My Unc~~~ing (Dating On Hold)

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

I remember Stealthy coined the term, “unc~~~,” and it often amused me to see it in print. The term has a serious flip-side for me, though: It means getting control of my mind so I won’t be manipulated into making bad decisions based on the charms of women—and women have some pretty powerful charms.

At this stage of my life, I’m not dating—even though I still have a strong desire to date/f~~~ women. Dating is taxing on my mind and a burden on my bank account. I just cannot afford to do it.

Before I came to this website, I used to spend money on PUA ebooks and online dating sites. I used to be happy to get e-mail or texts from single moms—and I dated a few of them. I was grateful for any kind of sexual opportunity. The PUA’s revealed something about me that I didn’t like: I was a desperate and needy nice guy—the kind of guy that repels women.

I started watching a lot of PUA videos on YouTube. I got really annoyed to learn about female nature, and how I had to come up with strategies to deal with it in order to “score” with women. 100 hours of PUA videos is a real mind f~~~. They could all write a book, with more pages than the King James Bible, on how to pass a woman’s s~~~ tests and get her in the mood to drop her panties.

The PUA videos led me to Tom Leykis videos. Tom gave me my first red pills—which I refused to swallow. I used to think he was just an asshole, but then I started to really think about his life lessons. There was some truth that couldn’t be denied—I just hated the way he presented it during his radio show. I felt personally insulted when he scoffed at nice guys. And he seemed to present women as toilet paper. I didn’t want to think of women that way. I wanted an honest, romantic relationship with a woman. There was a time, years ago, when I really wanted women to think I was an eligible bachelor. I wanted to be “good enough” for them.

The Tom Leykis videos led me to MGTOW videos. These videos gave me the bitter red pills that challenged my blue pill, idealistic world. These videos made me realize that I’m not the only guy who’s had a dissolution of his dream of dating and marrying the perfect woman—a woman who reciprocates his love, acts of kindness, gift-giving, loyalty, and sexual cravings. These are the “unicorns” of the world. What reality actually has for me is: c~~~ish, tattooed, loud-mouthed women who will stick around as long as things are going well for me, and I’m able to spend money for their entertainment. As soon as I fall on hard times, they’ll disappear. Several YouTubers have showed me how deep the “rabbit hole” of the female mind tunnels down into the ground (it’s like a bottomless pit), but the most profound revelations I’ve heard came from Barbarossa’s channel.

Right now I’m focused on my life and how I can salvage it. Since I’ve stopped chasing skirts, I feel a sense of liberation. I don’t have a strategy for talking to women and trying to impress them or seduce them. I’m just minding my own business. There are other aspects of life that are important to me: good health (exercise, losing weight), hobbies, getting my financial affairs in order, spending time with family/friends, reading self-help books, making plans to go back to college and find a new job, learning a new language, increasing my retirement savings, and, basically, doing stuff to expand my horizons and make my life more interesting and enjoyable. Living for myself is an enjoyable experience by itself.

After I upgrade my situation, I’ll date again—for the fun of it. From the start, I will make it clear to the ladies that I’m not going to marry them. I’m a temporary lover until they meet Prince Charming. Other than that, I may just go to exotic Asian massage parlors for happy endings.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

Congrats on following your path, brother.

I haven’t pursued dating and have even rejected women for a long time but finding other mgtow has instilled a calmness in me as well.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Lord Leykis again, eh? No matter how blue pill your background, if you listen with an open mind, you can’t help but see that he speaks truth.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Mine eyes have seen the glory…of Tom Leykis!

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24990]

I’m an avid Leykis supporter.

Don’t ever go back to the PUA methods. It’s degrading for a man to chase a woman. Your self worth is more valuable than a temporary f~~~.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

I’ve made a,few younger guy friends recently (I’m early 40s) and ironically they seem to come to me asking advice around certain girls and a lot of this is PUA influenced mindsets. They are late 20s, early 30s and I can’t believe how motivated they are to chase the pussy and deal with a ton of s~~~ doing it.

I talk to them about red flags, putting the minimal amount of effort in, not moving in with women and protecting financial assets.

If you are a MGHOW and still seeing women you will naturally no longer pedestalise or place any kind of importance on them. Once you are truly free this will make you more attractive to the she devil’s. PUAs and many unattached guys under 40 are total pussy hounds. If an opportunity falls in my lap I may take it, but essentially MGTOW realigns our core values, completely smashes and obliterates the pussy pedestal and helps us usefully focus our time and values on literally everything and anything else outside the gynocentric matrix.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

FunInTheSun wrote:

I remember Stealthy coined the term, “unc~~~,” and it often amused me to see it in print.

The award goes out to brother “I live again”.

He once wrote “You can’t unc~~~ a c~~~”…

Stealthy and me, we picked it up and made it “our word”. And Stealthy made some threads about it. Hope they didn’t get deleted when Stealthy had to leave us.

Hope he’ll be back and that KM has backups of his threads to reinstall them…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

Gargamel wrote:

The award goes out to brother “I live again”.

Sorry, I missed that.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Gargamel wrote:

The award goes out to brother “I live again”.

Sorry, I missed that.

Doesn’t matter, I guess ILiveAgain meant something different. He probably meant “you can’t change the c~~~ish character of a nasty woman”. Which is the total truth and fits in the context of this original thread.

But I saw the expression and the word UNC~~~ “hynotized” me so I put it in my signature some time later. And Google found it in every thread in which I had previously posted something…

That’s how you spread a word or an expression.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anyway Stealthy, if you happen to read this…

C’mon, get a new name, a secret PC, a secret wireless internet connection, a VPN server and come back.

We still miss you.

Does anyone know why Stealthy vanisned?

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Well this word already exists, but with a little different meaning:

unc~~~ed

when you severely p~~~ off a woman she can become unc~~~ed.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Unc~~~ed

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

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