My theory on how it sucks for a non-MGTOW man to get a man cave.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I wasn’t sure the best way to sum up this, but it has to do with hypergamy, getting resources and so on, with a conclusion the MGTOW way is better.  The theory goes like this:

* Men gather resources

* Women use resources to build a home, and also improve themselves so they remain possibly of interest to the man so he won’t leave.

* Man sees what woman did with the home and doesn’t like it.  So, he needs his own space, so with the scraps of money/resources left over, he build a mancave, that the women will complain about, unless he can bargain better.

By being MGTOW, a man’s entire personal space is a Man cave.   Well, that is my theory on men and women when it comes to resources… and the net effect of how a man cave comes about.

Comments are welcome.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[ChilledToZeroParticipant 178]

“By being MGTOW, a man’s entire personal space is a Man cave.”

I think the MGTOW version of a Man-Cave is a  definitely the Bachelor Pad, a Man-Cave is what a blue pill man gets because he compromised with a woman…
If you are the owner of your house, and only one room has the stuff you like in it, one needs to seriously question why

Women love nothing more than using men’s resources for their own benefit, I see man-caves like a woman basically saying here is your plot of land that you can build on, but the rest is mine.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Even non-mgtow men need something to do that’s not about women.The thing is women want to make absolutely everything about themselves thus the non-mgtow man needs a mancave where he can for the most part sleep or just sit there enjoying the silence and the absence of constant nagging.

With women they need you to be contemplating how you should impress them or how your life sucks without them every second of your existence.Thus they feel the mancave to be threatening.

“What are you doing there?I’m here i’m the most important thing in the world!”

And by going there just to enjoy the silence and be alone for a f~~~ing second, you insult that notion.You dare insult her?It seems she needs to punish you, no man cave for you ,bad dog.

If you where mgtow tho these women are from another planet, they can come to you and say some dysfunctional s~~~ but that’s all they can do.And your whole life is effectively one big mancave, and plus that  you have energy, you aren’t there just to rest anymore, you’re there to explore.The world is your mancave.

[RennieParticipant]

I never liked the term “man cave”, comes off as condescending and implying men are prehistoric and primitive. Sounds like something a woman would say to a man when trying to put him down.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I am sure quite a few marriages survived because hubby has a ‘legitimate’ way to get away from the wife, be it a man cave or a hobby like fishing.

I haven’t spoken to my wife in years. I didn’t want to interrupt her.
— Rodney Dangerfield

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[EntropyParticipant 902]

The only legitimate way to get away from a woman is to cut your losses and RUN…

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[CursedgenieParticipant 26]

Has anyone else noticed that the man cave is no longer becoming the man cave.

being a single male redpiller, i own my own house(bank owns i am paying back) so i consider my whole house my sanctuary, i have mates that have been commited relationships, when they finally got their man caves to escape their wives and girlfriends, they were actually happy to have some place in the house to call their own.

But as time went on i noticed the females starting to invade even their manspaces with plants and little stuff at first, like trying to say even though this is your space i still want you to know i still have say over this place. as is to say i let you have this space but i can take it back whenever i like. and more and more now i noticing when we do catch up it is becoming more and more at my place.

i know women can’t help themselves and have to impose themselves eveywhere they go like they are afraid of being forgotten or found to be irrelevant, and i have noticed them kinda trying to bring me back into the fold, cause they try to set me up with their friends to my reply that is just meet with a blank and angry exprssion from them is “sorry i have red pilled out” they have known i have been mgtow for awhile now but they still think they can bring me to the fold.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

the beauty of my own place! I don’t have to beg for my own small part of a place but have everything to myself

and to Cursedgenie and women encrocaching on the small space they allow men in their places and then your mates trying to set you up….is probably their girlfriends telling them to try to do it

unfortunately my mangina brother is being forced to try to set up one of his better off mates with one of his fiancés’ buddies and they are all a bunch of gold-diggers but thankfully this bloke is too switched on so isn’t falling for it and can see how pussy whipped my brother is so isn’t interested in that happening to him

[CursedgenieParticipant 26]

naah my mates dont try and set me up, they understand exactly where i am coming from lol.

it is all their girlfriend and wives making the mentions when i see them. thats the only time that i hear about it is when the women are there trying to get in my head. they think they can wear me down and cave lol , i have red pilled out and have never been happier why on earth would i go back lol.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Being away from this a few days helped me sum up a related point I think I may of been saying.  I believe you see in women the urge to wants to transform everything a man has into something else, which means they want to invade every space and do something with it.  Men get resources, women want to get ahold of these resources to do things with.  In a relationship, they see it as love I guess, or at least something of a race for social status.  End result is a man will get a mancave thing, if lucky, that will continue to shrink to the extent where he likely will eventually need to get a bigger house, and it will rinse and repeat.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

Men live simple, LOGICAL lives.  Big TV, comfortable couch (no matter what it looks like), food, computers and other technology, and most men are pretty happy.  Women want pictures, plants, nick-knacks, throw pillows (like seriously, what’s the point???), and other BS.  Men just don’t give a crap.  So they let their wives screw with the house all they want because they LOVE them and want them to be happy.  Then he eventually gets sick of the fact that they have a small TV because a big one wouldn’t fit in the fancy TV stand, and an uncomfortable couch because it’s “Cute” and a crappy overpriced computer because it “looks good” and all the wasted space with all the nick-knacks and other BS.  So he decides he wants his own space away from her nagging and crazy bulls~~~.

So he comes home with a 60″ TV and a comfortable couch and say to the woman that they’re getting rid of her garbage TV and couch.  She complains and they compromise and give him the basement in his own home.  It’s sad.

To a man, the way something looks doesn’t matter as much as how it functions.  Looks do matter, but he’s not going to buy an uncomfortable couch because it looks good.  Having a big TV is more important than hiding it when it’s not in use.  And having all those nick-knacks isn’t worth the effort of having to mess with them, clean around them, and all the wasted space.

Women aren’t logical.  Men can handle their BS to a point.  But beyond that, they’re DONE.  It’s either a man-cave or a divorce.  Most women choose to give him a man-cave.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

By being MGTOW, a man’s entire personal space is a Man cave.

F~~~ the cave. I’m no caveman.

I own my whole goddamn MAN CASTLE.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

sidecar wrote:

richardhutnik wrote:

By being MGTOW, a man’s entire personal space is a Man cave.

F~~~ the cave. I’m no caveman. I own my whole goddamn MAN CASTLE.

Ok, I will take what I said, and what you said, and say this: ONLY a MGTOW can have a Man Castle.  Blue Pill, if lucky, get Man Caves.

There.  I think one final revision would work real well. Someone can play off Blue Pill as Cave Men, while MGTOW are Kings :-).

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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