoreSky wrote:

If I remember correctly, when I proposed to my slag of an ex-wife she was bouncing up and down on my c ock. Not sure I’d want that witnessed.

lol.

Oh the stupid things men say to women while having sex like I love you and will you marry me.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Sky-O wrote:

Trying to keep a woman happy is like….

Bro, you make it sound easier than it really is.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

MoreSky wrote:

FFS, the level of narcissism has reached a new low.
Both the Burn party and the requirement for an OTT and witnessed marriage proposal are excuses for them to say “look at me” and to entertain the Hive.

So true!

I was in the store yesterday and around a corner comes 2 guys withth is HOT looking Brunette in the middle. She looked at me and said,”I’m just drop dead gorgeous, aren’t I ??”

I just shook my head and kept walking amazed at the level of vanity/self absorption this young lady had. The 2 blue pill dudes were just there to reinforced her self-perception.

F*ck that!
What ever happened to women with character?

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

The level of character in a woman is inversely related to their physical attractiveness. It is a truth you have to face if you intend to hunt hot pussy.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

CPT Obvious wrote:

MoreSky wrote:

If I remember correctly, when I proposed to my slag of an ex-wife she was bouncing up and down on my c ock. Not sure I’d want that witnessed.

lol.
Oh the stupid things men say to women while having sex like I love you and will you marry me.

Spot on, unfortunately.
12 years later after having my wallet pulled out through my arse in divorce court after she cheated and was “not happy”, I had learned the lesson we all learned the hard way.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Daryll55 wrote:

just shook my head and kept walking amazed at the level of vanity/self absorption this young lady had. The 2 blue pill dudes were just there to reinforced her self-perception.

F*ck that!
What ever happened to women with character?

Character requires individuality but they are all brainwashed clones who believe they are special because feminism told them so.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

in my 50’s now, and I can feel the passage of time. Even if I live to be 100 years old, I’m still in the second half. I no longer have time to waste. It’s the most valuable thing anyone has, and I got none of it to spare. I guess it’s midlife crisis, or just midlife insight. Either way, I think I’d still rather be older and wiser with less time to waste, than younger and dumber wasting time and effort on things as ridiculous as making a giant scene on some marriage proposal party. At the end of my life, whenever it is, when I”m looking back on it, I wanna look back on things that make me feel satisfied to have accomplished.

Born a hundred years earlier, and given the option of a tradcon woman/marriage, I would likely have taken it, as my father and grandfathers did. And as an old man looking back on a tradcon marriage/family etc, I might have felt the same sense of satisfaction that (I believe) they felt.

But that was then and this is now, and those tradcon choices are not realistic options anymore. The life I’m having instead is easier than the lives of those poor saps still trying to live it (with dumb s~~~ like proposal parties) and it is WAY easier than the tradcon lives of my father and grandfather. I know that this easier life I’m having is a small part of the end of western civilization. But if in order to save it, I have to participate in crap like proposal parties celebrating the s~~~ show that marriage enslavement has become, well…

Maybe the next civilization will learn from our mistakes.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[GrumpyParticipant]

CPT Obvious wrote:

He looked at me like I was an idiot. Apparently marriage proposals are a big deal now. He needed to carry chairs and tables to the beach for the champagne and hors d’oeuvres for all the people witnessing the proposal. There was a professional photographer to capture the event.

Honestly
Assisting any man in setting up a “proposal” is metaphorically (for the time being) placing him against the wall in front of a firing squad. It’s only a matter of time before the triggers get pulled.
How could I call myself “his” friend by helping him place himself in such jeopardy?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Sky-O wrote:

Awakened wrote:

TRYING to keep then “Happy” is a fools errand that will only blow up in your face sooner or laterWHAT A COMPLETE WASTE….

Trying to keep a woman happy is like:
Trying to teach a panda how to play Beethoven’s 5th Concerto in E Minor
or
Attempting to win a Nascar race while driving a golf cart
or
Planning a space expedition to land on the moon with a helicopter
or
Getting a deaf person to give you an objective appraisal of Megadeth’s new album after giving them the CD to listen to

Getting a deaf person to give you an objective appraisal of Megadeth’s new album after giving them the CD to listen to

I’m going to make a poster from this. ITS THAT GOOD!

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

According to The Knot 2018 Real Weddings Study, the average cost of an engagement ring is currently $5,680. Tack on a few more thousand for the proposal party.

It seems that blue-pilled men have gotten more blue-pilled, if that is possible.

I don’t think I could help with a proposal. It’s like helping to pull the trigger on a loaded gun.

I would give the potential groom some business cards of divorce lawyers in my area.
I might also give him a box of condoms. The potential bride would probably hate you.

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