Narcissistic bitch, why did I try

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

So a gal I used to date (simp I know) before full MGTOW, has an ex in Marco Island, and a daughter in Miami.

So I sent her a text asking about how they were doing. Two years since no contact on my part, not hers.

Did she ask how my family was? F~~~ no. They are in Tampa/Lakeland and expect a direct hit. I had a mother and father who raised me to care about other blue pill people.

Lesson learned. Ingrained programming still haughts me to this day. No matter how had I try to maintain a no f~~~s to give attitude, no matter how much I still remember the reasons why I am MGTOW, I just can’t not feel sorry for the s~~~storm bitch Irma and those I know are affected by this

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Yeah dude, this is a difficult one to overcome. You care about people because you ‘believe’ that people care about you. I believe this is mostly negative programming created by parents/caregivers.

I don’t believe overcoming this leads to bitterness or like some uncaring human being, just healthy level of caring. It mostly affects men. Basically it’s denial and that denial is difficult to overcome. The only way I really overcame it was when I realized my parents never had unconditional love for me and that they were liars. Once I finally accepted that, a lot of pain came up and grief and all that, plus looking back on all my behaviors, giving too much f~~~s about a woman or people in general, being a door mat and all that because deep inside I thought “It’s the right thing to do.”

It’s all nonsense. That parents teach that to their kids because parents have an agenda. They want their kid to act in a certain way, basically take care of them when they get old if need be, get the job they want their kid to get, have babies so the parents can tell all their friends ‘Look at me, I got grand babies’. It’s all a crock of BS. Parents, none of them, truly love their children. It’s not real, and I think we all “know” this deep inside, but we deny it.

Why? Because children, at least when they are young, love their parents unconditionally, parents don’t love their kids unconditionally, never have, and never will. That creates a lot of pain. That pain, if never acknowledged, festers. This is ultimately what I believe causes men to fall in love with women, especially s~~~ty women. They want to create a situation that justifies their love for their parents when they didn’t love them in return. It’s basically insanity. So they then do the same nonsense to women, and get in return what was always there…. NOTHING…

Basically, your parents may say they love you(whether true or just manipulation), but they don’t love you unconditionally, never have, and never will. That’s a hard one to get over.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Best to DESTROY any form of contact info.

Deleting those numbers and/or e-mail addresses helps to CUT whatever lingering blue strings that you may still have attached consciously or maybe even subconsciously.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Good point Awakened.

You can also block their number. And on email, you can set filters to direct any email to go into the already read folder, spam, archieve, etc. That way if they email you, you never even know about it. Probably can filter to delete as well, or throw it in the trash.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

Remember the Narc does not feel real emotions like we real people do. They can only mimic human responses.

Kind of like the “pod people” from Invasion of the Body Snatchers. And remember it’s OK to stab them with a pitchfork if you want.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Ever5 wrote:

Yeah dude, this is a difficult one to overcome. You care about people because you ‘believe’ that people care about you. I believe this is mostly negative programming created by parents/caregivers.

I don’t believe overcoming this leads to bitterness or like some uncaring human being, just healthy level of caring. It mostly affects men. Basically it’s denial and that denial is difficult to overcome. The only way I really overcame it was when I realized my parents never had unconditional love for me and that they were liars. Once I finally accepted that, a lot of pain came up and grief and all that, plus looking back on all my behaviors, giving too much f~~~s about a woman or people in general, being a door mat and all that because deep inside I thought “It’s the right thing to do.”

It’s all nonsense. That parents teach that to their kids because parents have an agenda. They want their kid to act in a certain way, basically take care of them when they get old if need be, get the job they want their kid to get, have babies so the parents can tell all their friends ‘Look at me, I got grand babies’. It’s all a crock of BS. Parents, none of them, truly love their children. It’s not real, and I think we all “know” this deep inside, but we deny it.

Why? Because children, at least when they are young, love their parents unconditionally, parents don’t love their kids unconditionally, never have, and never will. That creates a lot of pain. That pain, if never acknowledged, festers. This is ultimately what I believe causes men to fall in love with women, especially s~~~ty women. They want to create a situation that justifies their love for their parents when they didn’t love them in return. It’s basically insanity. So they then do the same nonsense to women, and get in return what was always there…. NOTHING…

Basically, your parents may say they love you(whether true or just manipulation), but they don’t love you unconditionally, never have, and never will. That’s a hard one to get over.

LOL, I f~~~ing love this post.

If your parents gave one flying f~~~ about YOU, they would never have brought you into this crazy cluster f~~~ of a world. You know, under the nuclear cloud, being a worker wage slave consumer drone, who will probably die alone of a terrible disease.

Parents only have you for 2 reasons:

1) You were an oops baby
2) You filled a hole in their empty lives, or allayed their fears of anticipated future loneliness.

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