Need Some Advice From The Manosphere

[TheLurkerParticipant 269]

Hello. I am a 14 year old mgtow who is going to go his own way. However, I need some advice from the manosphere. I am currently being told that I need a girlfriend by my parents. I am also literally being forcefully taught how to be a gentleman by my poor father, and I hate every second of it. Even my own friends are trying to convince me that a need a girlfriend, even though I made it clear that I don’t want one. Unsurprisingly, they think i’m crazy for not wanting one. I’ve even lost some friends because of it. Even some of the girls won’t leave me alone. I’ve been sexually harassed by a girl multiple times, but the principal will do nothing about it. And on top of being sexually harassed, I was also s~~~-tested. This happened when it was time to put books away in my language-arts class. The table I sit at consists of females, and I am the only boy that sits there. Here’s exactly what happened:

Teacher: “Time to put your books away!”

Girl 1: “Put all of our books away.” (Wow, how courteous of you. Demanding that someone do something for you without a little bit of appreciation. Not my concern, bitch.)

Me: “Why me?”

Girl 1: “Because your the man.” (I have a pussy, so do all the work while I do nothing. Typical sexually frustrated entitled bitch. It must be so hard realising that your unrealistic fantasies don’t exist.)

Me: “What does that have to do with anything?”

Girl 1: “If you don’t do it your not a real man.” (Translation: Your not being a white-knight and treating me like i’m better than your sorry ass, so i’m going to attempt to shame you back into my control and manipulation.)

Me: “Actually, I don’t really give a s~~~ if you think i’m not a ‘real man’. I define my own manhood, not you Ms.Entitled. I don’t have to do a damn thing for you. Now YOU put OUR books away.”

Girl 2: “Haha, looks like someone will never get laid!” (Nice use of shaming language. Unfortunately, some of us don’t really give a s~~~. ‘Cause we all already know that you can’t prove anything, so you resort to childish shaming language.)

Me: “And it also looks like someone will never have to worry about H.I.V! And besides, my hand can do a way better job at pleasing me and making a sandwich than you ever could!”

Her expression was priceless! LOL! And curiously enough, the other boys around our table were dead silent. But anyway, our misandy isn’t just out in the real world. It is also festering around young teen boys. Pity the other boys, they are still in the matrix and don’t know the true nature of girls. Some metrosexual boys were even wearing a feminist shirt! And a lot of young gold-diggers were following him. I called him out, and I was called … a rapist! Shaming tactics… gotta love ’em. All of the boys in my school are white-knights, and I feel alone, as if i’m the only conscious boy in my entire school. It’s a really painful feeling, but deep down in my little teenage mind, I know that it isn’t gonna end well for the poor schmucks. My friends are what I would call an indigo-pill (A color mostly consisting of blue and a small trace of red.) which I have thought up of myself. Anyways, please tell me if it is worth my time to explain to my friends about mgtow and the injustices of society and laws against men. I would also like to know how to cope with my poor father teaching me how to be a gentleman. Everyday I see how weary and tired my father is from putting up with my mom, and it really gets to me.
Thanks for stopping by and reading, it means a lot to me.

-TheDarkLurker

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Me: “Why me?”

Girl 1: “Because your the man.”

What a bunch of crap. “Because you’re the man”. Just turn around and tell her you should be telling HER what to do “because you’re the man!!!”. See how much she likes that. What a bitch. Don’t fall for that.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Girl 1: “If you don’t do it your not a real man.”

RESPONSE: “what would you know about being a MAN? What would you even know about being HUMAN.”

Then smile. She won’t know what to say. DO NOT let her sucker you into her frame. Tell her a “real man” doesn’t do whatever a woman wants. EVER. She pulled the oldest most pathetic trick in the book.

@TheDarkLurker Did you see the 14 year-old genius on our homepage? He happily announces he doesn’t want a girlfriend either. Besides you’re a MINOR. Nobody should be talking to you about “getting laid” anyway. Here is his story. Even his mother tries to shame him and makes a disgusted face when he says he’s not interested. HE HAS BIGGER DREAMS than “getting laid”.

If a girl ever pulls s~~~ like that on you again, you show her who’s boss.

Girl 2: “Haha, looks like someone will never get laid!”

YOU: “Getting laid??? GETTING LAID?? Is that some kind of mark of success for you? Stupid whore. Aim higher. And don’t forget to put the seat down when you’re done”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheLurkerParticipant 269]

@keymaster Wow! Another fourteen year old MGTOW? My day is already better! He is so smart, that he can see though the bulls~~~ of relationships. Now that’s not something you see everyday.

I also saw the expression of his mom’s face when she was mentioning the fact that he couldn’t care less about what he wears, or girls. I was stunned at how she could just… do that. Her son is a computer programmer, a 16 year old college graduate, and a freakin’ genius. But yet, she still pulls bulls~~~ on him. Sadly, this is the nature of women. If you achieved something really great, or did the impossible, none of those things matter to them. If you don’t worship them like queens, then you are down to earth scum to them. And if you notice the body language and tone in both of the parents, the father is the only parent that seems to be happy for him. “If I had that drive in college, that would have been fabulous. Because i’m learning so much from my child now, that pretty wonderful.” -Santiago Gonzalez’s Dad.

And as for the incident where she tried to get me to white-knight for her, I actually lost all of my friends, but who cares? I would rather do the right thing than have friends for being a mindless drone. And a true friend doesn’t stop being your friend, even if you do something that they don’t see as a good thing. I get bullied quite often too for standing up for myself when it comes to female bitchiness. I’m also quite decent looking, and attractive looking. But if they know that I have no money, then they want nothing to do with me. I actually did an experiment where I told girls that I had a several thousand dollars, which is quite unrealistic for a kid like me. I kid you not, they wouldn’t leave me alone. No matter how many times I told them to go f~~~ themselves, they kept asking me out. Now what does that say about women, feminists? The most attractive boy (not the good kind of attractive, the feminine kind) in my entire school is a feminist. And what does he get in return? A f~~~in’ fat feminist dike for a girlfriend. All of the other girls that follow him around in the hallways call him their “best friend”.

When I was 12 years old, I was a white-knight. But as I started to see the true nature of women, I had a startling awakening call. I became a purple-piller, or a PUA when I became a teenager. I thought that something was wrong, as if any interaction would still land you in a bad place. I searched frantically, and I almost gave up. And eventually, I found mgtow right before my birthday. I swallowed the red pill. On my birthday, I had the best birthday present ever, and it was the great feeling of not giving a crap about women (girls) or what they think. I was a lurker on these formus for several monts, but I have finally mustered the courage to make a account and tell my story.

@keymaster
@Total Lee
Thanks for helping me out, you guys are like fathers to me.

[Wandering MGTOWParticipant 34]

A snappy comeback, why can’t I ever think of a snappy comeback?

I’ve been in this situation many times, both with female and male opponents.

“No thank you.” Is a complete sentence in the English language. Usually, almost always, they will persist. They think of good manners as weakness, and they pounce. Well, it was worth a try.

“I told you to kiss my ass!“ Is also a complete sentence in English.

By the way, I recommend getting into some martial art. White Knights, and all other variety of bullies, have a built in sense that warns them when they will lose a physical confrontation. They will bluster, but the fact that you are unafraid will keep them from escalating beyond bravado.

[MGTOW209Participant 7]

First, I have to admit I am jealous that someone so young could be so well versed and well thought out, wish I was at that age.
Secondly, I think you are experiencing other people projecting their own perceptions of what a ‘man’ is onto you. They probably have many deficiencies in their own affairs if they’re feeling the need to tell you what to do, especially if you’re a happy, well adjusted person. I never had any interest in relationships at that age and allowed myself to be pressured into them in later life, with awful consequences. I would say you’re pretty far ahead of the curve and would recommend you continue on the path you’re on and avoid blue pill takers who cause you more harm than good. Best of luck.

[IvanenParticipant 6]

Young Sir, it seems like you already have a good handle on what you need to do, and how to handle yourself. You presence on this site should serve to give you the experience you need, and you have a good head start on most others. As for dealing with your parents and other family members, just stick to your guns (politely). Being 14, you are still subject to your parent’s wishes (to a point). The “Gentlemen” lessons may be tough to deal with, but could become useful if you decide to get involved in “Steampunk”.

Anyway, just do what you feel is right; be honest and true to yourself and don’t worry about losing friends…

Being honest may not get you many friends, but it will get you the right ones.

Esse Quam Videri

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A snappy comeback, why can’t I ever think of a snappy comeback?

Here is the BEST comeback when you don’t know what to say or can’t think fast enough:

“that’s interesting, why would you say that?”

or

“that’s interesting, why would you do something like that?”

Practice having it ready. When someone says sonething you really don’t like, be ready to say it. And make it sound like you are genuinely CURIOUS to know. “that’s interesting. Why would you say that?”

1. It buys you time to come up with another reply and how to best handle it while THEY do the talking.

2. You will find MOST people start backpedaling right there. Especially women who are complete s~~~ at confrontation.
“Um … well… ug… i don’t…..” … at which you get to point and laugh or start giving them s~~~.

3. It raises you ABOVE them. It communicates that you may be well aware of why they said it, but you are now playing with them and forcing them to explain it.

4. It’s not a job or a cheap insult, you are simply holding a mirror up to them. It’s “classy” and can be used anywhere in any situation. Even in below the belt arguments.

There are more, but you get the idea. You are forcing them to do the thinking and explaining sainted of you. hey have to “certify” their own statemeht or argument in order for you to engage. Feminists and hypocrites are never expecting this move. Remember, integrity is the OPPOSITE of hypocrisy. Only bigots and tyrants are afraid of having the truth expressed to them. Those who hold integrity as a virtue expect hypocrites to account for their discrepancies or alter their beliefs.

“That’s interesting, why would you say that?”
“That’s interesting. Tell me more!”
“That’s interesting. Why would you ask that?”
“That’s interesting. Why would you do that?”

Use it! It’s magic. Those 4 things and you can respond to ANYTHING. Inappropriate questions. Personal questions. Rudeness. Personal Attacks. You name it. It will serve you well and get you out of so may different pickles. You will be amazed by what is reflected back to you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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