Need Advice

[ylab14Participant 15]

I got a disturbing text from my 12 year old daughter today. “Dad mom abuses me I don’t want to go to her house anymore, she slaps me almost every day.” My ex and I have 50/50 custody and my daughter has in a roundabout way told me, i.e. I want to live with you, when can I live with you, why do I have go back to her house…ect.. I asked her a few more questions and this is the response I got and it breaks my heart. “Ya do you believe me that she hurts me? It’s been going on since I moved in (early June), Friend name and Friend name made me tell you because they want me to be safe, they are good friends.” I also have a 9 year old daughter and my oldest confirmed she gets hit also.

I have put my lawyer on notice and sent copies of the text messages to my lawyer. My brother is pushing me to call the police or DCFS. I am just worried because 1. The divorce is still fairly new 1 month and 2 that I am a man they will not believe me.

My daughter is coming to my house after school today. I do not care what her bitch mother thinks. I will be looking for visual evidence and taking photographs. I am also going to have her write down her thoughts and already made appointment with her counselor for next week.

Any thoughts or words of wisdom would be helpful.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I suggest you take them to the hospital they might find somethings you might not. Also if they do find something you have proof.

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[RoyDalParticipant]

ylab14 wrote:

I have put my lawyer on notice and sent copies of the text messages to my lawyer. My brother is pushing me to call the police or DCFS. I am just worried because 1. The divorce is still fairly new 1 month and 2 that I am a man they will not believe me.

My daughter is coming to my house after school today. I do not care what her bitch mother thinks. I will be looking for visual evidence and taking photographs. I am also going to have her write down her thoughts and already made appointment with her counselor for next week.

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I suggest you take them to the hospital they might find somethings you might not. Also if they do find something you have proof.

Both are good plans. The more physical evidence from unimpeachable authorities the better, in cases like these.

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[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Documentation of EVERYTHING from this point on is crucial and from as many third party sources as possible. Even if it has nothing to do with the abuse of your children, you may need it in case it pertains to something else further down the road. File a police report. Even if they don’t believe you, you have a record of doing such. If it winds up in court, the first thing they are going to ask is, “Did you file a police report?” and NOT filing one discredits your claim and any future ones. I hope the best for your children and yourself.

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[Anonymous 42]

You’ve got a powder keg there! There’s no telling what she’s capable of doing given the fact she’s hurting children! ANY CHILDREN! Get them out of her custody asap! Could you imagine hurting children? I didn’t think so!
Imagine (if you can) the hatred, anger, and narcissism it must take to bring actual harm and suffering to children! They’re kids! It’s the same as torturing the family pet! WAAAAAAAAY WAAAAAAAAY far beyond just dysfunctional! She’s gone full psycho sadomasochistic! She needs a cage at this point! The bitch could go psychosurgeon if allowed to continue!
Once a person is harming children, there’s no lower deed on earth to be done!
In my world where my rule reigned subprime, she’d be locked away in a dungeon till the weathering effects of time wore the granite walls away from around her! She’d rot, then I’d make sure her dust rots! Then what ever is remaining I’d feed to some mushrooms! AND LET THEM ROT! No child should be abused f~~~ing EVER!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Is there a way for your daughter to notify the police herself?I think it will be accepted allot easier coming from her.

[HitmanParticipant]

yes ..hospital , police report , soon as possible .DO NOT be afraid to call child services ..they MUST act on your call.male or female , failing to do so may make you part of the problem..call it in brother ..let them investigate !

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Buy her one of those keyring recorders. You can get ones that look like toys. Show her how and when to use it.

DO NOT reveal this until you are 100% with the evidence.

Remember …. this system will be deaf to both you and daughter unless you can slam it in their face.

I really feel for you and prey this gets sorted asap.

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