My story – Painful breakup inside – Beware of asian women !

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

You only think it happens to others. But i happens to all of us.

In 2006 i met a chinese women.

She was irresistible. From the start i knew that she had a strong personality. But boy, was i far from imagining the HELL i would went trough.

Not only did she emotyionally manipulate me, but she was abusive. She was a complete definition of a Narcissist, which wasn’t that visible as a student but became apparent once she started working. She was the perfect one, i was the retard.

I taught her everything. I’m from a wealthy and educated family. I taught her about fashion, arts, litterature, popular culture, music.

And i was the retard.

After 6 months we bought a dog. Cutest thing ever. Sh said she always wanted a dog and soon enough the dog became the center of attention, the glue keeping us together.

She then slowly started to get to me. Criticising every single thing i was doing. NEver ever complimenting me when i was achieving something. When she lost her job, i had to support her. WHen i lst mine, she started nagging.

She was also Criticising my friends. She took credit for everything remotely interesting i was doing, talking about it like it was her idea. To this day, her new appartement looks like i decorated it: it has everything I like, from a Batman car to space invader stickers to vynil records of blur. Like a vampire, she sucked everything she could and now she’s living the life i wanted, while i’m living in a students bedroom without a kitchen and a washing machine.

She completely sopped being the peasant family born chinese girl and became this high class fashionable manager with exquisite taste and refined appearance that everybody praises as being perfect. I am from a noble French family, my great grandfather actually owned a castle, and she made me look like the nerd with bad manners.

 

But none of that matters anymore.

Let’s jump to the breakup.

After realsing that she had sucked out of me everything she possibly could, Mrs Perfect started to feel unsatisfied. I wasn’t as assertive and mature as the really cool married guys that were courting her at her job. Some were bankers, others lived on their rent, but all of them were charming educated and refined, while i was a piece of s~~~.. Well, i wasn’t perfect you know. Who wants a guy like me ? A 1M95, blue eyes MBA working as a manager in one of the most popular french designer brands and with noble blood. These days, i’m pretty much what every chinese women hate !

So one day she came back late. VERY late, I was worried sick. Then she started lying to me and went out the next day. At that point i looked in her phone and knew she was seeing somone else. A photographer. It still makes me laugh, not because of his job but because she imagined that artistic sense and blabla. I also found that she was flirting with litterally every guy she knew.

4 Days later she said she wanted to be honest with me and break up.

At that moment, i knew it was an opportunity for me and that i should do it.

I found a new appartement, we had sex crying and she promised me not to have sex with another guy until our papers are signed.

The next day, i came back home and she was in bed with the guy. I broke in the bedroom, kicking the door open, she was in bed naked with the guy. The look on her face was priceless. Suddenly she wasn’t perfect anymore.

As i said i’m 195 and i basically look like the captain of the football team. I had a beard and a long black coat and was wearing a beanie.

I honestly still feel for the poor guy.

I screamed at her like never before in my life. No insults, i only made her feel like s~~~. I didn’say anything to the guy, as i honestly believed that he had nothing to do with it. For all i knoz, she just used him.

I asked him to leave and gave him 5 minutes,

 

LItterally the week after that, i realised that there were  dozens of girls that were interested in me. My CV is pretty much  the prototype of Mr RIght. I started to date and f~~~ a new girl, then another one, but never told her. Just to get back in the game, forget about her, meet new people. IN the meantime the guy dumped her and she suddenly realised that no one gives a f~~~ about 32 year old hot girls, as good looking and perfect as they are. So she started to crawl back to me. SHe needed me, she made a terrible mistake, can you help me fix the sink.

At the very same moment, i met a 24 year old girl who was litterally a nymho. She was a 9. I mean really. Nice face, big smile, thin, clear skin,nice ass, flat belly, beautiful legs, and she wanted sex 24/7. She worshipped me. She wanted to try everything, to do it in every possible location. She said she wanted to f~~~ my brains out so i never could think about my ex again. I actually discovered that the more i was getting, the hornier i was and the more other women were attracted to me. It even changed the way i smelled, i think i was emitting pheromones or something, women round me started to get horny. It was crazy. I was having sex 2  to 5 times a day. Sometimes she sucked  my dick to wake me up at night, and she had asked me to rape her like an object if i woke up with a boner. Yeah she was another kind of psycho, but boy was i satistfied. It’s like your wildest dreams coming true.

I didn’t say anything to my ex, but it was pretty clear to me that i would not get back to this hell when i had a litterally endless pool of 25 year olds drowning over me.

One day she asked me to help her with the washing machine (i bought). Since i din’t have one, i asked if i could use it, She told me she’s not there to clean my durty laundry. I answered: then i’ll washing somwhere else.

And that’s when she went mad. She learned fro her friend that i was banging a 25 y/o hotter than she ever was, and started saying i was a psycho, and a pedophile. I them reminded her that she was still banging a 25y/o photograph only a few months back.

Then she said i should give her all her money back so that she never has to see me again. To which i reply that since she was making more than me, and that marriage means sharing, she was responsible for my debts.

The next morning i received a call.

My dog was dead.

[RevMattParticipant 28]

This is a horror story!

A few things. Your relationship ran the typical course of all relationships. The emotional state women refer to as “being in love” lasts anywhere from 4 to 8 years. It cannot be sustained longer than that. In that sense your case is no different than any other relations~~~, marriage, etc… This is true in all cultures, all periods in history. Asian, European, Hispanic, African, Indian women are the same.

The difference in your case is that your wife turned into a total raging psychotic lunatic who killed a dog instead of becoming a partial raging lunatic who would purchase a $5,000 purebred rat dog on your credit card.

Beware of the 25 year old gold diggers chasing you. In five to eight years they will despise the very things about you that make you attractive to them now. It has nothing to do with you — how good looking, cultured, romantic or loving you are. It is just the nature of women and relationships. Do not sign a marriage contract or make a baby with any of them. Be thankful you did not father any children with the bats~~~ crazy dragon lady. That is one of the things you did right.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Wow!,

Excellent story My Friend, I wondered at one point if you encountered My ex wife!. It’s interesting that she came from peasantry to a high class wannabe. This is a great Hypergamy story, and how often times Females display the look of a docile lonely peasant girl, however deep down they’re like a Wolf seeking their prey carefully and waiting for that opportunity to strike.

That situations sucks, because for you, all you wanted was a future and a good relationship with someone you love. For her however, She wanted someone who could be a “Dick Stand”, gather as much useful information on fashion, pop culture and whatever else they’ll use to their advantage then move on to someone else.

 

she promised me not to have sex with another guy until our papers are signed.The next day, i came back home and she was in bed with the guy.

 

Another prime example of why Females never should be trusted, they say one thing that might be verbally appealing, however the true nature of their actions say something completely different. This sounds like a Woman with an agenda. An agenda to be something that She’s not, and seek out her prey like the Alien in the movie “Species”. They gather what they can from a Man, Money, sometimes a kid, a house, and then drop him like a sack of potatoes.

 

Glad you got out of it, and started f~~~in younger hotter chicks!. Kudos to you my friend and I raise my beer in your name!.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Holy Shiet Soldano! Thanks for sharing your Blue Pill Crucifixion story! Your personal story follows the line of several “Blue Pill-to-Red Pill Jesus”/”Baptism by Fire” stories that have scared the F~~~in’ S~~~ out of me!

No Way in Hell I’m EVER getting married!

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

Thanks for the comments.

I don’t know that she killed the dog, but it was poison and this is more than suspicious in terms of timing.

I’ve been reading a few stories here. Funny how in the end all these stories are oddly similar.

What scares me the most is how they use kids. Don’t their kids end up hating them ?

 

Deus EX Machina:thanks for commenting.

She wasn’t a “peasant”fresh from the farm, but i met her family and clearly there was a serious dichotomy with her behaviour.

Since i’ve noticed that all girl are psychos, just for different reasons.

What scares me the most is how they age.

I mean it gets worse and worse and worse.

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

<cite>@revmatt said:</cite>
This is a horror story!

The difference in your case is that your wife turned into a total raging psychotic lunatic who killed a dog instead of becoming a partial raging lunatic who would purchase a $5,000 purebred rat dog on your credit card.

Ah ah ah ah ah that was gold.

Yeah i wrote my post in a way that shows how nuts the 25 years old was.
She had daddy issues.
I ended up having to litterally kick her out.
She was like screaming grabbing my hair and breaking things, that was nuts.

THen she found a new guy THE NEXT DAY and while she was seeing him asked me to come to her room to f~~~ her for a while.
Ever heard of the song self esteem by the offspring ?

I think it’s called borderline personality disorder.
She went on to convince the guy to quit his job 3 months after meeting her and travel abroad with her.
Poor guy thinks he found a perfect girl. He is in for a ride.

If there’s one poor guy who discovers his child is from another man, that has to be him.
She told him she wasn’t ready for sex because her ex was abusive and violent.
I sure was, but she forgot to tell him that’s what she likes.

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