Need help resigning from an interest group

[DutchieParticipant 119]

Hey guys. I am a member of a certain interest group in Holland which has nothing to do with mgtow btw. I want to resign but the problem is that because I am a vital member and most of my fellow members are women I may well be bombarded with ten billion logic-devoid or (man)shaming questions which is something I want to avoid. So I am looking for a few pointers on what things I can and things I better not say in my communication regarding my resignation.

The reason I am resigning is because the interest group is just a paper tiger, meaning it seems like we are a big threat but we are not, not surprising when 3/4 of my fellow members are women who show no leadership skills or any useful skill in advantaging our cause whatsoever and I don’t feel like toiling any further and have the wimminz yap about bulls~~~ and acting surprised that we are not making any steps forward.

Any tips? Would be greatly appreciated, brothers!

If you don't understand my post at first, no worries, it's probably my English. 😉

[Anonymous 42]

Make a nice letter of resignation, state your reasons, close the meeting. Make no further mention of it,,, move on.
You’ll be forgotten within weeks.
Sounds like you realize you’ve been wasting some time.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You’ll need a reason. A believable one or they will try to change your mind.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Hey Dutchie, first off, congrats on getting your priorities in line; whatever gives you the best benefit for your time/energy is where you should focus. Other stuff – f~~~ it.

And i think @jan.Sobieski is right – they’ll probably try to change your mind regardless, so you should be prepared for that. Anytime you set & enforce boundaries & priorities, people will push them (after all, if they’re getting free labor from you, why not?). Not a problem though – you’re doing this so you can focus your time on things more important to you. When people ask why, you can truthfully tell them that “…other things have become more important, and I know I won’t be able to give this organization the attention it deserves.”

If i were in your position i’d write/say the following:

“To all members of X,

After careful reflection, i have determined that i can no longer fulfill the role of ABC for the organization. My resignation is effective on January 20th, 2016.

I appreciate the support of all the staff/members of the organization, and i know you will all go on to do great work in my absence.

Sincerely,

Dutche”

That’s it. For things like this, the shorter, the better – you’re basically saying “this is my decision. Full stop.”

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Use something they can’t argue with. You have a family situation that prevents you from dedicating the time and energy needed to effectively act as whatever you do in that group. It’s personal so nobody can question you and even if they do, you’re not obligated to answer. Just say it’s personal.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Dutchie wrote:

I may well be bombarded with ten billion logic-devoid or (man)shaming questions which is something I want to avoid.

1. Turn off your phone
2. Don’t reply to their questions.

It’s that simple.

You say, “i quit” and walk out. Heck why even bother? how about you just stop participating period?
One of them calls you up, you say, “i’m busy; bye” and hangup; can always block their phone number too.
Say for some odd reason they show up on your door step… you say, “i’m busy; bye” and slam the door in their face.

It’s that simple!
Or you can take it to the next level! and say that magical word!
“No”

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I agree with @нσтησσв. Make it a clean break. No discussion. No justifications. No making a point.

Dear [Group Leaders};

I resign as of this date.

Sincerely yours,
@dutchie

A clean break may bleed a lot at first, but there will be no bruising, no pus. It will heal quickly.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[experiencedParticipant]

Brevity.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[DutchieParticipant 119]

Thanks guys you’ve all been very helpful and I will be sending the resignation mail later this week.

Thanks once again bro’s 🙂

If you don't understand my post at first, no worries, it's probably my English. 😉

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Yup, clean break.

I quit.

You dont have to argue, present justifications, whatever.
Talking with women will just make you lose time and effort.

Just ignore your phone and email for a couple of weeks.
You will be forgotten, like when a toaster breaks down.
You are just an utilitie to women, remember that.

If somebody chases you at your house, just pretend you are not there.
Dont talk, dont engage them, give them the wall of silence.

[martygParticipant 103]

Why explain anything? What do you owe them, I mean really.

Resignation Letter:

I [state your name] resign as [fill in position] effective [date: now].

Signed.

Say NOTHING. Leave. Do not stop, physical restraint will result in an assault arrest.

[DutchieParticipant 119]

Sent the letter. Didn’t explain my motives. The one girl who I expected to nag me, fulfilled my expectations and now I am ignoring her to hell. Goes to show how important I was to them. 😉

Once again thanks guys, your help has made this so much easier

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