My story

[Reveling RevelatorParticipant 15]

Hello everyone

I’m in my mid-20’s, discovered MGTOW on Youtube when I was 20. I’ve been so lucky as to never have been in a relationship. But, even when you’re not, women can still be manipulative and, for lack of a better word, insufferable. Two such women, among many others, paved the way for me towards becoming MGTOW. One was a “friend”, the other was my mother.

For 8 years, during my teenage years, I was basically an emotional tampon for this lying “friend” of mine. We both liked anime. Whenever she was feeling sad, I would, to my shame now, drop everything and go full white knight. And this was like every week for 8 years, consoling her for hours at a time. But whenever I was feeling down, she would almost never reciprocate. I thought that “friends” looked out for each other, and not just one looking out for the other, but apparently I was just a tool for her to use and discard as she saw fit. Whenever I would call her out on this, she would flat out deny any responsibility and just shift the blame unto me, saying: “Well, that was your choice to help me.” Once, I asked her if she even gave a damn about me. She said that she didn’t know what to say. I pressed her on the matter and said: “It’s not an essay question. Yes or no?” She continued to dodge the question. It all ended when I caught her lying to my face red-handed. She had told me that she was too tired to talk that evening. The next morning, she posts on Facebook that she’s had the time of her life talking with other friends the entire night. This was basically the final piece of evidence for me that she did in fact not give a damn after everything that I had done for her.

Between the time of my parents’ divorce, when I was 2 years old, and until I moved out of the house at age 19, I was raised by a single mother. I know, the horror. Don’t even get me started on what she did to my dad, causing him to divorce her. Most of the time I was left to my own devices in my room, playing Pokémon and whatnot. But then two things happend: 1) I became old enough to get a driver’s license, and despite being stressed out already by a multitude of subjects in the middle of high school with homework assignments often being given in huge bulks rather than a few at a time, she forced me to take a driver’s license. Why? So I could drive her drunk ass home from parties. Because she was tired of doing it for her father, my grandfather, so now it was my turn “goddammit”. Well s~~~, if it was so horrible driving him home and missing out on “the fun”, then why subject me to it? Seems more than a bit hypocritical. 2) When daddy welfare stopped paying, I had to pay, or she was going to kick me, her only child, unto the street. Mind you, I was in the middle of high school at the time with nowhere near the means with which to support myself. At one point she had me so messed up with anxiety that I experienced selective mutism around her. And you know what happend, when I couldn’t respond to her for the life of me? She laughed in the face of my anxiety. Always belittling me. It was emotional/psychological abuse, and all the while she pictured herself as the perfect role model. Eventually we reached a settlement, until I moved out of the house to go to college.

Other than that I had always wondered about things like men paying on dates and male-only conscription. In my country, all 18 year old males are called in, under threat of fines and imprisonment, to be screened for possible compulsory military service. The females? Oh, they’re simply invited to come, if they so please. So I spent the whole day at this military facility, first being forced to watch boring as hell campaign videos about career options in the military, and then forced to undergo physical and psychological testing. It all culminated with me being forced to strip down to my underpants, see a female doctor, who then proceeds to only talk about the psychological, because apparently I’ve put down some worrisome answers in the questionnaire. “Do you have many friends?” No. “How do you feel about loud noises” I hate them. Thus I was forced to talk about my personal issues, half-naked, in front of a female doctor. It was altogether one of the most humiliating experiences of my life. Thankfully it resulted in me being evaluated as unfit for military service. I would not fit into a military setting – I abhor so-called “authority figures”. When I came home and told my mother what had happend, she immediately accused me of having cheated on the test. Because after all, how could I possibly have such widespread personal issues what with her “excellent parenting”.

Many Sandman-videos, TFM-videos and failed therapy sessions later, and here I am. Living on my own in a studio apartment, soon to be 170 square feet for cheap, in the middle of my hometown. Sociology graduate specializing in HR and organization, struggling to land the first paid job in this horrible job market, wherein 3 internships and 150+ applications don’t count for much of anything.

Pleased to meet you all.

EDIT: I put the important bits in bold in case of TL;DR.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome RR. S M W.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Welcome Reveling Revelator!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home !

[Anonymous 13]

What a pair of completely reprehensible c~~~s.

Welcome.

[OldBillParticipant]

Welcome, RR.

My first piece of advice: Get off Facebook and all other social media.

My second piece of advice: Work towards a building career outside of “human resources”. You need to do this for three primary reasons.

First, HR is feminist clap trap imposed on companies by government mandates. It’s nothing more than “work fare” for c~~~s and consists of little more than useless paper shuffling. More and more companies are getting around this government requirement to hire c~~~s to do nothing by outsourcing their HR “needs” to third parties, third parties which are increasingly overseas.

Second, if you have trouble dealing with women already, you’re not going to do well in a “career” which is overwhelming staffed by women.

Third, as a man you need to do something in which you can take pride. Shuffling paper in some government-mandated busy work position alongside a herd of c~~~s isn’t anything to be proud of.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome young Reveling Revelator, Great intro.. Here’s a beer 🍺 you’re old and mgtow enough to handle it 👍

Reveling Revelator wrote:

I’m in my mid-20’s, discovered MGTOW on Youtube when I was 20. I’ve been so lucky as to never have been in a relationship. But, even when you’re not, women can still be manipulative and, for lack of a better word, insufferable

Reveling Revelator wrote:

I thought that “friends” looked out for each other, and not just one looking out for the other, but apparently I was just a tool for her to use and discard as she saw fit.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings RR,

Appreciate your introduction and the good comments/ advice that it has generated.

Many enslaved Blue Pill men are oblivious to their circumstances. As long as they are clueless, they are like flies wrapped in a cocoon caught in a Black Widow’s spider Web. It is a shame, when Red Pill awareness happens after the last drop of blood is taken and it is too late.

So, it is always great when young fellows like yourself are awakened to Woman’s Nature and open to the advice of Free Men.

It also allows the more Red Pilled, experienced, and old timers to be able to share their experience, wisdom, and lessons learned.

And those of us freed slaves are allowed some revenge by preventing the Gynocracy from keeping other men in Blue Pill Hell.

Free healthy men are problem solvers by nature, it is one of the more important things that we use to create civilization.

Be prepared to get lots of hard lessons and suggestions on how to live as a free man.

MGTOW has a wealth of information and we are lucky to enjoy this web site’s treasures.

Every word of Old Bill’s reply is gold and contains the wisdom of lessons that I learned the hard way.

Stay away from jobs dominated by the Gynocracy!

Here are some YouTube talks by Mike Rowe that brings up the truth about jobs and real success. He suggests great opportunities for men in today’s economy.

These videos will also help you to fight the foolish programming that was forced upon your generation:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome to the fold

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome!

Huh, my mother is also a c~~~!

[RASmanParticipant 1994]

Welcome RR, you’ve told one hell of a story. It’s amazing how the most physically abusive father can do nothing compared to what a mind-bending mother can do. Focus on you and don’t be shamed. Shaming is abuse designed to push men into the pit of hell.

[Anonymous 18]

Thanks for the introduction brother.

And a warm welcome.

Although you might find a lot of reasons to feel down at days, at your age your world is yours to claim.

You are young and have kept yourself from debilitating vices.

Do get rid of social media and work on yourself. Day in and day out.

Do not force yourself to hate women. It will only take away energy you can use to build yourself. Once you have grown as a man and earned your respect among men (irrespective of women – their approval and disproval are same thing), you will realize indifference to women and our gynocentric society is the best way to live a fulfilling life.

Do not buy into society’s ‘cool, and ‘normal’ labels. They are meant for herds. And herds follow.

Keep your head down. Read. And do not waste money on women.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome bro.

You’re with friends here.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[Remove me!Participant]

Welcome, bro. Sorry you got the short end of the parent stick. But you dodged a bullet not marrying that girl. Looks like you have a good life ahead of you! Good luck on that job search!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Reveling RevelatorParticipant 15]

Thank you one and all for a warm welcome and much appreciated advice. This is indeed home.

OldBill wrote:

Welcome, RR.

My first piece of advice: Get off Facebook and all other social media.

My second piece of advice: Work towards a building career outside of “human resources”. You need to do this for three primary reasons.

First, HR is feminist clap trap imposed on companies by government mandates. It’s nothing more than “work fare” for c~~~s and consists of little more than useless paper shuffling. More and more companies are getting around this government requirement to hire c~~~s to do nothing by outsourcing their HR “needs” to third parties, third parties which are increasingly overseas.

Second, if you have trouble dealing with women already, you’re not going to do well in a “career” which is overwhelming staffed by women.

Third, as a man you need to do something in which you can take pride. Shuffling paper in some government-mandated busy work position alongside a herd of c~~~s isn’t anything to be proud of.

Thank you, OldBill. While I am still on Facebook to keep up with family and friends, I only spend a few minutes a day. Which, admittedly, can still be a confidence breaker and overall depressing. Indeed, I’ve come to experience the very same things that you’ve mentioned during my internships in HR. A bunch of women shuffling paper, talking all day, barely getting any work done – basically pretending to be busy, when really they aren’t. Guess who got the privelege of doing all the grunt work? The few men in the department, including me. At my latest job interview, they recommended that I should apply for work in business intelligence, which is a more male oriented field. My primary skills are statistics and analysis in regards to organization. At my latest internship, my main job function was statistical reports on workplace accidents and how to prevent them from happening. So now my job hunting strategy has shifted from HR in the public sector to business intelligence in the private sector, focusing on unsolicited applications to corporations in growth. In my country, the corporations with the most growth are awarded annually with the “Gazelle prize” – I mainly apply at these corporations. So with all of this in mind, I shall take your sound advice to heart, sir.

The Manipulated Man wrote:

Here are some YouTube talks by Mike Rowe that brings up the truth about jobs and real success. He suggests great opportunities for men in today’s economy.

These videos will also help you to fight the foolish programming that was forced upon your generation:

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Thank you, The Manipulated Man. I’ve already seen Mike Rowe’s video, but it remains relevant. Lucikly, in my country, college is subsidized. In this regard, I’v only ever had to pay for books and a high tax rate. So luckily, I’m not in debt. On the contrary, my late father left me a small fortune, which has been invested in low-risk stocks. The pay-off each year is small, but certain. It’s always a few thousand extra. But, if I can’t find work within the next year and two months, my unemployment benefits will evaporate until this small fortune has been spent on my living expenses. So until I can find a job in business intelligence, or make something out of a few ideas that I have for self-employment, I’m at the mercy of having fallen prey to this programming of which you speak: Get a college degree and you’re guaranteed a good job that pays well and makes you fulfilled as a human being. Such lies.

Anonymous wrote:

Do get rid of social media and work on yourself. Day in and day out.

Do not force yourself to hate women. It will only take away energy you can use to build yourself. Once you have grown as a man and earned your respect among men (irrespective of women – their approval and disproval are same thing), you will realize indifference to women and our gynocentric society is the best way to live a fulfilling life.

Do not buy into society’s ‘cool, and ‘normal’ labels. They are meant for herds. And herds follow.

Keep your head down. Read. And do not waste money on women.

Thank you, iLearn. I have been struggling with red pill rage for a few years now. Though it seems to be fading due to a revelation (no pun on my username intended) I had a while back. I was in a deep, dark pit of depression, ruminating on how the world didn’t make sense. Until I had an epiphany: The natural world does make sense (with a few exceptions if you care at all for human wellbeing) – it’s just that civilization has added a ton of nonsensical artefacts like gynocentrism. Humanity, and our ancient ancestors, were polygamous after all. I am looking forward to exploring this topic in the coming days. Working on myself, as it were. But first, I need to prepare for moving into my new minimalistic apartment. Unlike the herd, I don’t buy into consumerism. What with no interest in relationships, what use do I have for status objects? Thank you for your advice.

[Anonymous 6]

Getaye RR.
I was raised by a single mother and forced to face the unpleasant flaws of human nature at early age also.
I went my own way some thirty years ago and largely had to stand alone. I occasionally got quiet support from other men which did mean a lot to me. But no real public support.
It isn’t just about going against the gynocentric norm, you will have to struggle against your own instincts as well.
Learn to observe what’s going on inside yourself, watch carefully and you will learn a great deal. The vast majority of deceptions are quite obvious when you pay attention.

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