My Tradcuck Brother Doesn't Speak with me any more.

[LastManStandingParticipant 638]

I have never preached the MGTOW lifestyle to anyone in my personal life, but seems like people don’t like the answers to the questions they ask and take offense. My brother is in blue-pill heaven… the big house, 2 kids, the western wench and the 6 day a week/6 figure salary. Since I have become MGTOW / Black Pilled we have seemed to talk less and less over the past few years. Now he doesn’t even return my calls timely. He probably sees me using my money for my own entertainment and enjoyment and doesn’t like it. Who knows? A blue-pilled person honestly can’t understand our way of thinking in my opinion.

Blood is thicker then water? I am not so sure.

[StealthParticipant 5340]

My experience is that people in general don’t view others as fellow humans, much less family.
When core values differ between parties, that is a cultural divide which takes extra effort to maintain, and which will usually weaken over time.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

You may be a bit hard on the brother when he is under the influence and direction of his wife. Western women want to be very controlling. His wife dose not want him getting any ideas so has cut off the connection.
Now it is a waiting game, if he can get from under the control or not, freedom or not.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[HermitParticipant]

LastManStanding wrote:

I have never preached the MGTOW lifestyle to anyone in my personal life, but seems like people don’t like the answers to the questions they ask and take offense.

They are living in a different world and don’t understand. They have no idea the answer you will give to their questions. It makes no sense to them. They look at you like you’re an alien. There is a vast ocean between the blue pilled world and the red pilled world.

It’s sad that your own brother won’t speak to you. Working 6 days a week with a wife and kids……..he’d rather make time for them.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Don’t take this to the wrong way, but he has a family and works six days a week. That says alot already, and you may have jumped the gun thinking he doesn’t want to speak with you because of your answers. Kids (and I am including his wife) require alot of time to care for. You live for yourself so your brother likely believes you are fine and your calls are not as urgent. Just keep in touch like a brother should, even if you think he isn’t doing the same.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

You can’t make him understand YOUR choices.

If it were me, I would just stop calling him, and let him call me.

If we could get together once in a blue moon then that would be OK, or if we couldn’t then that would be OK too.

I would always be too busy for any potential “family holidays” as I just wouldn’t want to be exposed to all that, or have him and his lil Missy think that they HAVE TO INVITE ME JUST BECAUSE IT’S THE HOLIDAYS.

I don’t mind the holidays as long as I can enjoy them without a lot of twice a year relatives hanging around.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

When she has the kids, the house, and the lions share of his six figure income, and he’s working 7 days a week just to keep from sleeping on a park bench, he’ll start to listen.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Swimcat wrote:

When she has the kids, the house, and the lions share of his six figure income, and he’s working 7 days a week just to keep from sleeping on a park bench, he’ll start to listen.

She has all that, that’s why it’s not a priority of him to call you. He’s a fiddler on the roof.

Stay in his life. I don’t think it will end well and he may need his red pilled brother to bail him out of blue pilled hell.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Stay in his life. I don’t think it will end well and he may need his red pilled brother to bail him out of blue pilled hell.

I was thinking exactly the same thing! He’ll be hearing plenty from his Bro when the reality of marriage kicks in…

[Branched offParticipant 10933]

Don’t give up on your brother. Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.

He is very busy now and his life may share little in common with yours (because he is into his job and his family and knackered all the time but he is still your brother and you may well yet need each other or enjoy each other greatly in coming years. You may even end up helping his children or them helping you. Blood is thicker than water and people pushing themselves to their limits can sometimes go past the limits and need picking up off the floor.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[MonkParticipant 16995]

LastManStanding wrote:

Blood is thicker then water? I am not so sure.

There is nothing that you can do, so don’t beat yourself up about it. Just get on with YOUR life.

(Ironically, the better your life appears to be, the more she will hate it and pile the pressure on him. She is the only one who can break the Blue Pill programming).

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Branched off wrote:

Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.

Some do and MANY don’t for good reason…at least that’s my experience.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Branched off wrote:

Don’t give up on your brother. Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.
He is very busy now and his life may share little in common with yours (because he is into his job and his family and knackered all the time but he is still your brother and you may well yet need each other or enjoy each other greatly in coming years. You may even end up helping his children or them helping you. Blood is thicker than water and people pushing themselves to their limits can sometimes go past the limits and need picking up off the floor.

Bullshiite family relationships last for life. if anything modern women have shown that family relationships do not last for life despite them taking vows to go through good and bad, rich or poorer, better or worse. 80% of divorces initiated by women show there’s no regard for family relationships and that they view men in their family so low that they can be swapped out like a faulty toaster.

Bull shiite they last forever.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Branched offParticipant 10933]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Branched off wrote:

Don’t give up on your brother. Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.He is very busy now and his life may share little in common with yours (because he is into his job and his family and knackered all the time but he is still your brother and you may well yet need each other or enjoy each other greatly in coming years. You may even end up helping his children or them helping you. Blood is thicker than water and people pushing themselves to their limits can sometimes go past the limits and need picking up off the floor.

Bullshiite family relationships last for life. if anything modern women have shown that family relationships do not last for life despite them taking vows to go through good and bad, rich or poorer, better or worse. 80% of divorces initiated by women show there’s no regard for family relationships and that they view men in their family so low that they can be swapped out like a faulty toaster.
Bull shiite they last forever.

I think you may have misunderstood me here. Women might be said to join a man’s family on marriage but they do not in this culture. They retain all their freedom from responsibility that they had before. By family I mean blood kin. You can’t swap blood kin like a toaster. Even if you get angry and say you hate them, they still share your genes. Women have broken up a lot of families of late. the reason it hurts to lose your kids is because they are blood kin not toasters. You can’t replace your family, so try to love them.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

LastManStanding wrote:

I have never preached the MGTOW lifestyle to anyone in my personal life, but seems like people don’t like the answers to the questions they ask and take offense. My brother is in blue-pill heaven… the big house, 2 kids, the western wench and the 6 day a week/6 figure salary. Since I have become MGTOW / Black Pilled we have seemed to talk less and less over the past few years. Now he doesn’t even return my calls timely. He probably sees me using my money for my own entertainment and enjoyment and doesn’t like it. Who knows? A blue-pilled person honestly can’t understand our way of thinking in my opinion.
Blood is thicker then water? I am not so sure.

My response is “congratulations, enjoy more peace in your life”.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Branched off wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Branched off wrote:

Don’t give up on your brother. Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.He is very busy now and his life may share little in common with yours (because he is into his job and his family and knackered all the time but he is still your brother and you may well yet need each other or enjoy each other greatly in coming years. You may even end up helping his children or them helping you. Blood is thicker than water and people pushing themselves to their limits can sometimes go past the limits and need picking up off the floor.

Bullshiite family relationships last for life. if anything modern women have shown that family relationships do not last for life despite them taking vows to go through good and bad, rich or poorer, better or worse. 80% of divorces initiated by women show there’s no regard for family relationships and that they view men in their family so low that they can be swapped out like a faulty toaster.Bull shiite they last forever.

I think you may have misunderstood me here. Women might be said to join a man’s family on marriage but they do not in this culture. They retain all their freedom from responsibility that they had before. By family I mean blood kin. You can’t swap blood kin like a toaster. Even if you get angry and say you hate them, they still share your genes. Women have broken up a lot of families of late. the reason it hurts to lose your kids is because they are blood kin not toasters. You can’t replace your family, so try to love them.

Blood family has f~~~ed over more people than you are giving it credit. Blood family uses others in the family, and have been very successful at destroying families. People today aren’t raised to look at blood family the same way and its because they see their and others’ families being destroyed and mangled into weird ass couplings of mixed families through 2nd and 3rd marriages that don’t last as long as the prior marriages. It all makes an impact.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Branched off wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Branched off wrote:

Don’t give up on your brother. Family relationships last for life and can go through many twists and turns.He is very busy now and his life may share little in common with yours (because he is into his job and his family and knackered all the time but he is still your brother and you may well yet need each other or enjoy each other greatly in coming years. You may even end up helping his children or them helping you. Blood is thicker than water and people pushing themselves to their limits can sometimes go past the limits and need picking up off the floor.

Bullshiite family relationships last for life. if anything modern women have shown that family relationships do not last for life despite them taking vows to go through good and bad, rich or poorer, better or worse. 80% of divorces initiated by women show there’s no regard for family relationships and that they view men in their family so low that they can be swapped out like a faulty toaster.Bull shiite they last forever.

I think you may have misunderstood me here. Women might be said to join a man’s family on marriage but they do not in this culture. They retain all their freedom from responsibility that they had before. By family I mean blood kin. You can’t swap blood kin like a toaster. Even if you get angry and say you hate them, they still share your genes. Women have broken up a lot of families of late. the reason it hurts to lose your kids is because they are blood kin not toasters. You can’t replace your family, so try to love them.

Blood family has f~~~ed over more people than you are giving it credit. Blood family uses others in the family, and have been very successful at destroying families. People today aren’t raised to look at blood family the same way and its because they see their and others’ families being destroyed and mangled into weird ass couplings of mixed families through 2nd and 3rd marriages that don’t last as long as the prior marriages. It all makes an impact.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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