Need some more Support and Advice……

[AwakenedOneParticipant 58]

Hey Brothers,
Been a very rough couple of days. Finally slept last night. I was awake for two days. Had to drive to the big city and meet a director, etc after being awake that long. As I pulled into the production office I got a text from my 15 year old son who was on vacation with my ex. He wrote “Go get em Pa!” He’s such a good kid. That text erased all my fatigue and I went in and crushed it. Going back Monday to read for a bigger role. I’m marching forward and being an oak for my boy, BUT I’m suffering. Head racing, anxious. My last post explains my newest ex experience. I want some advice on how to move forward now. We have joint custody. She is a professional and was making more than me so I have no support payments, etc. My son wants to stay with me about 60% or more of the time and would never allow her to stop that. He is a tough SOB, literally! I’m closing down my facebook page and just leaving a professional one. What else can I do to move forward and not fall into her traps? She wants to be “friends” and all that bulls~~~. She has cheated on me, lied, all sorts of mean s~~~. I don’t want to be her friend, but part of me is still attached and suffering. I let myself be abused emotionally. I totally accept that and must be still caught in that cycle. I had no perspective. MGTOW wasn’t in my universe. Help.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

AwakenedOne wrote:

Hey Brothers,
Been a very rough couple of days. Finally slept last night. I was awake for two days. Had to drive to the big city and meet a director, etc after being awake that long. As I pulled into the production office I got a text from my 15 year old son who was on vacation with my ex. He wrote “Go get em Pa!” He’s such a good kid. That text erased all my fatigue and I went in and crushed it. Going back Monday to read for a bigger role. I’m marching forward and being an oak for my boy, BUT I’m suffering. Head racing, anxious. My last post explains my newest ex experience. I want some advice on how to move forward now. We have joint custody. She is a professional and was making more than me so I have no support payments, etc. My son wants to stay with me about 60% or more of the time and would never allow her to stop that. He is a tough SOB, literally! I’m closing down my facebook page and just leaving a professional one. What else can I do to move forward and not fall into her traps? She wants to be “friends” and all that bulls~~~. She has cheated on me, lied, all sorts of mean s~~~. I don’t want to be her friend, but part of me is still attached and suffering. I let myself be abused emotionally. I totally accept that and must be still caught in that cycle. I had no perspective. MGTOW wasn’t in my universe. Help.

You have what they call in the boondocks “common bitch dependence” is a syndrome that attacks men and attempts to enslave them by creating indirect situations. Closing your FB is a good idea, keep your distance from her and it might sound repetitive positive thinking bs, but get into some healthy habits man, explore prayer, explore meditation, explore tai chi or YOGA, walk in the park on your off time, sit at the mall like a macho with your legs and arms stretched as you look upon the manginas that have to walk a thin line of ice and the bitches who now days show all the tit and ass you would like to see.

Keep an eye on ye bitches and make sure to keep those whores in line LOL. Just trying to cheer you up man.

[AwakenedOneParticipant 58]

Ha! From my deepest despair you f~~~ers can still make me laugh out loud! Thanks, I need to hear this s~~~. Needed to hear it 14 years ago!!!!!!!

[bladeParticipant]

Mel gibson he has some good tips

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[It’sallbsParticipant]

I have some very good advice for you AWALT -go monk.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 43]

have 15 year old tell the judge he wants to live with you full time.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

AwakenedOne wrote:

Ha! From my deepest despair you f~~~ers can still make me laugh out loud! Thanks, I need to hear this s~~~. Needed to hear it 14 years ago!!!!!!!

A good man and hes worth is not measured by how fat hes wallet is, but on how big those brass b~~~~ are, so stay classy my friend, work on yourself since it seems to me that you need that, you came here asking for help but help starts with YOURSELF doing things for YOU, plan ahead and start living life, Don’t be another chad jumping off from some rusty old skyscraper…

A single man today is worth more than a woman, you may ask, how can i come to this conclusion?, well if you know about economics too much of anything becomes cheap, there are more women out there than men, so the price of freshly vagina is in an all time low, in china they have a woman drought, in the west a man drought, i guess you know where you need to get yours.

Just stay safe, stay out of trouble and be responsible. Don’t let these whores lure you in and bind you into trouble, GO MONK if you can take it, if not think about traveling outside the west into countries where there is no rape culture, i don’t know? the Bahamas? Brazil? Dominican Republic? your find is your choice. GOOD LUCK.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Don’t get Oneitis. She wasn’t the one, the next one won’t be the one, and the one fifty from now won’t be the one. I didn’t catch your age, but since you were married 14 years I’ll just extrapolate that all available women in your window aren’t worth marrying or they would be married already.

As a last thought, your ex is now a single mother which anybody here can tell you is a no go. She chose that status when she cheated. She’s the chocolate cake that you know could be delicious, but you also know that it was baked with rat poison. She wasted her chance at having you, now make you even better.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 54]

My ex pretended to be my freind to get things from me.

Dont get played for the fool like I did.

A woman is never your “freind”.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Being a “friend” with her means keeping it amicable for the sake of YOUR son.

Anything and Everything else she offers you have to assume is a lie or trap.

Keep your “friendship solely focused on the things that directly involve your son.

Don’t ask, inquire about ANYTHING else !!

It’s not IF, but when the day comes that she wants to come cry on your shoulder about her new Man, kindly tell her in a very serious tone that you don’t feel comfortable talking about that, and she should seek out a professional councilor. Then quickly bring up whatever about your son, and laugh your f~~~in ass off on the inside.

Also, try your best to hold back your s~~~ eatin grin and laughter !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Set some boundaries with her! And keep them. Be friendly for the sake of your son, but be clear she is no friend.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

AwakenedOne wrote:

I let myself be abused emotionally. I totally accept that and must be still caught in that cycle. I had no perspective. MGTOW wasn’t in my universe. Help.

Don’t let all the negative s~~~ get to you. The past is the past so let it be. You have a good kid so focus your time and energy on raising him and try to get back on your feet from this damage one step at a time. You need to harden yourself against the manipulation of women and not fall for their s~~~ again.

Right now you need to relax and have some peace of mind so I suggest going out for walks, travelling, exercising, etc., anything to distance yourself from tuna and their toxicity.

Once you’re in a balanced state of mind ask yourself this: what good is it still being with her and what did I ever get out of it? Because it sounds to me she is an ungrateful c~~~ who looks down on you and won’t show an inch of respect or love towards your feelings for her.

Move on and realize they’re all the same. From one c~~~ to another is like examining a beehive; they all function in the same way. There’s nothing unique or special about them.

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[AttonParticipant]

Minimal contact that is it.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

If she were your friend, don’t you think you’d still be together with her? It’s not in the cards and it doesn’t make sense no matter how you look at it. Keep it on a business basis if you need to deal with her at all. You escaped without child support–that’s a strong strategic advantage. Don’t squander it. The two of two owe each other NOTHING. Your only collective obligation is to your child.

[Anonymous 1]

I’ll restate the above.

Keep boundaries. She is not your friend.

Keep contact to the minimum required to close off your finances, then ensure your son grows up with two loving parents.

[Anonymous 0]

Try to condition yourself to think of her not as your ex but as the mother of someone you love.

The technique I use with my ex sister in law is to remember that while she is an evil bitch who went full c~~~ my brother, she is the mother of my nephews.

If you had a best friend who’s mother or wife was a complete c~~~ you would always be civil for his sake and for the sake of your relationship with him but would not entertain the idea of having any kind of personal relationship with said c~~~.

[narwhalParticipant]

My ex asked me once why we couldn’t be friends. I told it was because we are divorced, it’s a naturally antagonistic relationship.

Your ex cheated on you, resulting in divorce. Being friends is way more than your ex has the right to ask for or ex. It’s not about forgiveness or anything like that, it’s simply the nature of the relationship that he chose to create between the two of you.

Even after it is no longer and emotional/personal issue with you, the answer is still no. She does not deserve the satisfaction, guilt relief, or whatever it is she wants from you. You have the right to move on with your life.

For your son’s sake you can learn to emotionally neutral with her, and it be wise for you to try and reach that point. You aren’t doing anyone any favors, particularly yourself, if you try and have emotions, positive or negative, for this woman ever again.

Ok. Then do it.

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