Need Advice for a Friend's Divorce.

[RajParticipant 472]

A kid I work with, (21 y.o. I think) came into work first thing in the morning today and told me that his wife wants a divorce. He needed me to cover so he could take off work for the day. I told him to go to H.R. and to not worry about it.

I’ll be honest he’s a little goofy, very sheltered, but he’s a nice guy. He’s been dating his wife since they were like 15. He has a basic understanding of how women are but he’s still a full fledged blue-piller.

Anyway, I’ve never been through a divorce, any of you guys have any advice on what I can do to help him out. I don’t want to get too involved, he’s a good person but considering I work with him I don’t want to get too put my neck on the line in case he ends up blowing a gasket. I’ve been burned too many times at jobs by trying to be “friends” with my coworkers. Is there anything that a friend did to help you guys out, or should I just let him learn a hard lesson?

I was once a great king, I believe you were too. I hope you believe in me, I hope you believe in you.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

tell him to get a lawyer and briefly explain stuff like alimony, division of assets and the one-sided nature of family courts.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[OldBillParticipant]

The best way to help him out is to not help him out. You haven’t been through a divorce, either as a participant or as an advocate, so you can’t offer him any advice beyond “Get a lawyer”. If he asks for advice, remind him that you’ve never been divorced and thus have none to give.

Cover his shifts if you can, but don’t make a habit of it. Listen to him complain, but don’t make a habit of that either.

Many companies have employee assistance programs under various names. If your company does, strongly encourage him to take advantage of it. He’ll get advice legal and financial from people qualified to give it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

He is 21, married with no children.

Did she tell him she wanted a divorce on their honeymoon?

What is there to divide?

Should be a simple thing. He moves back in with his parents and they try to raise him again.

No need to get a divorce. That way he can’t marry again.

Peace brothers

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

There is one universal piece of advice you can give him. Tell him not to sign ANYTHING that the bitch puts in front him.

He must quickly withdraw all cash from any joint accounts they have together and open his a new one is his name only and deposit all the cash into it.

Pack up any valuables he cares about and relocate them to some safe place that she can’t get at.

Most men are slow to initiate any action believing these things are provocative actions and will prevent him from salvaging his marriage.

The marriage is already over. It has been over for at least 6 months because women plot and plan things for a minimum of that length of time before making the announcement to their husbands.

Lastly kick the bitch in pussy for good measure and sport.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Tell him to get through it as fast as possible. The longer he or the ex prolongs it the money money is going to spend on this. Faster he finishes this the faster he can move on with his life.

[OldBillParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

Tell him to get through it as fast as possible. The longer he or the ex prolongs it the money money is going to spend on this. Faster he finishes this the faster he can move on with his life.

That is great advice.

The young man is 21. If he and his wife are typical young people there are no savings, there are no assets, and the only cash on hand is whatever was left over from his last paycheck.

Instead, there will be debts and bills. There will be car payments, phone plans, credit cards, and the like. I’d even guess he’s still making payments on her ring.

Unless he’s very careful, he’ll walk away with all the debt while she walks away debt free.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Be a pal and remind him of the bright side – at 21 he probably had f~~~ all material possessions to lose and by not having kids to her he hasn’t fallen victim to the full extent of the Vagina Monetization Scam (VMS). He’s dodged hundreds of thousands of dollars in child support for kids he’d likely hardly ever see –
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Being so young hopefully your friend swallows the red pill now and can avoid any future entrapment.
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#ManOut

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

That’s correct.

Faster is better. And after is done redpill him to hell.

He is gonna find out a lot of s~~~ now, chad is araound for sure, guy is gonna go down to hell. But with 21 if he learns he can have the best life MGTOW can give.

F~~~er could be retired by 45.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Sky-OParticipant 18950]

He should cease being alone around her:

IMMEDIATELY

Risk of a false rape and/or domestic violence charge.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

DorkShit wrote:

No need to get a divorce. That way he can’t marry again.

That would be funny, if it weren’t so TRUE @Darksith 😉

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

OldBill wrote:

The best way to help him out is to not help him out. You haven’t been through a divorce, either as a participant or as an advocate, so you can’t offer him any advice beyond “Get a lawyer”. If he asks for advice, remind him that you’ve never been divorced and thus have none to give.

Cover his shifts if you can, but don’t make a habit of it. Listen to him complain, but don’t make a habit of that either.

Many companies have employee assistance programs under various names. If your company does, strongly encourage him to take advantage of it. He’ll get advice legal and financial from people qualified to give it.

Please don’t listen to this moron. If you feel like you have any useful information to give your friend by all means do it. OldBill is a nasty, senile turd. He’s the last person here you want advice from. Half the forum wants him gone but sadly he won’t comply. So we’ll just have to wait until the prune expires and then flush his post history down the toilet. Good riddance when that happens, it’ll be a beautiful day.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

OldBill wrote:

The best way to help him out is to not help him out. You haven’t been through a divorce, either as a participant or as an advocate, so you can’t offer him any advice beyond “Get a lawyer”. If he asks for advice, remind him that you’ve never been divorced and thus have none to give.

Cover his shifts if you can, but don’t make a habit of it. Listen to him complain, but don’t make a habit of that either.

Many companies have employee assistance programs under various names. If your company does, strongly encourage him to take advantage of it. He’ll get advice legal and financial from people qualified to give it.

Please don’t listen to this moron. If you feel like you have any useful information to give your friend by all means do it. OldBill is a nasty, senile turd. He’s the last person here you want advice from. Half the forum wants him gone but sadly he won’t comply. So we’ll just have to wait until the prune expires and then flush his post history down the toilet. Good riddance when that happens, it’ll be a beautiful day.

No, half the forum wants YOU gone. So stop trolling threads with his name and following him around like a puppy. Your nose already has enough s~~~ on it.

[HowardParticipant 164]

Get a lawyer ASAP, when divorce is done, find a divorce support group and/or a good counselor if he needs it and get him any and all information on TRP.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Advice? Be the best friend you can be.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Tell him to screw her sister…

Peace brothers

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

Raj wrote:

I’ll be honest he’s a little goofy

What do you mean he’s goofy? If someone’s goofy, and you try to help, you’re going to end up with all his “goofy” on your shoulders. Don’t walk into the viper’s nest.

There’s something behind that “goofy” that you don’t want to go down. That “goofy” is a rabbit hole that you want to get as far away from. Behind that “goofy” could be a psychopathic mother, which means he ended up with the same type of wife, and you want to stay as far away, so don’t hang out after work. Tell him not to get her pregnant under any circumstances (because she will change her mind and try that, after she goes online and talks to the hive), and yes to get it over with within the next two weeks and don’t give up anything in the agreement.

Other than that, do your work. A company pays you to work, not socialize, and since you’re not hanging out with “goofy” after work, do right by your employer and don’t steel time from the company. They pay you.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

If he is going to get divorced, and he is going to no doubt, it might not be today or this year but it will happen sooner rather than later.

If you try to help him the advice I’d give him is go see a cheap lawyer asap.

If he doesn’t get divorced and you encouraged divorce he may make up with his soon to be ex and hold a grudge against you.

Better to stay out of it and go your own way.

There’s a learning curve to the red pill and he is definitely learning.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

Best you can do is send him here to this website. You can only show him the way, you can’t make the walk for him.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

IRuleMe wrote:

WOTGM wrote:

OldBill wrote:

The best way to help him out is to not help him out. You haven’t been through a divorce, either as a participant or as an advocate, so you can’t offer him any advice beyond “Get a lawyer”. If he asks for advice, remind him that you’ve never been divorced and thus have none to give.

Cover his shifts if you can, but don’t make a habit of it. Listen to him complain, but don’t make a habit of that either.

Many companies have employee assistance programs under various names. If your company does, strongly encourage him to take advantage of it. He’ll get advice legal and financial from people qualified to give it.

Please don’t listen to this moron. If you feel like you have any useful information to give your friend by all means do it. OldBill is a nasty, senile turd. He’s the last person here you want advice from. Half the forum wants him gone but sadly he won’t comply. So we’ll just have to wait until the prune expires and then flush his post history down the toilet. Good riddance when that happens, it’ll be a beautiful day.

No, half the forum wants YOU gone. So stop trolling threads with his name and following him around like a puppy. Your nose already has enough s~~~ on it.

Agreed, El C~~~o Punto

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

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