Need advice on living better alone and with no friends

[metroid34Participant 135]

Sup guys,
I’m new to MGTOW, I’m 35 yrs single I live in Florida. My life is at a stand still, I have no luck in relationships, I always attract the the gold digging, chicks with no goals in life and the ones that are attention seekers on social media. Plus the women where I live only loves the thugs and wanna be pretty boys. Me Im different because I dont drink and dont be in the streets and clubs. Also im into skateboarding and astronomy and particle physics and read alot of ancient books, Women dont like a guy like me because of the things that im into for hobbies and im not a thug either. On top of that I cant even find good friends to hangout with because most of my friends are married or out to use me thats the only time i hear from people is when they want something other than that my phone never rings and i’m never invited anywhere, and i fight with depression as well. I pretty given up on finding love because love dont exist and the bulls~~~ story “wait for the right one to come” is the worst lie to tell me. I’m done with trying to make friends as well people are judgemental and think they are better than people and look down on people thats not living like they are. Lately I just go with the flow and stick to myself everyday. Are there any advice on developing a better life by myself? and are theyre any advice on becoming happier and living better life single ? and is it a good idea to get off of social media to stop seeing attention seekers, fake friends and happy fake couples? Thanks anything would help and hope to meet new friends from this MGTOW group

[Anonymous 7]

Howdy.

metroid34 wrote:

and is it a good idea to get off of social media to stop seeing attention seekers, fake friends and happy fake couples?

Up to you but I suspect it adds nothing of value to your life.

metroid34 wrote:

I pretty given up on finding love because love dont exist and the bulls~~~ story “wait for the right one to come” is the worst lie to tell me.

If you can get a dog. You will then know true love and loyalty.

[joetechParticipant]

Make new friends. Change where you hang out and you may change the company you keep. Welcome to the forum.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

WOW..brothers…there are so many new members joining today!

BTW, welcome metroid34! Beers are in the cooler!

EDIT

metroid34 wrote:

Me Im different because I dont drink and dont be in the streets and clubs.

I also don’t drink, help yourself to a nice bottle of Coke!

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

metroid34 wrote:

Also im into skateboarding and astronomy and particle physics and read alot of ancient books

You just listed four hobbies. Now just get a little creative. Have you thought of taking some college courses? You just listed three of the four hobbies that are taught at a university. You don’t have to be going for a degree, just going to learn. Maybe a community college?

Try making a youtube video about skateboarding. Get some guys to let you video their moves and interview them. Maybe you’ll make some friends that way. At least you’ll be hanging out with people with similar interests.

And welcome to the forums.

Order the good wine

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

metroid34 wrote:

Also im into skateboarding and astronomy and particle physics and read alot of ancient books, Women dont like a guy like me because of the things that im into for hobbies and im not a thug either.

You will notice A LOT of brothers on this site are heavily into awesome hobbies they are truly passionate about.

Brother Sparky: /profile/20826/
He is into astronomy, as far as I am aware.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[RegenerationSpectator 88]

Welcome to the site (I am also new).

I’m not big on drinking but I do enjoy smoking weed.

What have you been reading? I think the dog suggestion is a great idea but other than that I think you already found the answer- studying ancient philosophy (or more recent philosophy- but I think ancient philosophy is great because you get a view from outside the prejudices of the modern era). I would assume that others probably don’t appreciate your interest in philosophy but I think that’s because they’re idiots and also because they don’t want you to be smarter than them. They themselves “don’t have time to read” (although they spend hours in front of glowing screens) and so they don’t want you to do what they feel guilty about not doing.

I think the solution is to take your interest in philosophy more seriously. Challenge yourself to really master some material- whether it’s a specific philosopher or whether it’s a topic within philosophy, I think really challenge yourself and push yourself further in the right direction where you already know you should be headed. Would you rather be deep in philosophy, lost in communion with the divine- or with some inane woman who doesn’t care about anything that’s not material? You see how dumb those people on Facebook are. You are among the fortunate ones.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome

Regeneration wrote:

I think the solution is to take your interest in philosophy more seriously.

Do what you love with a passion and it won’t be long before you’re irritated that someone interrupted your alone time.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Regeneration wrote:

I think the solution is to take your interest in philosophy more seriously.

There are many fans of the Stoics on this site. I’m not quite there. I don’t want to sit there and contemplate my daughter dying just so it won’t hurt quite as bad if she does. But I understand certain parts of it. I do think you can try to find happiness in any environment, well almost any environment. That’s why there’s a philosophy section on the website.

Order the good wine

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome. You didn’t have bad luck… or all us did? They all gold diggers.

F~~~ friends don’t need them.

Enjoy your s~~~, hobbies, the good life.

Beer on the fridge, help yourself, welcome to sanctuary.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Felt like I was reading my own Bio there for a moment, in some parts at least. Goldiggers? Check! Fair weather friends who use your skills then ignore you? Check! Not being a Thug? Check! Where we differ is that I’m not lonely. I just live alone. I have all the Banter and Drama at work to amuse me then come home to Peace and Freedom. I also like to drink.

What’s meant to be will be. Even for you. You found this place for a reason. Hopefully this will become clear in time. Some members, (myself included), are happy to socialise with like minded Men. Perhaps there is someone in your area?

Join the next Zoom session and see how you get on.

It could be a whole new world opening up for you.

If you let it.

It's Time to get Wise

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

If you can get a dog. You will then know true love and loyalty.

I second that! A dog is a wonderful companion and will take up as much as your time as you are willing to afford it. Other than that, I can’t offer you much more advice. For me, just surviving pretty much keeps my days full. I really don’t have time for friends even if I thought that I needed any…

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

From Miami Florida to Miami Arizona we’re all after the same thing. I came here to chew bubble gum and avoid women and I’m all outta Bubblegum.

Welcome. You’ll learn how to find friends here

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[RegenerationSpectator 88]

FrostByte wrote:

Welcome

Regeneration wrote:

I think the solution is to take your interest in philosophy more seriously.

Do what you love with a passion and it won’t be long before you’re irritated that someone interrupted your alone time.

Exactly. I remember sitting outside in nice, hot Texas weather reading a book I was absolutely mesmerized by. And I remember how I almost turned violent when some idiot tried to confront (in a hostile way) me while I was reading that beautiful book. I can still remember how angry I felt.

I do think there is some transcendental, evil force in the universe. And that there’s a good force too. But I think this cosmic, evil force really wants us to stay stupid and wish to antagonize us the moment we attempt to expand our minds. Or you could take it as merely a collective lower desire within base humanity to disrupt the people who are seriously trying to think.

In any case, it amazes me how thinking is so dangerous and how merely thinking can make you a target for other people- and the lengths to which I have to go merely to study in peace.

[RegenerationSpectator 88]

TaxGuy wrote:

Regeneration wrote:

I think the solution is to take your interest in philosophy more seriously.

There are many fans of the Stoics on this site. I’m not quite there. I don’t want to sit there and contemplate my daughter dying just so it won’t hurt quite as bad if she does. But I understand certain parts of it. I do think you can try to find happiness in any environment, well almost any environment. That’s why there’s a philosophy section on the website.

I just think this shows that the MGTOW are right. You go on Facebook or pretty much anywhere else on the internet (at least that I’m aware of)- and the crowd is actively anti-philosophical. You come here and philosophy is the most normal thing in the world. But what is MGTOW? MGTOW is a philosophical “movement” (non-movement or anti-movement to be more accurrate). I love MGTOW and that it exists. It’s liberation. And real liberation- no BS Marxist or SJW utopia.

I actually used to picture myself being brutally murdered so that I would be less scared of being brutally murdered. I fill my head with images and things that would scare people and I do this so that they don’t bother me and to train myself that these things don’t move me. I think it works but it’s not for everyone. I think it’s based on a person’s personality whether they’re drawn to that sort of approach. I invited some friends over and we had pizza and a movie and one friend complained because we were watching scenes of torture. My other friends loved it and that individual hated it. To each their own. In my defense, the movie was Videodrome and I think the torture scenes were justified because the movie is very philosophical and it wasn’t merely torture scenes for the sake of torture scenes.

[metroid34Participant 135]

Nice bros thanks soo much for the advices that you all given to me I just got a puppy a few weeks ago so He’s going to be my right hand man as far as making new friends I’m going to get out my house more and start skateboarding again. Lastly I’m going to stay in touch with guys and learn more, I feel honored and accepted to in this community. Thanks again and stay in touch

[MACHOParticipant]

metroid34 wrote:

are there any advice on becoming happier and living better life single ?

Welcome metroid34, just hang out on mgtow.com everyday and you’ll be all set! Enjoy the forums.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 14]

It’s better to have no friends than bad friends. I have a select few, nothing like when I was young… Just do what is best for you, stick to that and you will be ok. Lonely? Join some group that shares similar interests.

[Albert EinsteinParticipant 15]

Welcome,

metroid34 wrote:

Me Im different because I dont drink and dont be in the streets and clubs. Also im into skateboarding and astronomy and particle physics and read alot of ancient books, Women dont like a guy like me because of the things that im into for hobbies and im not a thug either. On top of that I cant even find good friends to hangout with because most of my friends are married or out to use me thats the only time i hear from people is when they want something other than that my phone never rings and i’m never invited anywhere, and i fight with depression as well.

It is called autism, don’t worry it is a good thing. Hope this helps.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

metroid34 wrote:

I’m new to MGTOW, I’m 35 yrs single I live in Florida. My life is at a stand still, I have no luck in relationships, I always attract the the gold digging, chicks with no goals in life and the ones that are attention seekers on social media.

It’s not you.

I was about 35 when I re-assessed the situation and slowly came to that realization. The attention seekers on social media will soon hit the wall, and instead of putting up pictures of themselves, they put their dog or their kid as a face pic instead.

I love seeing those.

metroid34 wrote:

Lately I just go with the flow and stick to myself everyday. Are there any advice on developing a better life by myself? and are theyre any advice on becoming happier and living better life single ?

GET BUSY.

TOO BUSY.

If you’re still thinking about “maybe waiting for the one”, you’re not busy enough. Get busy and neck deep in some passionate interest, until all that relationship stuff is boring, infantile and silly. You won’t miss a thing.

( it’s just my recommendation and personal attitude. Throw it away if you want )

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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