Chapter 1
Met a girl in 2005. She was working at the time. Unfortunately I knocked her up. So she quit her job. She told me she was on the pill. Her mother laughed and showed me her pills on the top of her fridge….the packet was unused.
I stayed with her, did what I thought was the right thing. She fought so much with her family and my family I took a job interstate to get her away from the drama.
I tried to make it work. She got pregnant again (my bad this time). We moved back home before the baby was born.
When the baby was born I had had enough. I was working full time and taking care of kids minute I walked through the door. She slept in (even when I had to go to work), partied, cheated etc. I’m not sure if the baby is even mine. Too scared to get a paternity test.
Left her when baby was 3 months old. She pulled the usual bulls~~~: restaining orders, not letting me see the kids, court dragged on for months before I could see the kids
Chapter 2
Met a woman some time later. She was great in helping me through stress of not seeing my kids etc.
We got married
Meanwhile my ex got remarried and had a child. My wife and my ex were always at loggerheads with these two assholes for keeping my kids away, breaking court orders etc.
Eventually the guy left my ex. He tried to say sorry for believing my exes bulls~~~ stories. I told my wife I didn’t really want to talk to him. He was just as responsible by enabling her to keep kids from me etc. Meanwhile, this guy (who had a child with my ex) started having the same problems as me……keeping his child from him (who is my kids half sibling). He would bitch on the phone to my wife about my ex blah blah….”she didn’t drop my kid off on time.” “She didn’t drop ours off either.” Blah blah…
My wife got pregnant.
I started to grow some b~~~~ when my wife started to get really controlling and bossy.Went to marriage counseling. She kept storming out of the sessions when the counseller would disagree with her “my way or the highway” attitude.
My son was born in the January. By the end of March she had me taken off our lease in secret so Icouldnt enter the property, beat the s~~~ out of me in front of the kids and kicked us out on the street………..
AND guess who moved in!!! MY FIRST EXES EX HUSBAND!! He had a job over 100k and a house. She had it planned all along. My childrens half sibling was now sleeping in their bedroom they got kicked out of!! My wife and this guy put their personal vindictive selves ahead of my children and his child’s emotional well being.
Now she didn’t let me see my son unti court was settled. Pulled the same s~~~ as my first ex. WITH HIM THERE AGAIN BY HER SIDE IN COURT ETC!!!!!!!!
Even then she broke the orders for over 6 months without punishment. Once it got back to court she was only “threatened to lose full custody” if she didn’t hand over my son.
Now she has a child with this guy. He bought out his house from my first ex and she now happily lives there. They have a baby together.</p>
Chapter 3
Dating IS impossible for me. Let alone having a relationship.
Women either:
1. Don’t wanna date a guy with 3 kids to 2 different women (but its ok for them to do it)
2. Give it a try but eventually leave cause the situation is complicated
3. Their friends or family pressure them that I’m scum and they can do better.
4. Want kids of their own, but not if I’ve already got three.
5. My female friends have no interest in setting me up because they would not know any respectable person who would go near me and my situation with a ten foot pole!!
I’ve got a full time job as a teacher of autistic children 73k . So’ Im a nice guy. I had always dated pretty girls so I’m not struggling in the looks department.
Lastly, s~~~ man! I have tried online dating as well. The same principal from above applies.
Guys with kids are blacklisted if you are a professional or good looking girl.
Or if a girl shows interest and I do be honest and explain my story they run for the hills! Honesty obviously does not work with women.
Another thing girls do on these sites is that they wanna chat for weeks before you meet. This gives them time to suss you out. But all it does is create an opportunity for me to say something they don’t agree with…..then they tell me to f~~~ off or ignore me. Once you aren’t their bitch slave, they wipe you. Even if they have kids themselves.
I had a girl with a child tell me that she wouldn’t be able to handle dating me cause I’ve got kids. And get this “I think you would be too affectionate” lol!!!!!! Hahahaha! Sorry, I forget to be an asshole. That would have got me the girl!
Also,If you set up a date and say “ok see you Friday night.” And don’t contact them, they think you have blown them off because you don’t message them every 5 minutes! It’s a catch 22. You don’t contact you’re an asshole. If you do, you’re needy or you will say something I don’t agree with and I’ll wipe you. Doesn’t matter if she’s fat, thin, ugly, hot, unemployed, a Doctor!
Ok that’s my rant.
Thanks for reading.
Binary Logic 4 years, 6 months ago.
