My situation

[Lone WolfParticipant 18]

Hello all, I created my profile last year and found my first gf in 3 years shortly after, but I’ll probably end up single again. This is basically going to be a rant and tell you my experience with a divorced single mother. Her ex cheated on her during marriage and ended marrying the person he had the affair with. They had 2 boys together and she’s bitter because she has to raise them every other week without a father and he’s moved on. She’s basically bossy, stays stressed, and thinks she can control a man. Ater only 6 months she wanted me to move in and be fully involved, but I haven’t. Like I said, she has them every other week, but I’ve been with her the whole week she doesn’t have the kids. She knew ahead of time that like to go fishing in my kayak or watch some sports, but I feel that would be almost non existent if I had moved in. Her house is in her name, so I’d get nothing out of it and be told to leave at any moment. I’ve helped her fix up things around the house, but I don’t pay for materials. She doesn’t know how to communicate very well and bitches through texting. I rarely ever respond or keep it short because I’m done arguing with women by texting. Then she expects me to constantly have sex with her and I can’t get in the mood lately from all the bitching. She even confessed that she was a bitch to her ex husband, but she hasn’t improved much at all. What really irked me last week, she said I couldn’t rest or close my eyes around the kids if she couldn’t in a serious tone. They’re not my kids and I could’ve had my own with a bitch if I wanted to hear those things. Basically, I have no issues with the boys, but I don’t want her to make me feel bad for wanting to have my own life. Also, I don’t want be told what to do or not do or tell her kids what to do when it’s only convenient for her. I’ve chosen not to have kids for financial reasons, freedom of my time, and the fact I can’t see myself happy with any woman for that long. I think it’s selfish for her to think I’d put everything in her life first when she basically said I’d go before her cat would. Honestly, I don’t care where I’m put in someone’s life. I just want someone that understands I’m not needy and feel it’s good to have other interests, but most women don’t understand why you wouldn’t want to give them all your time. I would plan the weekend around her and the kids if she talked ahead of time, but I never get much notice. Most, if not all women try to be the man, it’s so annoying and unattractive. I just refuse to be a full fledged mangina and cave into all the demands and they always leave.

[Anonymous 42]

You’re saturated with clam juice, shower that bitch down the drain and into the septic tank where she belongs! If not, we can start calling you Mumford…. Mumford O’Crowley….

[RoyDalParticipant]

@UKfan81;

I sense you are getting more misery than enjoyment from your relationship with that woman. I have broken up with women for less cause than she is dishing out to you. If I were in your fishing boots, I would move on — but I have a low tolerance for aggravation these days.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[kizellParticipant 368]

I never date women with kids and you should not either. They will always suck the life force out of you.

Move on……….be an asshole if you must.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

It sounds like you set some boundaries. She’s pick pick picking at them. Sorta goes to show she has no respect for you. I think the answer is pretty clear what you should do.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Hey there,

So let’s play a game called “Identify the Red Flags!”

Red Flag 1:

Lone Wolf wrote:

divorced single mother.

Uh-Oh…

Red Flag 2:

Lone Wolf wrote:

Her ex cheated on her during marriage and ended marrying the person he had the affair with.

So her ex wasn’t just playing around for fun; he was seeking a partnership with someone who actually gave a damn about him, and he showed how serious he was by marrying the woman he had an affair with. Doesn’t look good for your GF right now…

Red Flag 3:

Lone Wolf wrote:

she’s bitter

In her mind, you two are already married so she doesn’t need to go through the seduction process.

Red Flag 4:

Lone Wolf wrote:

She’s basically bossy, stays stressed, and thinks she can control a man.

Lookout: Cap’n, I see a wall
Cap’n: Huh?
Lookout: THE WALL! FOR SHIP’S SAKE!!! WALL DEAD AHEAD!!!!

Red Flag 5:

Lone Wolf wrote:

only 6 months she wanted me to move in and be fully involved

Why wouldn’t you? You are her property, you two are unofficially married, and she is entitled to you being her slave for life.

Red Flag 6:

Lone Wolf wrote:

Her house is in her name

Yeah. Her husband is a jerk, he had an affair with another woman, and she was completely innocent during the marriage so she deserves the house that he probably paid for.

The fact that the court (Which typically gives women full custody as long as they are sane) did not grant her full custody is just a fluke and she”s a victim to that.

Red Flag 7:

Lone Wolf wrote:

She doesn’t know how to communicate very well and bitches through texting.

I think I can see why she’s a divorced mom.

Red Flag 8:

Lone Wolf wrote:

She even confessed that she was a bitch to her ex husband

Hmm. Why doesn’t she make things right by giving him back HIS HOUSE?

Red Flag 9:

Lone Wolf wrote:

she said I couldn’t rest or close my eyes around the kids if she couldn’t in a serious tone.

I just…can’t anymore. Good night everybody.
OP, you’re smart to be keeping your distance. Cheers!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

What you are looking for will not be found with this woman ….. and most women.

You will find it within.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Let me ask you this very simple question. What is the benefit or the point in having this woman as your girlfriend?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Greetings and welcome. I will be as nice as possible: get the hell out of that relationship, if you want to even call it that. Someone above gave you the red flags and couldn’t even continue with the list there were so many. I won’t pretend like i know you or your situation but you are possessed by her. She is not just controlling you. She is attempting to control your life. The bitterness the children the lack of respect the ex the demands to fix her stuff the demands to move in etc. All for just sex and companionship? Get the hell out of that mess. TODAY!

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[WallyParticipant]

I got depressed just reading your post, she has pretty much told you the way she’s going to treat you. It’s a blessing that she admits she is a bitch, a preview of what’s to come if you stay.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Lone Wolf wrote:

I would plan the weekend around her and the kids if she talked ahead of time, but I never get much notice. Most, if not all women try to be the man, it’s so annoying and unattractive. I just refuse to be a full fledged mangina and cave into all the demands and they always leave.

I lived this man. During my marriage I might get two to three days notice before some misbegotten social function or weekend event.

I would suggest that you drive by her house one last time, then keep on driving and never look back. You are not responsible for her or her two kids.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[scroteParticipant 7]

Dude, simple solution: Get. The. F~~~. Out. You already know what she is like, you laid it out for us, she is not a fine wine, she will not improve with age. Whatever looks she has that made you want to f~~~ her in the first place will only deteriorate over time, her attitude will probably get worse. As an added bonus if you fall for it, marry her, and she gets custody of the children you could end up on the hook for child support. For further red pill, look up terrence popp on youtube, specifically a video called dignity siphon.

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