Need tactical advise or what to expect

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

The divorce hearing was 5 weeks ago; I’m expecting the divorce certificate in a matter of days. (last time I checked, the actual paperwork the magistrate printed after the hearing was in the judge’s office for signing)

Over a year ago, I let the ex f~~~ me as an experiment to test if she would potentially try to reverse monkey branch back to me, on her last trip to my house to pick up the rest of her stuff. (she stayed one night, then flew back out of state to the Chad she met online and left me for. Teary sex where she said she still “loved me” LOL — after years of saying she didn’t love me)

My teenage son lives with me and my pre-teen daughter lives out of state with her. I found out video chatting with her (something she volunteered out of the blue, I didn’t ask) that not only is my ex not working (I pretty much figured that already) but the Chad is also out of work now. (my daughter overheard me talking to Aidan about work being more stable since I’m not a contractor anymore)

Also of note: while that recent hurricane in Houston didn’t flood their house, other houses on the same street got flooded.

Thoughts?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 18]

You might have to support Chad alongside your wife.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Keep your Distance.
Document EVERYTHING.
Finalize the Divorce.
Let HER figure out HER S~~~ !!
Do NOT get Involved in HER Life !!
Get back your daughter if need be.
Otherwise, she made her own bed of s~~~, let her roll around in it

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Anonymous wrote:

You might have to support Chad alongside your wife.

The thing is, I was expecting things to be relatively stable, at least until her oldest son graduates high school and her child support from her first ex ends, which is in about 2 1/2 years.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Ranger One wrote:

The thing is, I was expecting things to be relatively stable, at least until her oldest son graduates high school and her child support from her first ex ends, which is in about 2 1/2 years

Consult YOUR ATTORNEY This Morning.
Why play guessing games ?
See what you could POTENTIALLY be on the line for, and plan accordingly with your legal representation.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

Keep your Distance.
Document EVERYTHING.
Finalize the Divorce.
Let HER figure out HER S~~~ !!
Do NOT get Involved in HER Life !!
Get back your daughter if need be.
Otherwise, she made her own bed of s~~~, let her roll around in it

Oh, I intend to keep my distance. I do limit contact to brief, business-like conversations when contact is necessary.

She is weirdly more friendly acting then my first ex was, although that may be the first ex was more grumpy because I left HER, and not the other way around.

While I figure it is easier to act friendly if you are the one doing the dumping, and the person who got dumped tends to be more bitter, I know with women that is not always the case, because they can still be nasty acting post-divorce even if they cheated and left.

The thing is, I’m not emotionally vulnerable anymore. I wouldn’t go as far to say that I’ve evolved over the past 18 months into a sociopath, but my emotions are definitely muted. I feel nothing for her, about as much as a Terminator feels.

I’m more interested in what may happen in the near future, and what risks there are to me, or potential opportunities. One reason why I did the reverse monkey branching experiment over a year ago was to make her think there was a chance I’d take her back, even though there is ZERO chance, simply to get my daughter 1,500 miles closer.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

The thing is, I was expecting things to be relatively stable, at least until her oldest son graduates high school and her child support from her first ex ends, which is in about 2 1/2 years

Consult YOUR ATTORNEY This Morning.
Why play guessing games ?
See what you could POTENTIALLY be on the line for, and plan accordingly with your legal representation.

We shared one attorney/mediator, to come up with a mediated and uncontested divorce.

The actual gold-embossed divorce certificate SHOULD arrive in the mail literally any day. Possibly today.

Being legally divorced will limit her options. (e.g. she would have no claim on my house)

If she left her Chad and came back to my state under the false assumption she could move back in, I’d simply say no, go stay with your sister (who is only about 20 miles away).

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Ranger One wrote:

Over a year ago, I let the ex f~~~ me as an experiment to test if she would potentially try to reverse monkey branch back to me, on her last trip to my house to pick up the rest of her stuff. (she stayed one night,

@Ranger One, that’s a Dangerous ‘experiment’, you know better than that.

Have another meeting with your legal eagles ASAP, she will be swinging back to you soon. In her mind, THAT ONE TRYST has only encouraged her to ‘keep you in mind’.

BEST OF LUCK BROTHER.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Anonymous 42]

That’s what you get for marrying a single mother, you’re just a taxpayer in her own little community of multi daddy children, they’ll never change, she’s likely looking for the safest branch on the nearest walking wallet money-tree she can leap to.

I should know, there’s a pile of dead hypergamonkeys all around my healthy living tree! \

Another thing, they’re so narcissistic they feel they’re entitled to a branch when they leap!

Splat there goes another hypergamonkey,

splat there goes another hypergamonkey,

Splat they go at the base of my tree!

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Splat indeed. My patience for this came to an end some time ago. Ex’s are ex’s for a reason. Probably a damn good one too.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Bigvern wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

Over a year ago, I let the ex f~~~ me as an experiment to test if she would potentially try to reverse monkey branch back to me, on her last trip to my house to pick up the rest of her stuff. (she stayed one night,

@Ranger One, that’s a Dangerous ‘experiment’, you know better than that.

Have another meeting with your legal eagles ASAP, she will be swinging back to you soon. In her mind, THAT ONE TRYST has only encouraged her to ‘keep you in mind’.

BEST OF LUCK BROTHER.

Oh, I wanted her to keep me in mind. And move back in-state with my daughter.

Within 1-7 days, I should have the actual certificate of divorce, and she has no claim on the house (quit deed claim). She has no standing to try to move in, nor any emotional pull on me.

I suspect, she’d try to move in with her sister or mother, since that is what she’s done in the past.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Ranger One wrote:

The actual gold-embossed divorce certificate SHOULD arrive in the mail literally any day. Possibly today

I wouldn’t Worry about ANYTHING, and laugh my ass off as I enjoyed a Wonderful steak dinner, and rest in the comfort of Karma’s Backlash !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Ranger One wrote:

I suspect, she’d try to move in with her sister or mother, since that is what she’s done in the past.

No F~~~s Given about where she’ll be sleeping, or whose c~~~ she’ll be sucking next.

NOT YOUR PROBLEM ANYMORE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[HermitParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

The actual gold-embossed divorce certificate SHOULD arrive in the mail literally any day. Possibly today.

I’m genuinely excited for you. When I got my signed divorce decree, I framed it and hung it on the wall in the living room in my brand new house, where it still hangs and I look at it with joy every day.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Hermit wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

The actual gold-embossed divorce certificate SHOULD arrive in the mail literally any day. Possibly today.

I’m genuinely excited for you. When I got my signed divorce decree, I framed it and hung it on the wall in the living room in my brand new house, where it still hangs and I look at it with joy every day.

When I get it, I’m going to get out the marriage certificate, and put cardboard in between the two of them, then put a frame around it, and make it into a mobile-like dreamcatcher with twine, beads, arrowhead, feathers, etc, and have it overhead above my bed.

Then when I’m on top the gf popping a nut in her, she can look up and see the marriage/divorce dreamcatcher spinning around and realize I’m not going to every marry anyone again, including her.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 12]

Then when I’m on top the gf popping a nut in her, she can look up and see the marriage/divorce dreamcatcher spinning around and realize I’m not going to every marry anyone again, including her.

bot bad man, not bad.

this paper will be your free out of jail card, keep it in a place where no harm can come to it.
Make an officially approved copy or two with a stamp and all that.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I would think that you are fine. She’s already signed the divorce decree and it’s in the judge’s hands. The judge has probably already signed it.

I got mine two years ago this month. It was truly one of the best days of my life. I felt 20 pounds lighter when I had that piece of paper in my hands.

First MoreSky, then you. It’s turning out be a pretty damn good MGTOW week brothers!

Order the good wine

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22516]

Stop playing with fire.

You are literally inches away from total freedom. Dont voluntarily f~~~ it up.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 8]

Ranger One wrote:

I’m expecting the divorce certificate in a matter of days. Thoughts?

Ranger One wrote:

The actual gold-embossed divorce certificate SHOULD arrive in the mail literally any day. Possibly today.

Ranger One wrote:

When I get it, I’m going to get out the marriage certificate, and put cardboard in between the two of them, then put a frame around it, and make it into a mobile-like dreamcatcher with twine, beads, arrowhead, feathers, etc, and have it overhead above my bed.

I think you should frame it in Ornate Gold, if something is worth doing, it’s worth doing right.

Something classy like one of these:

I would even go so far as creating social media accounts just to post pictures of the certificate and it’s ornate housing. Maybe even hire a professional photographer, go all out.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

What am I missing? If the divorce is final and everything is set in stone, then what concern is it of yours that this bitch is out of work or that her house may/may not flood.

NFG

You are rid of this cheating whore. Don’t speak to her about anything unless it involves kids and preferably by email. Don’t video with her. Let her wallow in her own filth.

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