My Story

[draconic1Participant 89]

Hello Fellow MGTOW,

I’m 33 and fell into a compatible way of thinking after a life threatening illness in my 20’s where the girl who had me wrapped around her finger completely for about 4 years of close and I thought at the time meaningful relationship started cheating on me while I was in the hospital in her words, because I hadn’t been able to screw her for a month, and became outright bitch-mode angry destructive towards me afterwards, while still trying to put on a show to her family and others that she wanted to things to work out but I was being an asshole. Really found out who my friends were. Ruined my social life, destroyed my heart, and she tried to raid what was left of my wallet in the end with a lot of dumb bulls~~~ excuses but I guarded it and kicked her to the curb. Only good thing about how that ended was we hadn’t gotten married. Thank God.

Went and had rebound sex until I had exhausted my fantasies, and while I’ve met a handful of decent women over the years I’ve seen too many of my friends divorced and financially screwed to ever consider marriage. Long term with kids? Maybe with the right girl, won’t touch a single mother. Once I stopped actively dating I was able to save money and build my finances effectively, driving cheap crap and wearing cheap crap has kept most people away and my friends are all intelligent, hard-working people with varied skill-sets. Great to have a beer with too. Can’t keep female friends, they end up in bed eventually except a few buddies’ girls.

Soon I won’t gain much by living cheap anymore and I’m looking to elevate my game and live a little more once I hit that milestone. Looking forward to get to know you guys, seems like a nice crowd.

[Anonymous 42]

One thought just came to mind, It must be tough for women these days to actually find a willing decent man. They must be turning up the speed on the c~~~ carousel in hopes of finding decency as they all unknowingly f~~~ the same Chad. Kin to eating the entire garbage dump in hopes of a 4 course delicious meal.

This is the word left behind after feminism’s 50 year mighty roar! Soon their will be nothing but and open platform on the c~~~ carousel with 1 Chad in the middle with every STD sent from hell.

Welcome to MGTOW draconic1, this is one of only a few places where men have cleaned the carousel grease off themselves even under their nails.

Enjoy your Chad ladies, he’s your just reward!

[draconic1Participant 89]

Yeah it’s a normal thing to have your heart ripped out male or female. I’d been in relationships that went sour but I never experienced a girl I lived with for years immediately turning on me the second I was physically weak and trying to squeeze every last drop out and leave me completely broken. I don’t pretend to be as hardcore as some of you guys but ultimately you don’t go your own way by doing what other people do or recommend. Evaluate, accept or discard, continue. Thinking too much just shuts up your gut and leads to bad choices in my experience.

To me MGTOW is about raising awareness to know when someone is trying to steal from you, evaluating your longheld values, discarding what doesn’t work, exploring what really satisfies you, and setting goals one step at a time until you’ve “made it.” Right now I enjoy what I’ve built and share it with those I care about. Younger days I just wanted to establish myself financially, build some wealth, and do multiple women at the same time. Once you have something the hardest part is holding onto it, but getting it tends to toughen you up to where it’s not that bad. Hence no marriage. I don’t think it’s smart to reject female closeness outright, not all of them deserve that and there are benefits as long as there’s mutual respect and you don’t allow overreach. Tough situations to find and if I had kids I’d never look at another one, but all living things replicate no reason I should say no to biology because society is FUBAR.

[Anonymous 42]

draconic1 wrote:

Thinking too much just shuts up your gut and leads to bad choices in my experience.

I’m not comprehending this “Thinking too much”. I found turning the guns of introspection(DEEP THOUGHT) outward was my atomic f~~~ing bomb to shatter the illusions! I lived a life of constant and endless suffocation having women suck all the air out of a room and wiping the smiles of everyone’s faces. There’s not a woman on this planet that has gone nearly as deep as I have in the depths of internalized thought.
I live in a real and genuine condemned family campground under CEASE&DESIST in a home built upon an illegal and invalid grandfathered residential subdivision building lot.

I have the same massive blueprint and analysis that can be applied to feminism, almost identical condemnation comparing Married men to the destroyed and abandoned lots. Comparing single and free men like the very few houses scattered throughout, in some places houses being 1 out of 200 lots.

The law is the law and stands eternally molested with nothing you can do, no place to turn, everything everywhere overgrown and set burn.
Land Court/Family Court they’re both COURTS of LAW.
In family court the men are stripped of the family and forbidden their place in life’s building lots.

And you with your comfortable life, your comfortable house, think you’re safe cause you didn’t marry? Think again, there’s a tall forest of bias and corrupt laws giving single narcissistic manipulative women the matches needed to set you ablaze by torching the forest that surrounds your house.

draconic1 wrote:

I don’t think it’s smart to reject female closeness outright, not all of them deserve that and there are benefits as long as there’s mutual respect and you don’t allow overreach.

Law doesn’t give a f~~~ who deserves what! For men they tie you to a steak, laugh in utter glee, cut off your dick then using legal kerosene they burn you ALIVE!

You better start treating women with a little more respect. I don’t play with fire breathing dragons while being surround by all the legal kindling packed between the trees!

You’re pretty f~~~ing dauntless if think women are legally kind and safe…

[BufordParticipant 935]

Welcome mate.

Onward…

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Welcome.

Same happen to me, my last ex was a nurse too. She was only in it for the attention though.

With a avatar like that, you’re a winner in my book.

Cheers

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Welcome brother. Here you have friends that will share our experiences. Knowledge is true power.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[draconic1Participant 89]

Thanks for the welcomes!

To Laughing, same issue, this girl had a huge victim complex and when I was getting attention for having a legit medical problem, it was all about how her problems were that bad too but no one was listening.

To Tower, I’m glad you were able to overcome the feminine oppression. That land case sounds very severe, going against a large developer is nearly impossible without serious community action. This isn’t because of the law itself though, it’s a result of politicians in one’s pocket and lawyers twisting things to make the law apply to you but not them. The way around it is use the same corrupt system to twist their arm harder so they lose. This requires massive resources and is out of the hands of most of us. So best thing is, like you, be aware of the system and protect yourself as well as you can. Thanks for the tips, comfort is a dangerous state to be in and few people enjoy seeing someone enjoy their life unless it’s the template family situation that’s generally just a show. I will up the vigilance. I do understand my state’s cohabitation laws and believe me, not interested in putting myself at risk out of some misguided beliefs.

You’re right that deserving is a kid’s concept, but my experience has shown decent relationships exist. Usually in traditional areas of the Midwest or smaller towns with shotgun wedding situations where everyone is basically living the same way, grew up and will die together, and community shame keeps the women from going off the beaten path. Places that haven’t caught up to the mainstream yet. But life is change…

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